Normal Age for a First Kiss
July 17th, 2006 by JJ
I should probably apologize to The Churning Loyalists for my lack of updates. But I’m not going to. Momo and I just moved into our new house on Friday and we don’t have Internet access yet. God damn, I’m a whiny excuse-making piece of shit.
I’ll make it up to you all later, but for now I’ll keep you busy with my second entry in the “Am I Normal?” category. Today’s topic: What’s the normal age for a person to have their first kiss? How old were you? (Yes I realize this is sugary and innocent. We’ll address some dirtier shit another time.)

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I’ll start things off…
I was 14. At the time, it seemed like I was pretty old to have a first kiss. Looking back on it, I was really just a kid. A shy pussy skater emo kid with girly-looking long blond hair. No wonder it took me so long to snag a smooch.
Kiss on the lips– I was 6… We played “the Last Unicorn” and if he caught me [ and he was the Red Bull] he got to kiss me.
Kiss with tongues– I was 11. We were at a field trip to the swimming pool. We got caught by our teacher and were sent home for the day.
Shit. This makes me look bad, doesnt it? Golly. Im not playing the ‘first time doing it’ question.
Can I ask the audience please. Erm, waitamin… you just already did.
I started late, must have been 6 already I think, but being Belgian I take pride of country’s honours and choose them always younger and younger. *ducks away*
juicya, great way to get a day off, never thought of doing it in front of my teacher, I mean kissing of course.
Hmm, I think I was 13 or 14. Felt like I was the last kid left on Earth that hadn’t kissed. The boy smelled like Doritos & I didn’t really like him anyway, but we had a week of “going out” which involved holding hands in the hallways when nobody was around. Erg. Flashbacks, awkward flashbacks!
Girls don’t like me.
My real first ‘peck’ was when I was about 5 or 6 and of course we didn’t even know what we were doing. We were just immitating adults.
My first real kiss with tongues and all was about 11 or 12. A little early I guess, but its not like I kept the streak alive. It was another few years before my next one… wow, I actually sound lame when I re-read this.
siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh. 18. so fucking lame.
My first peck: I was four, and it was with a classmate behind a bookshelf.
My first kiss with tongue: I was nineteen and I was attacked by a guy at a music festival.
My first real kiss with tongue: When I was twenty.
I was 15, just shy of my 16th birthday. He was in his 20s. Kinda icky right?
Let me know when the house is ready for a party!
Hmmm. First Frenchy kiss (of the non-head-butt variety) was during the summer between 7th and 8th grade. Quick goat thinking reveals that I was 13.
Regular kiss: 10.
French kiss: 12.
aside from creepy Pre-K lip locking, i first tasted someone else’s tongue around the age of 11. I was at summer camp and we stayed behind when everyone else went to the raquetball courts.
his name was jarrod and he had blonde, curly hair. he tasted like hot summer mouth and hot tamales, which i believe has led to my aversion to cinnamon to this day.
12 years old playing Spin La Bottella but my first kiss that rocked my world was at 16.
sad…i don’t remember my first kiss, but i think my first french kiss was when i was 9.
First peck was Angela Barrett in kindergarten. We were in the library sitting in alphabetical order. I told Eric Angulo to lean forward.
First tounge was Tiffany Ferris in 6th grade, on the playground, after school.
First kiss I remember really counting was Tara Phillips my sophomore year. She was student council president.
BTW, sorry I missed you in Philly this weekend, the Lips were phenomenal. I look forward to seeing the new digs.
To make things easy, let’s assume we’re talking about a serious kiss, not a peck on the lips. Open mouth, with tongue…
Okay, here are the numbers:
JJ: 14
JuicyA: 11
Franky: 6
Shirley: 13.5
Mojotek: 11.5
Sarah: 18
Marie B.: 19.5
C.Ro: 13
Marc: 12
Jessica: 11
Maritza: 12
J.Mo: 9
Mikey: 11
So the average age for a first “French” kiss is 12.4
My first kiss was the summer between 5th and 6th grade. I’m too lazy to figure out how old I was, but I’ll tell you the story.
I went to Philly to visit my sister and apparantly all the kids there had not only french kissed, but they’d had their boobies touched too!! I had not done either, but really didn’t want anyone touching my boobies OR sticking their tongue down my throat. My friends brother was pressuring me to make out with him and I finally agreed. So he took me by the hand, led me down an alley and practically swallowed my entire head and slobbered all over my shirt. I needed a bib. I didn’t kiss another boy until 8th grade. And NO he wasn’t allowed to touch my boobies. I was affraid he might rip them clear off my chest.
Well if we’re just talking real kiss with tongues then I’ll have to say 14 with a girl and 15 with a boy.
At 6.
French kiss? At 12.
Both pretty appropriate ages.
We have some updated numbers…
JJ: 14
JuicyA: 11
Franky: 6
Shirley: 13.5
Mojotek: 11.5
Sarah: 18
Marie B.: 19.5
C.Ro: 13
Marc: 12
Jessica: 11
Maritza: 12
J.Mo: 9
Mikey: 11
April: 10
Ron: 14
RockyJay: 12
The average age for a first “real” kiss: 12.3
Hmm, first kiss at 6 or 7. I was in 1st grade, but I don’t remember if it was beginning or end.
First “real” kiss (open mouth, tongue-play) at 16, and it sucked. Fortunately the guys I dated after him were better at it. LOL
my first real kiss was @ 5 to my friends sister. with a real g/f - middle school @ 14.
jj if you lived in az you would have gotten lots of ass, out here blonde hair blue eyes equals the poootang!
seriously.
A couple more updates…
JJ: 14
JuicyA: 11
Franky: 6
Shirley: 13.5
Mojotek: 11.5
Sarah: 18
Marie B.: 19.5
C.Ro: 13
Marc: 12
Jessica: 11
Maritza: 12
J.Mo: 9
Mikey: 11
April: 10
Ron: 14
RockyJay: 12
DragonLady: 16
Mulk: 5
The average age for a first “real” kiss: 12.25
real kiss..19. sigh.
I was 11 and this older kid on my street grabbed me one night when we were playing after school (I think he was 12) and mouth-raped me.
Gah-ross.
I was so traumatized that I didn’t let another guy kiss me again till I was 16, a sophomore in high school, and ended up making out with a senior behind the sets in the auditorium during rehearsal for some musical we were both in. He was hot, tasted like beer and cigarettes, and was an amazing kisser. Total bad boy. To this day, I can’t kiss a man who smokes without thinking of it.
I was moving away and one of my good friends came over and we were talking about how she had to move soon also. well, in the middle of words, it just came about. and we kissed.
Age: 15
Another update… Keep ‘em coming!
JJ: 14
JuicyA: 11
Franky: 6
Shirley: 13.5
Mojotek: 11.5
Sarah: 18
Marie B.: 19.5
C.Ro: 13
Marc: 12
Jessica: 11
Maritza: 12
J.Mo: 9
Mikey: 11
April: 10
Ron: 14
RockyJay: 12
DragonLady: 16
Mulk: 5
Antickpix: 19
Trouble: 11
C-Dub: 15
The average age for a first “real” kiss: 12.5
Mine was at 14 with a guy whom I was into - he had the whole bad boy thing going for him and he was 18! Lousy kisser though, and turned into a stalker. Thank god we moved away soon after.
…First peck?
4. I jumped him.
First kiss with tounge? 2 summers ago… so when i was 13.
First make out? last winter.
my first peck i was 10.
mY first lip lock(french tounge play)!~!~!
my first time doing it 13.
pretty young ehh.hahahalol
i meant to say my fist lip lock was age 12.
Excellent!
Another update…
JJ: 14
JuicyA: 11
Franky: 6
Shirley: 13.5
Mojotek: 11.5
Sarah: 18
Marie B.: 19.5
C.Ro: 13
Mark: 12
Jessica: 11
Maritza: 12
J.Mo: 9
Mikey: 11
April: 10
Ron: 14
RockyJay: 12
DragonLady: 16
Mulk: 5
Antickpix: 19
Trouble: 11
C-Dub: 15
Jamie: 14
Leigh: 13
Cutie101: 12
The average age for a first “real” kiss: 12.6
I’m sure this’ll make people feel better about themselves…. I had my first kiss at 21.
Me and my (female) friend wanted to know what would happen if we put our tongues together so we stuck them out and touched them at the end. I was 4. Does that count?
First kiss on the lips: with a snotty little boy when i was 5. We played kiss chase and he caught me and kissed me with a big line of snot down his lips. I cried and ran away.
First real kiss: 15. I was at a gig. Everyone always got a kiss at a gig and this guy grabbed me and i was too embarassed to say no until he’d finished.
This’ll make Troll feel better… I was 24.
15 months later I was living with another woman I eventually married and later divorced. Remember that part in Ferris Buhler’s Day Off where he said his friend would fall for the first bitch that came along and have his heart broken? (I’m paraphrasing.) That was so true in my case.
I’m 20 and still waiting. I’m trying not to feel bad about it or think about it, but it’s hard seeing most of my friends in relationships and I don’t even know what it’s like to hold a girl’s hand or peck her on the lips.
My first peck on the lips was when I was six
My first kiss with tongues was when I was eleven
hmmmm…..my first peck was when I was like 4. And my first makeout is when I was 12. Ya I liked it but it was kinda weird. I like making out with my friends….kinda weird I know. Well I dont like it but it is good practice and ya well it is sometimes fun. But ya.
first kiss was 14..at my friends house
I’ve never kissed anyoe and i’m kinda afraid to. It’s sad. This one guy really likes me but every time i’m near him, so are my annoying cousins.
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I was 14 and stupid. He was 16 and a rockerbilly.
I very nearly bit his tongue off as I didn’t realise he was going to stick it in my mouth. Later, I had to fight him off as he tried to divest me of my knickers and my honour. I escaped, but didn’t get kissed again for two years.
I’m 46 and i still haven’t gone out with anyone let alone kiss someone. I hope luck turns my way some day!
Dan, You gotta start using that little fact as part of your game plan. Go out more and get drunk. Ever think about kissing a boy? That’s really fun too. Good Luck man!
Oh and for the tally.
First girl kiss (French Style) 13 Roller rink, Bridgette Collie w/ boob grab and boner for like five days.
First boy kiss (French Style) 16, My house, Ryan Stocken w/ butt touch - boner for only a little while.
I had my first kiss on the lips when i was fifteen in May of ‘06. Later that summer, there were many more kisses, some of them lasting very long, but i never have french kissed. We broke up before i could, and i haven’t had another girlfriend since.
first peck on the lips, i was about 6 or 7.
but still havent french kissed yet:( im 15, just nearing my 16th birthday, worried about it really.
Thanks oldgreensock but i don’t drink.
I’m 14 and have never kissed anyone. cheek, tongue, nada. Oh well…
There are a lot of youngins here. JJ, you’re corrupting America’s youth.
I’m 16 & just had my first kiss [without tongue] about a month ago. my first kiss with tongue was a week or two ago.
I hope those who atill haven’t had theirs don’t rush into it. i used to worry too, but it happened. so just relax when the time is right you will get yours.
I haven’t been kissed at all yet and i am 16…. i am really scared ..
1st french is soon 2 comee so like prob wen im 13
and like lips was 9
Kiss:15
French:17
REALLY
KISS IS 5
FRENCH IS 9
im 19 and have never kissed anyone..i feel like shit about it actually
god help me im 19 ive never kissed anyone i just got so nervous help ppl!!!! plz?
20 n still didn’t KISSED.
neither LIPS nor TONGUE..
GOD DA*N IT. HELP ME GOD, PITY on ME
atleast !
I just turned 12 when I tongued an 11 year old! It was strangley romantic. He had a bunch of zits and his breath wasn’t all that jazz, but it was fine.
It was on my couch and my parents weren’t home. }:) It was soft and succulent, excusing the scents of the mouths.
kiss: I was about 8(lips with my first boyfriend).
French kiss: I was 11(a week before 12)with a boy and 13 with a girl(just about last month).I’m bio-sexual.I had 4 boyfriends and 3 girlfriends.
i was french kissed when i was one years old, i saw it on a video this friend of my parent’s daughter lubed by whole face with her tongue and stick it in my mouth. she kissed me all over my face and lips too. pretty gross really. i was taken full advantage of, i feel so violated. atleast give me time to develop my speech so i can curse your little shit out for being a little whore.
My first was at 17 with a gay male friend. Just friends but he’s a great kisser as well as other things
ok..listen i wuz 12 wen i got my first kiss! then 13 wen i used tongue! but i think the normal age is about 12-14 and to all u other people that sucks for u! but the girl i kissed we were goin out for 3 weeks before we kissed! in the end we broke up and i happened to cheat on her! sucks but it wuz fun=]
ok..listen i wuz 12 wen i got my first kiss! then 13 wen i used tongue! but i think the normal age is about 12-14 and to all u other people that sucks for u! but the girl i kissed we were goin out for 3 weeks before we kissed! in the end we broke up and i happened to cheat on her! sucks but it wuz fun=]
ok..listen i wuz 12 wen i got my first kiss! then 13 wen i used tongue! but i think the normal age is about 12-14 and to all u other people that sucks for u! but the girl i kissed we were goin out for 3 weeks before we kissed! in the end we broke up and i happened to cheat on her! sucks but it wuz fun=]