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17Jul/06519

Normal Age for a First Kiss

Time for my second entry in the "Am I Normal?" category.  Today's topic:  What's the normal age for a person to have their first kiss?  How old were you?  (Yes I realize this is sugary and innocent.  We'll address some dirtier shit another time.)

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  1. @Josh: ummm not that’s the opposite of what she just said…-_- but now I’m confused. I already explained my story but I need an answer. I had my first real relationship this summer and we kissed but not to fit it but because they actually meant something. And I think I was in love. Is it possible? It took me a long time to let go and I still wanna kiss him sometimes HELP

  2. I don’t understand the pairing of maturity with doing things at a young age. The people who are the most ‘mature’ are the ones who don’t get fucked at 13. The people who are the most mature are the ones who are doing their homework and working jobs, not making out with strange.

  3. I just turned 12 and have kissed 2 girls. Girls seem to like me and I’m not shy at all my girlfriend now really likes me and I really like her, but she is reeeaaallllyyyy shy. I wanna kiss her and I’ve made it clear but I’m a little confused on her feelings toword the idea. Once I asked her if she would kiss me (desperate) and she said yes. Then a couple days later we went to get ice cream and she seemed embarrassed. Idk if I should just wing it or what…. I know that once I get it over with I’ll be relieved and she won’t feel so nervous. I know I’m young but I think that kissing is natural and healthy and therefore there’s nothing wrong with it.

  4. Ok Im 16 and i’ve never had my first kiss let alone a gf if i like a girl i drop suttle hints to let them know i like them and i get nothing. what would make me somthing a girl wants i even play football! ladies help me out what am i doing wrong???
    -A nice guy

  5. k,I’m 13 i’m going out with this guy same age i hug him stuff but we havent kissed and i know he wants so kiss me. i dont think i want to kiss him my friend who is best friends with my bf has just kissed her boyfriend and does it all the time and whe i told her i havent had a first kiss she just laughed so what do i do??????????? :s

  6. Wow im 14 and havnt kissed yet, no big deal, i should hve it by the end of this year

  7. @izzy For a whore, you’re awfully picky.

  8. First peck was when I was 5 and I was playing a game on the playground and I told the boy in order the “save me” he had to give me a kiss ( too many disney movies anyone). First real kiss was 5th grade but that was under pressure. Honestly my advixe (coming from a 24 year old) is to honestly just wait for someone you care about. You may feel pressured at the moment to jump into your firsy kiss, but its better to wait until you kiss someone you truly, and by truly I mean someone you’ve been dating for months (if under the age of 16 when “dating refers to adifferent level of commitment) and actually connect with on a emotional and spiritual level, than to just do it because evryone else is. You’ll feel better about It. Its not worth it to rush in or feel pressured into a situation, trust me. Being the odd man out in “sexual” situations will make you feel better about yourself in the end

  9. I’m 13 and i’ve had my first kiss. It was actually really meaningful and with a guy I cared about so for the people who say that’s not possible I KNOW it is. anyways we broke up. I like another guy and he is truly amazing but something tells me he’s just not into me :/ I’ve had to stop myself so many times from getting too close and just straight out kissing his lips. what do I do?!?!

  10. Haha i posted on this when i was 11 saying i never kissed anyone
    Now here i am 2 years later in the same predicament xD

  11. @Josh… Who do you think you are? You must not know any girls huh? Once you get to know us we are sweet woman who take things to heart. What you said and have been saying is very offensive and rude. My conclusion is that your gay, cause you know nothing about girls!

  12. I’m all too familiar with your treacheries, woman.

  13. @Josh or you’re just gay! (im a dude) thats my thought anyways. any who im 17 and my first kiss was at age 12 (pecks). first real kiss was age 14. and girls if your tired of waiting jst go for it reallly just pull the man aside and lay one on him seriously we dont mind! the most pleasurable kiss was a toatle suprise to me the girl jst grabed my jacket and pulled me into an empty class room and went for it! she is my gf now! belive it or not sometimes the football players dont get any cause all the girls think oh he plays football he prolly got a gf and a waiting list of replacements so we get ignored by the majority of the girls! kinda sux . any way my gf still suprises me keeps the relationship young i guess you could say try it ladies! you’re man or man to be will likme it garretied!

  14. Correction to the last sentance. it should be like it not likeme that would be awkward lol sry

  15. @Brock No, I don’t believe you, especially because as a football player you are among that privileged few for whom countless “morally upstanding” fathers will gladly pimp their own daughters out to for the sake of their alma mater’s glory.

    P.S. Your grammar is most definitely the result of a jock’s level of education. But if you aren’t getting then laid, then obviously you have lied about your “athletics”, and in which case your poor grammar is just a matter of being stupid.

  16. @Josh ok bro to graduate in my state as an athlete with the ability of getting a scholarship u are required 2 take 3 years of math above the levle of algebra 1 And an extra year of english/grammer as you will say on top of the graduation requirements i have 2 work through summers cause in 4 years i have to complete 5 years of english i might be a jock but im not a dumb jock! you really should look these things up befor u go acuseing ppl of things really! you kinda look like a dumb ass and as to my sentance structer im on my cell on my lunch break at school so im useing txt lingo keep asking dumb questions if u want cya round josh da gay

  17. @Brock Requirements like this are true in most states, but that doesn’t mean the rules aren’t bent by the teachers and faculty for the sake of the school’s image. Try this out one day for an experiment: swap your homework out with someone else who isn’t on any team… of course, YOU will make the grade, but will the other guy take that chance with your work? I wouldn’t.

  18. @Josh #1 yes the other person would Im a strait a student #2 i wouldnt take that chance! #3 no im not going to try it! #4 i have never recived special treatment from any school or teacher nor has any of my team mates! and i havent asked for it and hope i never feel the need to do so! keep asking me questions i like it its fun! give me somw what of a break at 2am when im cramming

  19. my first kiss was at 12 (about a month ago) she was hot and @josh you sound like a ugly queer and @brock the jock kickass dude

  20. @Brock You’re saying the same thing I’ve heard from my own classmates before… in two separate classes. Isn’t it so nice to be on a athletic scholarship.

  21. omg!!!!!! ive always wanted to do this (dont judge me) fuck you all bitches!!!!!! muwahahahaha!!

  22. ok josh or brock tell me if your seeing my posts i just wanna feel heard

  23. pleeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaazzzzzzze

  24. Wtf ill bite @ethan your insano @ jorshypoo u fail to epic propertions!

  25. well thats kind of mean

  26. and did you call me insane and youll bite me?

  27. and who the hell is jorshypoo

  28. Omg u really are 12! ok um insano awsome epic crazy they are all the same thing! its not mean! now tho i was like kinda mean to the queer gorshypoo but i dont care

  29. hey is anyone else on josh is a freaking creeper and brock turned out to be a dick… to a 12 year old (thats low man just saying)

  30. i really dont give a shit dude and josh got what he deserved hes a low life loser and a sexist and sorry for calling u a dick

  31. and i said id bite at ur plEa to to say hi! and jorshypoo is josh! my god sure ur not 10

  32. Man u can give 5 more posts befor i can even reply dam yeah we cool and im tired im going to bed im done cramming hmul night all

  33. Josh? ethan? im bored again where are you guys? hello? anyone? can you hear me? lol l8r my peeps

  34. …and Brock succeeding in killing the thread by being a dick.

  35. @Josh LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL UR COMMENTS ARE THE BEST MANGG

    LOl

    “For a whore, you’re awfully picky.” lol made my day

  36. DAMN i just read the past month of u 2 and i am rofl! but josh ur an asshole and brock i dont believe u play football because you suck at faking and back to the threads origanal purpose my first REAL kiss was when i was 11 which is young but watev

  37. @Josh stfu fagot. @ t-ray go to hell b4 i pound ur ass into the ground. oh and where do u live?

  38. I believe that constitutes a threat. :)

  39. Im 12 about to be 13 and I have a boyfriend that is the same age and I haven’t had my 1 kiss yet and my boyfriend hasn’t either and we have talked about it and we were going to kiss last Sunday night at church but we didn’t because we got to church late but there is a Christmas party this weekend so I hope he kisses me but im not sure if he is or not so he is leaving me with a BIG ? mark.

  40. @Josh i think u have finaly learned how to take a hint and now take the hint that I and everyone else have been trying to give u! Oh and where do u live?

  41. Wooh first open mouth kiss at 15! Glad I waited:) My first frenchie is still to come…

  42. @Loni If you want it to happen then there’s nothing to be afraid of. You could even kiss HIM if you are too nervous to wait. Actually, yeah thats my advice, kiss HIM! Why must the boy always kiss the girl? Hehe good luck :)

  43. Thax Helly I’ll look for the right time to do it. If u have any more advise for me I’ll try ur advise? Good luck to u to and I hope u git that kiss that u want that frenchie.

  44. I just talked to my boyfriend and he said that he is going to KISS me at that party I cant believe that im having my 1st Kiss at a Christmas party.

  45. @Fapmaster wat do u mean by (BLACK PEOPLE!!!) ????

  46. @Brock It does seem that you are among the privileged, considering that you see nothing wrong with issuing death threats. Why then should it be any different if I should threaten to cut off your penis so that your grand-pappy’s legacy won’t see another generation? Fair is fair, so pack up your trophies, make a withdrawal from your trust fund, and fly your rich ass to the nearest country without extradition… or in more simple terms that you might actually understand: fuck off.

  47. lol i’ve somehow gotten subscribed on this since July somehow and my emails on my phone about you people having these arguments are really funny and also quite annoying.

    i’m not supporting anyone here but I’m just saying : shouldn’t you guys build a bridge and i dunno… GET OVER IT?

    you realise some teens come here in search of real answers for the actual question, right?

    i mean you guys gotten so off topic since it one of you said something that offended the other. how about sucking it up and just spitting a big fat SORRY out and let be over?

    That’s all I have to say :)

    and to throw in my few cents to the ACTUAL topic of this FORUM, I haven’t had my first actual kiss (but I’ve had some sort of one when I was really small) but I’m in an all girls school so male contact isn’t quite regular. This is normal – right?


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