Comments on: Stalker or Not: Part 2

By: jessica

jessica — Wed, 01 Feb 2006 19:31:17 +0000

jmo- these boys on the churning are missing something here. a 5 or 6? and not that stelker-like?

wtf?

this guy’s a freak… who calls that many times in a few days. i cn’t believe you called him back even to tell him you don’t want to talk to him ever again…

and now i’m dying to know what does ev and jj qualify as a true stalker? someone that hides in the bushes and taps your calls?

wtf?

By: J.Mo

J.Mo — Sat, 14 Jan 2006 03:49:58 +0000

Eating dongs is the best thing ever. Suck a fuck, Ev.

April, no kidding. Puss makes men crazy, especially mine.

By: April

April — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 21:38:40 +0000

Sheez, I tell ya, give a guy a little puss, and see what he turns into. And men complain about women getting all attached and shit.

I’d give him an 8 on the stalker scale!!

By: Ev

Ev — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 20:19:26 +0000

Dear J.Mo,

Suck a fuck.

Sincerely,

P.S. Ha ha ha you eat dongs for a living! Immaturity rulz!

By: J.Mo

J.Mo — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 20:12:22 +0000

JJ: Actually, that was another guy. Because of my experience with Ben the Stalker, I asked your advice about whether I should call and tell someone I wasn’t interested in them or just ignore him. I took your advice and never called him back. Then, a few weeks later, he called me (twice). I decided to call him and tell him I wasn’t interested. He said he appreciated my honesty and thanked me for calling him back.

CRo: Hahah. I was just telling P3 the “Appliance Man calling me a Devil Woman” story yesterday. Appliance Man, for those that don’t know is this guy I hooked up during my one-night stand phase. Besides telling me that he would “make out with me, but not go all the way” and turning on lots of appliances, lights, and water faucets before leaving my apt in the morning, he called me a a devil woman before getting into the elevator. P3 replied to my story, “It’s no wonder you think I’m a nice guy. The guys you’ve met in the past are fucking freaks.” Freaks attrack freaks, I suppose.

By: C Ro

C Ro — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 16:23:16 +0000

Oh, J.Mo, you can’t blame Ben or any other stalker boys. It’s just that you’re just a beguiling Devil Woman.

By: JJ

JJ — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 15:56:14 +0000

Yeah, I remember you telling me about that guy. You were kinda freaked out a little when he started calling you weeks after the fact.

I understand not wanting to hurt someone’s feelings on a voicemail. But I’d say the first voicemail you left him, after he called saying he needed a place to crash for the night, could’ve gone something like this:
“Ben, sorry I missed your call. I hope you found a place to crash. It’s probably for the best anyway. Sunday was just a one time thing for me. Hope you understand. Take care.”

Of course at that point you had no idea he was going to keep calling you. Hindsight’s 20 20 and all that.

By: J.Mo

J.Mo — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 15:28:30 +0000

JJ: When I’m not interested in someone, I prefer to tell them face-to-face (or on the phone is that’s not an option) rather than not calling back. It’s what I would expect from others too. I think 7 times in one night is more than excessive. By the way, I did run into Ben again and he ‘briefly’ became obsessed with me again. And chose to ignore me on the phone when I said I was not interested in him. And he said that he called me all those times before because he was trying to ‘prove a point’ about me not returning all his calls. Yeah, riiiigghhtt….. I’d agree with you though. 7, borderline 8, easily reaching 10, if given an opportunity.

RockyJay: Now, THAT is funny.

Ev: I’m pissed at you and never want to see you again in my entire life. I didn’t know you had such a fragile ego. Just kidding. So, I’m a bitch.

Mojotek: Good points. Yeah, I’m the queen of drunk-dialing, but 7! times in a span of 6 hours???

By: mojotek

mojotek — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 14:10:48 +0000

Oh yeah, and I’m sure he had told his buddy ‘Carl’ all about Sunday night and Carl was egging him on to call over and over again too…

By: mojotek

mojotek — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 14:09:30 +0000

About a 6…

I’m thinking because he thought he scored so easily the first night that it would be the same exact way there after. I’m kinda with JJ, in that if you had never returned his calls, I’d give him a higher score.

The bus and apartment thing is a little creepy, but I’m betting when he was calling then he probably had a few drinks in him. I’m also thinking that later when he called a bazillion times on Friday night that he had even more dirnks in him and was just calling over and over again in desperation because he was “all horned up”.