Normal Age for a First Kiss

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Normal Age for a First Kiss

Time for my second entry in the "Am I Normal?" category. Today's topic: What's the normal age for a person to have their first kiss? How old were you? (Yes I realize this is sugary and innocent. We'll address some dirtier shit another time.)

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lucycat
June 17th, 2010 - 13:11

im 11 and i got my 1st kiss a month ago
Kirsty
June 19th, 2010 - 09:24

I had sex foer the first time when i was fourteen but french kiss anyone til i was eighteen.
My advic eis neither mean anything, get your V out the way with and kiss anyone…easy peasy in retrospect.
Kirsty Jackson
June 19th, 2010 - 09:33

I had sex with my brother when i was 11 years old, he was fifteen….i enjoyed it immensly, its NOT wrong. Sibling sex is natural. Its part of growing up i recommend everyone to have sex with there siblings especialy if you want to lose your virginity its a good practice run. We are now both seeing other people but when we want to practice some potential new moves out we always do it to each other first to see it if it will go down well with our partners.
Ramura
June 24th, 2010 - 12:54

I was eighteen when I had my first kiss. I’m twenty three now and still a virgin (by choice . . . I have had opportunities to have sex but I have decided to wait until I am married). It’s a very personal decision. My only advice would be not to feel pressured one way or another. It doesn’t make you a loser to wait until you are married or even to wait until you’re older and in a serious relationship, nor will it cause you to explode in sexual tension. Trust me, I know a lot of people my age or older who are still virgins. No one’s ever died from it.

Don’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
Ann Elizabeth
June 24th, 2010 - 16:48

im 11 right now and have not had my first kiss yet but ive had 2 boyfriends and have alot of friends that are guys but i thought it would b awkard if i kiss them or even go out with them!
KAMALA yes i know it wierd
June 25th, 2010 - 15:44

12 im hoping for this year but……… u nevr no

ya and kristy jackson no offense but u R WIERDDD and sound like a slut but…………………
i could be wrong!!!
caitlin and blake 4eva luv
June 27th, 2010 - 03:11

ive never frenched or peeked but made out and kissed but parents said no but they still dont know i love this guy to death we go 2 camp 4 a week out of the year together and heloves me should i kiss him oooo. and ive never said i loved you in person and scared ive only said it on fb and yahoo but i wanna marrydis guy notsure bout him tho what should i do i luv u blake
Geek84
June 30th, 2010 - 17:39

I am 26 and haven’t got my first kiss yet.
Evilgeniuscutie
July 7th, 2010 - 18:59

Im 14 I had my first kiss when i was 10 and lost my virginity a few months ago. I agree with Ramura…do nothing that you`re not comfortable with. But if you`re comfortable with it, it`s fun
Leila
July 8th, 2010 - 21:42

i’m 11 & have the hottest boyfriend ever. we’ve been going out for almost a year & he kissed me on the lips right before christmas break & then ever since then we’ve been kissing a lot. about a month ago he french kissed me. & my friemd was watching & said we were making out for over 3 mins. haha, but just recently i’ve been sleeping over his house since our parents are close, & one night we were making out & he was starting to touch my boobs and my butt while we were making out. it felt really good & i feel the next time i sleepover his house, i’m gonna have sex with him. i don’t care if i’m only 11 cus i really love him& so does he. also our parents know so we do everything together. btw: i even felt his dick, it was the best feeling ever to have him touch me everywhere & makingnout for over a hour in his bed.
deejah333
July 9th, 2010 - 04:22

i have a boyfriend dat looks lik trey songz and we’ve been going out 4 4 months and havent kissed yet. we went 2 kings dominion sat wit him and i layed on his shoulder and took pictures with him and we were tickling each other. he said he wanted to kiss. but he’s short and im tall hes not short short but he’s short and i dont no how 2 kiss him.
deejah333
July 9th, 2010 - 04:24

i need some advice and kristy jackson its okay
Leila
July 9th, 2010 - 05:15

deejah333, your tottaly fine. kissing just comes, just relax and let his lips interlock with yours . just don’t be nervous at all it would make your lips hard & show teeth. that’s even worse comepared to messing up & laughing about it with him. if you too absolutely love eachother, kissing wouldn’t be a problem. boyfriends should be lika like best friends, the ones who shows the real you but at the same time being able to hold hands, hug, kiss, make out, have sex. anything. boyfriends are just natural, just don’t be a creeper. just be yourself annd stay relaxed. everything will go just fine.
Geek84
July 9th, 2010 - 08:52

I have a crush on a girl who is about two or three years younger than me. How do I know when is the right time for a kiss?

How to kiss?

I want to get my first kiss from her.
Leila
July 9th, 2010 - 15:25

Geek84,
it’s the right time for a kiss when you both arre ready for it. since she is younger, it might be harder or take a longer time fof her to be comfortable to be kissed. most girls would be happy if you kissed them, but always make sure no teeth & hard lips.
to kiss her rest your arm around her shoulder and wrap your rist around her neck. tilt your head to the right lean in and just kiss her. you may kiss her a few more times, just keep your arm there and don’t pull away cus she’s gonna think it’s over . okay, good luck. tell me the news out come.
Leila
July 9th, 2010 - 22:48

i lost my virginity ! i jad sex with my boyfriend last night ! we went in bed at 12 & had sex & makking out until 3 in the morning ! even in the morning we had more sex. our parents don’t know but i don’t want them to think i’m pregnant. & i don’t know if i am. i would think, he sticked it up so far. & if i am i don’t think my mom would be that mad cus she got pregnant at 13 & had my brother.
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July 11th, 2010 - 03:00

YOU GUYS ARE GROWING UP WAY TOOOOO FAST!!! BE HAPPY AND INNOCENT!!!! COMMON AND QUIT TRYIN TO BE ALL GROWN UP CAUSE YOU AREN’T !!!! SHEEEESH
jj
July 11th, 2010 - 18:40

leila
i am also 11 i dont no if my girl friend would wanna have sex but i dont no how to find out.
from jj
Geek84
July 12th, 2010 - 03:24

Leila: Ok, thanks.

I probably won’t the see the girl for at least the next 1.5 months so it may take some time.
Leila
July 12th, 2010 - 05:12

jj,
do you ever kiss a lot ? or make-out ? cus if you do just tell her how much you love her, girls love that. & then if she loves you that much too, then when your making-out swipe her boobs & then if she doesn’t do anything about it, continue to touch her & when it gets to the poit where it’s almost sex, then stop & take her to the bed & do it all over again untill it is sex.
Leila
July 12th, 2010 - 05:15

Geek84,
well, if you both love eachother so much, it wouldn’t matter where you guys are, you’ll always be connected by the heart.
well when you do see her tell me what happens, i’ll help you through this. you’ll get the hang of it eventually .
Geek84
July 12th, 2010 - 05:50

Leila: Heh. I will tell you!
Leila
July 13th, 2010 - 04:49

Geek84,
haha , thanks. so tell me a little about your self , hobbies , sports , your real name , what state you live in , . i’ll answer it too .
Geek84
July 13th, 2010 - 06:12

Leila:
You can call me Risto. I’m from Europe. My hobbies are computers and science. The girl I like is about 23.
rubi
July 13th, 2010 - 23:03

gosh im eleven and i hadnt had my first kiss yet
Me
July 14th, 2010 - 23:09

I’m twelve (almost 13) and I have never gone out with anybody or kissed anyone. I really want to. I’m starting to think nobody thinks I’m pretty because I have never gone out with anyone. The only problem is I’m really shy and just switched back schools last year after being at a different school for 3 years. I don’t think anyone remembers me except my best friend.PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I need advice plz.
matt wood
July 15th, 2010 - 07:23

im matt wood and when i kiss my sister i get a boner is that wrong?
Leila
July 20th, 2010 - 05:32

Geek84, sweet .
Leila
July 20th, 2010 - 05:34

Matt Wood,
well what kind of kiss? like making to just do it or kiss because you love eachother as sibilings?
Katie
July 20th, 2010 - 22:54

I’m 13 and i still havent had my first kiss… stilll waiting
daryl17
July 21st, 2010 - 04:00

im 17 and still havent kissed
daryl17
July 21st, 2010 - 04:05

this year will be my last year of high school and i never had a gf or a kiss
Chelsea
July 22nd, 2010 - 16:50

I was 14 when I got my first kiss. I know my limits and my boyfriend and I are taking things slow.
blake12349
July 23rd, 2010 - 03:15

uhh well first of all im blake im 11 and i went 2 my gfs house 1 time and we were in her bed and we were making out but we still had our clothes on and we were being 2 loud and her mom came in and got reeeeel mad at us cus she didnt reely no and she made my mom pick me up and my gf got grounded for a month (kind of strict) but my mom didnt care and now our parents hate eatchother and we never ever ever get to see eatchother and i miss her and we have been talking and she said she wisheds we could have sex or smtin close 2 it soooooooo ya this sucks =[
oddoneout
July 23rd, 2010 - 04:11

oh gosh everyone here is like eleven and sexually active already ;n;
i’m 15 and i’ve made the decision to keep my virginity until marriage, although i know that lots of kids and young adults think that’s stupid or that i’ll end up giving in to ‘peer pressure’ before i’m married. like someone said before, it’s your own choice, but still. at eleven years old, you don’t know whether or not you love someone ): hell, at 15, i’m not even sure i’d know. but sex should be reserved for the person that you /know/ you love, not for your middle school sweetheart or anything ))): but, i can’t make anyone change their views. i just hope that anyone reading this realizes that it’s okay to wait!! in the end, you’ll feel so much better about your choice, and then you can’t regret anything (:

as for the kissing, i guess i’m slow, huh? i’ve not been kissed yet (aside from my kindergarten bf lmao) and i just had my first real bf earlier this year. i thought i was so into him, but i wanted to take it slow. i’m SO glad i did, because before we even reached two months, i realized how little we had in common. we hadn’t even held hands yet, and i’m so glad i waited (:
Jula
July 23rd, 2010 - 20:59

right im 16 (a girl) and havent kissed anyone im not that shy its just im really tall and have a ‘fat’ stomach i havent really had the opportunity to kiss someone and im just worried that when i do kiss someone they will get creeped out if i do it wrong and will think im a freak for having my first kiss by now :s HELP
Emily
July 27th, 2010 - 23:44

Leila, Ur so lucky I’m 11 i don’t think nobody likes me but this one guy i really like i think he likes me he try’s to impress me when I’m around him a lot and my friend was like why is he like always around you but like a few days after he asked out someone else! but he is kinda geeky so like nobody likes him but I’m like more popular and everybody makes fun of him but i feel bad and i really like him so i don’t think he likes me but i don’t know what i should do:( because he is kinda kiddish and i am like a little bit more mature. and i am kinda getting over him i haven’t seen him in like 2 months because it is the Summer! (woo whoo!) and i am kinda getting over him but i don’t like anybody but next year I’m going to Middle School and so there is like four more schools are joining the middle school so that means like way more boys to see. oh and Leila you give wicked good advice i read all of your comments and you gave really good advice and your really lucky to have your first kiss i really want one so bad! all my friends are doing it even making out!
jazmin
July 28th, 2010 - 17:46

im 13 turnin 14 and im black everyone at my skool calls me an oreo cuz i guess i act really white i guess u cud say im pretty popular too but ive never had a bf or kissed anyone and lik everyone im frenz with is white along with guys i crush on and i guess alot of the time i feel wierd cuz im black and they’re white ive only been asked out once in my life and the guy was sooooo not my type i just really want my first kiss!!!!!! im definetly not ready for sex. i just want my first kiss before high skool any suggestions i really need help
jazmin
July 28th, 2010 - 17:54

oh and leila btw i really want to kno if ur pregnant….. im really curious
dominic
July 28th, 2010 - 21:20

hey, im a guy, im 11, almost twelve and really confused. ive been told im liked in person by like 5 girls that i like back. all of my friends wont take me seriously when i ask them for advice and im about to crack under pier pressure because whenever i see them they either wink or smack my ass. (lmfao ) someone plz tell me what to do!

info: made out once before, had one girlfriend, parents have no clue, boy, age eleven, going in to 6th grade(middle school), and apparently im rated a 9 out of 10 by most girls .
dominic
July 28th, 2010 - 21:42

reply please
Jon
July 30th, 2010 - 00:01

Hi im jonathan. I kissed a girl when i was 7. Im 13 now i want my 7 year old charrm back
Leila
August 2nd, 2010 - 00:42

Emily,
thanks for the compliments .
well in your situation , about confusion between who you like and if they like you back or not , it’s tottaly normal . i’ve been through it once and i know how it can feel . and about all your friends makong out and other people like me having sex doesn’t mean you have to . your life your decision . so if you really wan’t to be like me or your friends , go ahead . get out there . if your not close to the guy you like , start by being friends and make sure you know his personality so he won’t be ajerk Nd hurt you . have fun ! ))) .
Leila
August 2nd, 2010 - 00:43

jazmin,
yes i’m a mother . i have a baby (:
it’s so exciting . but i don’t like being fat .
daryl
August 4th, 2010 - 01:41

11 year old mom
Leila
August 4th, 2010 - 02:49

daryl,
haha yup. well my mom said she’ll take care of the baby. she doesn’t
care because she knows i’m responsible. me and ny boyfriend have been like living together in eachothers house. i bet we’ll get married when we turn 18(:
Jazmine
August 5th, 2010 - 03:19

Leila,
Im 11 too. Did u really hav sex already? I mean ur only 11. How old is ur bf?
Leila
August 6th, 2010 - 02:19

jazmine,
yes. & he’s 12
Jazmine
August 7th, 2010 - 01:48

hey leila,
what state do u live in and do your parents know that u had sex?
Leila
August 7th, 2010 - 04:31

jazmine,
i live in californian, and yes they know.