Recently someone arrived at The Churning after searching for the phrase why does my boyfriend look at porn. That's a silly question. You can't ask the internet why your boyfriend looks at porn. You gotta ask your boyfriend. For all I know, he's got a fetish for watching women give blowjobs to albino horses.
Still, I want to provide a service to our dear readers. So I'm going to once again ask for help from The Churning Loyalists. Today, we're going to create a list: reasons guys look at porn. I'll start things off. Leave a comment with your suggestions.
- Online porn is free (if you know where to look).
- Guys like to sport wood. Porn can make that happen anytime.
- Porn chicks do some really fucked up shit and they act like they enjoy it.
- You can find porn for any fetish. It's much more difficult to find an actual real life girl who's into whatever sick shit you're into.
- Women are beautiful. Naked women are even better. Naked women fucking are the best.
October 11th, 2009 - 16:01
Anti kellie: at least your know what kind of person April is. How can a whore give advice to other women, so there you have it straight from the horse is month. Aprils dearest friend just called her a whore. Now she wants all the other mothers to be a whore just like her.
October 11th, 2009 - 17:06
How fucking stupid are you, Kellie? I didn’t call her a whore and I don’t even know her. Please read what I wrote again you moron. Are you like 15? What the fuck is wrong with you? You can’t read, you can’t comprehend, you can’t write and you’re stupid as fucking hell. You really need to shut the fuck up because you’re making yourself look soooo fucking stupid.
October 11th, 2009 - 19:32
I’d like to point something out in this argument of parents watching porn…
When I was about 6 years old I walked in on my parents having sex.
Then, when I was about 8 years old, I found their porn stash and started watching it. Not because it was fun or cool, but because I was curious. Kids ARE curious.
So when my parents found out, they sat me down and said I shouldn’t go through their stuff, but now that I’ve seen it, do I have any questions for them?
I had quite a few. So they explained it all to me entirely.
I don’t see anything wrong with kids knowing about sex. I knew about it, and turned out just fine. Only had sex with a few guys (high school boyfriend, college boyfriend, and now my fiance), which when you compare it to a lot of girls out there (no, I’m not counting them, but I have talked to a lot of girls about it and I know 18 year olds who have good jobs, live on their own, and have happy productive lives, who have had way more sexual partners than me). Graduated with a masters in psychology, might wanna go work on a doctorate. Looking back, I’d have to say that knowing about sex at an early age did me absolutely no harm.
Open honesty is probably almost as important between parents and children as it is between a couple. That’s not to say you should sit your four year old down and explain exactly where babies come from, but I figure if the kid is old enough to ask the question they’re old enough to have the answer. I wasn’t lied to as a kid, and I think it attributed to my above-average intelligence and common sense. Especially considering I’m the first one in my documented family history to EVER go to college, so it’s not like I’m coming from a pool of geniuses.
lol the only problem that ever came of me knowing about sex at an early age is when my classmates in the 4th grade were asking questions, I knew the answers. So the more conservative parents, who didn’t want their kids to know about sex until later in life, got pretty upset with my parents for explaining it to me so early. But oh well, in my opinion it’s the conservatives who want to keep their kids in the dark for as long as possible who are in the wrong on that one.
Anyway, I’m lucky since I know computers a lot better than my fiance. We share a computer too, so there’s really no place to hide his porn stash, so if he looks at/watches pornography, I get to have a female fuckbuddy. I think that’s a pretty good compromise. I don’t like him watching porn, he doesn’t like me being bisexual, but they are both habits we can live with. He gets his jollies with his hand and pictures of whores, I get my jolles with soft skin and and a labia.
That’s my advice to any girl who has a problem with their boyfriend watching porn. Yeah, I think the feelings of the girl should be taken into consideration. I mean, what’s more important, your boyfriend getting off when you’re not around, or your emotions regarding the issue? However, if he’s gonna do it anyway, whether you like it or not, find something that YOU like that bugs him, and do it. Not something drastic, you don’t want your relationship going down the tubes, but something equal. That way you’re not getting the shitty end of the stick.
And boys, before you argue, it IS the shitty end of the stick. It bugs her, you do it anyway because you enjoy it, what’s she supposed to do? Grin and bear it? Just live with it because “oh, it’s a guy thing.” Nu uh. You get some special treatment, so does she. Fair is fair.
October 11th, 2009 - 19:34
Kellie: I agree with everything April has said up to this point. I too am a mother and watch porn on occassion. To me, it is no different than closing your eyes and fantasizing- just less work. I too am in a relationship with a man who watches porn. We tend to watch it more seperatly than together because we have found that it serves as more of a distration during sex. I started watching porn when I was a teenager, long before anyone could “get me hooked to it” in your words. It sounds like you live in a box and are not aware of reality. “Having power over your man”, “What kind of father watches porn?”, “cry if you have to”, “you sound like the type to smoke petrol”. I think it’s obvious from everyone’s responses to your nonsense and lack of intelligent things to say that you should probably stop trying to give advice.
October 12th, 2009 - 11:07
+1 for Kisten, Kellie is obviously troubled
~1 for Lennon, up to the point where you want a girlfriend fuck buddy, I think yoru boyfriend or husband should also be able to have fuck buddies if that is the case. Maybe you guys should consider swinging
or maybe you should consider watching lesbian porn and using a Hitachi Magic Wand instead
+1 for April, for making Kellie come out and basically show us all that she is really a dumb ass whore and bi-polar
October 23rd, 2009 - 09:18
Discrimination that is wrong in one context may be acceptable in another. ,
October 28th, 2009 - 22:18
I’m still heart broken that he does it
October 30th, 2009 - 03:27
hey! i have been lettin him look at it and not sayin a thing as long as he has 2 days off a week. and for some reason whether its because he doesnt need to hide it now im not sure but he has calmed right down on it, he has hardly looked at it last couple of weeks compared to wot he used to be like, he never used to be able to pick up the laptop without looking but lately hes been great even reading up on how to help me when i go into labour ha who would of guessed it he would have never of done that before… whats happened to my boyfriend?! haha not complaining i think its great lets hope he keeps it up! thanks to everyone for any advice you may have givin me! hope all you other ladies out there end up getting the same reaction as i have at last.
June 21st, 2010 - 13:36
wow rae ur such a loser how are u heartbroken? lol its there nature get over it i bet youll never find 1 boyfriend that doesnt do it. and its not a bad thing if it makes him happy thats fine with me
July 23rd, 2010 - 03:05
all of you need to grow up and stop being whores! its not cool and all of you look like idiots its nasty your to fucking ugly to please your men so they have to look at someone else to please them! you need to stop caring about porn and start working on pleasing your men in the bedroom!!!!