Do Women Like Giving Blowjobs?
Jan. 09, 2007 by JJ
The Churning Loyalists all know I’m completely obsessed with checking my web traffic stats, especially to see where I’m showing up in the search engines. Well, last week someone arrived at The Churning by googling do chicks like giving blowjobs? I guess I should take this opportunity to give a little advice.
See, I suspect women enjoy giving head about as much as men like eating pussy. Some love it, some hate it, and others do it as a kind gesture.
It reminds me of a recent conversation I had with some close friends. We were arguing which is the bigger favor - or rather, which is more unpleasant. The girls in the group all agreed that sucking cock must be worse than munching carpet (not that they’d know - some of the girls never ate a girl out before). They assumed that based on the taste of funky spooge, cocksucking is probably the bigger task.
But my argument is that licking clit always involves lady juice. Knob gobbling, on the other hand, doesn’t always have to end with throat yogurt. A woman can stop early, using it as a precursor to other activities.
So now I ask you all to chime in…
We have two questions to address. And remember, this is all in the name of friendly advice for random web surfers:
1. Do women like giving blowjobs?
2. Which is more of a favor - sucking cock or eating pussy?
January 10th, 2007
1) I do it as a kind gesture. Hopefully a kind RECIPROCAL gesture.
2) I get bored easily. If it goes on for more than five minutes, it’s a huge chore, either way. Do guys get lockjaw? That might be my determining factor in who has it worse.
January 10th, 2007
As a gay guy, I guess my opinion is kind of jaded. I actually love giving head. Actually is sort of necessary LOL.
I know some women that love giving blowjobs and they don’t seem to look on it as a chore.
I dated girls in high school and was married at one point so I have gone down on women before too and the funny thing was in high school, I thought it was hot. When I was married…it was defintiely a chore.
So there’s an answer from the other side of the tracks.
January 10th, 2007
1. Like all things in life, it depends on my mood at the time. Sometimes it’s a “kind gesture”, sometimes its more for me than him, sometimes I’m not going near it. All depends on my mood…
2. I don’t think it’s really possible to answer that question. Some people like the taste of “throat yogurt” and some people like the taste of “lady juice” so to each of those groups your argument doesn’t matter. Keeping that in mind you can’t say which is the biggest “favor.” (I don’t like viewing this as a favor either…if I don’t wanna…I’m not gonna…and if he don’t wanna, I don’t want him to…)
January 10th, 2007
I couldn’t imagine eating a pussy. Them fucken claws are sharp.
And as far as giving a blowjob, that’ll never happen.
January 10th, 2007
1. Like you said, it depends on the woman. Some love it, some hate it, some tolerate it. It also largely depends on the GUY! If the guy is massive, all you can think the entire time is “Omg.. LOCKJAW!!” but if he’s smaller it is much less of a task.
2. I saw going down on a chick is MUCH MUCH worse. There are so many variables. The scent, the taste, whether they have those huge winged labia, how much hair they have, etc. I think a woman could get quite foul tasting / smelling much quicker than a man.
January 10th, 2007
I can’t speak for all women, but I do like to give blow jobs. It’s fun. That said, I’m going to have to say that going down on a woman - for me at least - is more fun than going down on a man. Probably because it’s sort of old hat for a guy to get a blow job, I mean, don’t they sort of expect it? Whereas a woman tends to be more grateful.
For those who think that a woman’s nether bits are/could be foul tasting/smelling (or even a man’s bits for that matter), I think they might want to raise their standards a little. I mean, foul? Really? Sure I’ve had a man’s dog shit on my floor once while we were having sex, but I’ve never once had someone of either gender smell nasty. Maybe I’ve just been lucky though.
And now you know way more about me than you should. Whoops.
January 10th, 2007
1) My wife, Mrs. RockyJay says she loves sucking my cock, but also that it is very exhausting due to the very large size of my cock. Like Breigh said it: LOCKJAW… and I don’t want to picture her sucking a small one… D’oh! Now I can’t get that image of my mind…
2) I think eating pussy is way more favor than sucking a cock. Every cock is the same; once you learn it, you’re pretty much all set. Whereas, eating pussy varies from pussy to pussy. Some like this and others that. Every time it’s like conquering the Mount Everest. In addition, women are so moody that the same trick you made them come the last time would not work the next time. Plus, it better be shaven…
January 10th, 2007
I’m about to blow the lid on the neighborhood….
Have done both and it depends on what you like doing better. For me, going down on a guy is infinitely better because that’s how I roll….
: )
January 10th, 2007
1.) I was thinking about writing about this the other day. It came up in conversation that I’ve never had a consistent good blow jobber to the point of expulsion. I always get them in the beginning but then it’s over. However, I’ve known a girl to drip after about thirty seconds of giving head.
2.) From what the ladies say it depends on the size of the cock, and the hairness and smell of vagina. Personally I don’t mind a little lady juice. I like walking around in public with a faint odor of vagina wafting off my face. And while I’m going to guess that Rock Jay is correct in most cocks being the same and vaginas being different I say this: Isn’t it nice to feel like Sir Edmund Hillary everytime you go under the covers?
January 10th, 2007
I meant writing about my lack of a consistent blow jobber, not the whole blow job/box chomping bit.
January 10th, 2007
favor? kind gesture? oh your poor partners. Nothing, absolutely nothing turns me on more than to know I am turning my partner on. Sucking his cock drives him crazy and that is where my focus lies. It drives me wild knowing i have that much power over him. i don’t think he views his part as a chore - because during phone sex all he talks about is putting his tongue all over me and it drives me wild. He loves licking me while inserting a dildo inside of me…I love it too!
January 10th, 2007
Wow, I thought I had seen some interesting…err, odd?…blogs while surfing BlogMad tonight, but this one takes the cake. Or should I say yogurt as you put it so vividly?
I would say IMO, doing a bj is easier than giving a lady a nice time. It is really easy to make a guy smile. As a woman, I know we’re all picky and particular. I shave, but still, I feel bad for my husband, lol, I wouldn’t want to do that. But then I like guys, not girls.
I guess I like giving my man a bj because it turns me on just for him to be turned on. But then I’m a kinky sort of girl.
January 11th, 2007
It’s like most things in life, different strokes for different folks.
For me it depends on the guy. I’ve known some guys that if you even think about giving them a blow job you don’t even have to do the deed. Then there are those that think their cocks are all day suckers. But! Do I like it? Sometimes- sometimes not. Depends on how drunk I am~
As for which is the bigger favor I’m going to have to go with giving a blow job because it’s not a favor for someone to eat my pussy, it’s a privilege.
SALIHAH! The Churning Rocks Our Socks Off!
January 11th, 2007
1) Depends on the guy. Things I don’t like: hair caught in the back of my throat, a guy with a strong personal stench, gagging. Things I do like: All the rest. I think every girl is individual on her preferences. I like doing it for the most part and will almost always do it for my boyfriend when he asks unless there is some reason not to, which there hardly ever is. And it turns me on to do it.
2) Personally, I can’t ever see myself doing it, what with my crippling vaginaphobia and all. And, sometimes, I don’t care if he does. Some guys just plain aren’t any good at it, and if the guy is squeamish about it or treats it as a chore, I’d just rather he didn’t do it at all.
My preference is for the favorite numbers, though. That turns me on the most of all.
January 11th, 2007
“just because i’m good at it doesn’t mean i have to like it”. that was my argument to a guy whose dick i apparently didn’t suck often enough.
i don’t like giving head to men because they take it for granted and expect it.
and, i’d like to point out that male bits can be just as rank and nasty as girl bits AND i’ve encounter far more gross boy parts than girl parts.
also, if you have the honor of me giving you head? don’t fucking push my head down or guide me by my ears.
January 11th, 2007
cinders:
1) You’re so right. I’m not sure if girls realize this, but it really should be reciprocal. Of course, there are people in this world who like to give oral, but don’t particularly like to receive. But more often than not, it’s only polite to return the favor.
2) Yeah, dudes totally get lockjaw - or at least something similar, like a tongue-muscle cramp.
Ron:
I’m glad you commented. The gay dudes I’ve known over the years all seemed to really be into giving and receiving head. I guess it sorta comes with the territory.
Itchy:
1) Good point. Seems like the same is true for most things in life. “Want pizza tonight?” “Nahh, I’m not really in the mood.” “Wanna suck my cock?” “No thanks.”
2) “I don’t like viewing this as a favor either…if I don’t wanna…I’m not gonna…and if he don’t wanna, I don’t want him to.”
I have a different view on this. I think it’s a sweet thing to do as a favor, especially if you’re not in the mood. Sometimes giving oral can put you in the mood even if you weren’t in the mood to begin with.
MacBros:
I’ve never seen one with claws. That might be a hygiene issue.
Breigh:
1) My lady never has that problem… I mean… ummm… Yeah that’s a real problem! I totally know what you’re talking about!
2) That was my argument. there are waaaay more variables to consider in a lady’s nether regions. A dude can be ready for action with a little soap and water.
CRo:
If you never experienced an odor, you probably have been lucky. And yes, I learned a little more about you today. Nothing wrong with that.
rockyjay:
1) Your wife must be a very happy lady.
2) Dude - you’re totally not kidding about shaving. You don’t want to end up with hair in your mouth, and a patch of short fuzz can be rough on the sides of the tongue. I bet more women would get more oral action if they shaved that lovely area bald.
Julie:
I love it! The neighborhood will never be the same.
Cecil B.:
1) Dude, you’re missing out. You just gotta let loose and stop thinking about it. Maybe smoke a little chiba first.
2) Yeah, the Mount Everest comment was definitely appropriate. Maybe that should be considered a plus - it’s always a challenge!
Sooze:
It’s great that you and your partner love exchanging oral treats. It’s almost hard to believe that some people just won’t do it. Ever. I do think it’s a gesture though - even if you enjoy it, you’re still giving a gift.
Salihah:
I’m so glad to hear that you recognize the fact that shaving makes it more enjoyable for your man. Sounds like you have open lines of communication when it comes to sex. That fucking rocks.
Diane:
Line of the day:
“It’s not a favor for someone to eat my pussy, it’s a privilege.”
trouble:
1) Yeah, it should totally be a turn on to do it. Otherwise things could get awkward. It’s a very personal intimate event and that’s fucking hot.
2) “crippling vaginaphobia”? Sounds like you and your man aren’t planning a threesome anytime soon…
sarah:
Being truly gifted in this area and not sharing that with the world? That’s like being an amazing artist who simply refuses to create art.
I agree with you about the aggressive forcefulness. If a guy wants to guide his lady, words will suffice.
January 11th, 2007
J.Mo : Sucking cock = yum.
P3: Eating pussy rules.
An even better conversation is what makes these things unforgettable. Technique. That’s what I want to know about.
January 12th, 2007
Well, I’m quite late in replying to this, but here goes.
OK so is it a favor to suck a guy’s dick? Well for me it depends on if he’s had a shower since he last took a crap. Because, seriously, you guys know that a truly excellent blowjob does involve at least getting close to the guys A-hole with your tongue. You know, especially right behind the balls.
If he’s freshly showered, smelling all soapy, I really don’t mind. If he isn’t, fuck that. Just fuck it. That’s all.
As for receiving. Well I’m probably the only girl in the world that gets a bit uncomfortable to have a guy’s face right in my twatal area. I really don’t enjoy it unless I’m drunk.
January 13th, 2007
1. Yes, some love it, some hate it. Me? I’m a gagger. Take that as you will.
2. I would have to say that carpet munching is probably the bigger favor. Granted I have never munched carpet, nor will I ever. I guess that my aversion to even the thought of putting my face all up in another girl’s beaver is probably biasing my answer.
Hmm, funny how I am no longer hungry. LOL
January 13th, 2007
I just like seeing all of the different was of saying fellatio and cunninglingus…amazing. I have to go rub one out right now.
January 14th, 2007
I love giving a blow job but not necessarily swallowing.
Never ate pussy…
January 14th, 2007
Blow jobs really aren’t that enjoyable. But it depends on the guy.
Example: I was arguing with this guy who I had been seeing off and on, because he was practically begging for one and I just wasn’t in the mood. I wasn’t in the mood for him at that point, period. You see, I was pretty much done with him because he would never reciprocate orally. Yet he wanted it from me all the time. And he was one of those guys who watched too many porn movies and was convinced that the girl had to swallow for it to be any good. He was a meathead. Anyway, I was telling him how it was not the most enjoyable thing for a girl to do, and that swallowing was out of the question. His response? “It’s not that bad.” I asked how the hell he would know and he told me that he had tasted his own jizz once. As you might imagine, not only did I not give him a blow job but I never saw him again after that.
So men, if you’re trying to persuade a girl to give you head, never use the “I like the taste of my own spunk” argument, no matter how desperate you are. Saying just about ANYTHING else is better.
January 15th, 2007
lol, Beckeye, you said spunk.
Lol,
I’m so immature.
January 15th, 2007
J.Mo:
Technique? You should hire one of those cocksucking coaches. You and your gal pals could learn from a real pro. Either that or watch more hardcore porn.
mel:
I think cleanliness is of primary importance - male or female. And yes, you’re right. Fellatio could lead to having your face close to the chocolate starfish (and of course so could cunnilingus), especially in a 69 position.
DragonLady:
1) *cough* *cough* … Sorry. I had something in my throat.
2) I hear you. I’ve actually never had a cock in my mouth. I just assume it’s no big deal.
Nightmare:
You should check out our euphemism lists. That’s what’s up.
randi:
You might want to try it. Though, it’s probably an acquired taste.
BeckEye:
So let me get this straight. A guy should never taste his own goo? Or he should never admit that he’s tasted it?
Ev:
Pippi Longstocking loves the spunk.
January 20th, 2007
I’m not going to tell all mankind that taking the spunk taste-test is prohibited. So, I’ll go with “never admit it.”
January 26th, 2007
As a bisexual woman, I would say that it really depends on how I’m feeling. It is a lot easier to please a woman, so most of the time given a choice, I would eat pussy. But I’m married and spend most of my time giving head (not complaining), so I’ve gotten to the point where I like that just because it gives him pleaseure (And it makes me feel sexy when I make his toes curl)
January 26th, 2007
Hi, Tricia sent me here. I’ll have a proper look around after writing this off my chest.
As a Swede, I’ve never understand WHY are you calling it a blowjob when it’s actually no blowing involved? *lol*
I’m sure that if it were, more women would be more willing to do it
And I just love that vision it gives me… Think of how big some of them could turn out!
*giggles*
March 20th, 2007
1) I think some women do love doing blowjobs but most of them do it for their partners pleasure only, out of love or kind gesture. Let’s just say that it’s the least women can do to thank the guy who just spent 30 minutes or more on the Y triyng to make them cum… And ladies, if you want to make your man cum fast, apply PRESSURE! Most ladies I’ve known just are to soft about it. Don’t be afraid to do it hard and fast! Just observe a man masturbating and you’ll understand… Finally, men who don’t like to get blowjobs just haven’t found women who do it right. Guide them and you’ll see it’s the greatest sexual experience you’ll ever know!
2) Personaly, I simply adore eating pussy. I think I do it mostly for my own personal pleasure than hers. It makes me so horny to put my face there to smell and taste her wet pussy and to lick her A-hole at the same time… It’s so rewarding to know you made a woman cum this way. On the other hand, I can understand some men finding it a chore. Why? Well let’s face it, some women take for ever to let go and it can be hard on certain muscles. Some women have a bush the size of the Amazone Rainforest! Please ladies, a shaven pussy will drive any man wild!
April 13th, 2007
1) i like sucking. it’s more of a treat for me than it is for my boyfriend. it’s a real turn on for me.
2) i’ve never gone down on another girl, and never will. my boyfriend tells me that the smell does get bad, and i understand that.
May 8th, 2007
I think that both getting and giving oral sex is great as long as it is playful and done willingly. It seems if a women initiates sucking a cock she often views it as empowering. That is what they have shared with me. For whatever the reason I find bringing a woman to orgasm orally is exhiarating and I don’t find it objectionable at all. It is a special treat I have always felt lucky to get to enjoy.
September 14th, 2007
hey no comments
October 7th, 2007
Most women love sucking dick. I never knew a woman who didn’t like doing it. The man needs to look good and have good hygiene obviously. But, yeah, most women love giving blowjobs. Mine anyway
October 23rd, 2007
RE: “Is it a chore to give a blow job for a woman”
Just the mention, the hint, the tease, the suggestion of giving my man a blowjob makes me soaking wet.
Lockjaw? what are you ladies doing? It certainly isn’t enjoying the sucking and licking, and stroking of cock…
Maybe I’m cut out of different cloth.. but to me giving head is much better than receiving.
The best combination? a warm stiff cock and a well placed vibrator……
November 8th, 2007
nothing is better than a good ball sucking and blow job by a woman who
wants to
November 24th, 2007
I love to have my cock sucked, but only if its done in a way that I’m being ignored. I’m into cock worship. I like the woman to forget I’m even there, and for Pete’s sake, NO HANDS. Suck my cock while stroking me with your hand is nothing but a handjob with a tongue assist…not good. I want your mouth to draw out the seed.
2. As far as cunnilingus, I absolutely love going down on women. It’s actually causes me to have the hardest erections, which I guess answers the original question. Her going down on me is not a favor, its payback because I always eat her first.
December 12th, 2007
hey everybody…
as it has already been said… some people like giving head/face and others don’t..
it’s as simple as that.. if u like receiving like i do you’ll try to find someone who likes giving … and make sure she/he knows how much you like it.
I like receiving but i find it it interesting sometimes to try and give my girl a good carpet munching.. ;))
so it seems no one is one really one sided…
as for which is more of a chore … i think it’s harder to lick a pussy good than to give a good blowjob , BUT i’m not saying that a blowjob is a piece of cake.. u need to know what you’re doing in both cases.
I wish i knew more girls who love to give blowjobs
seen a lot that posted here.. but i find that in fact they are fewer than those who don’t.
December 12th, 2007
For the first time I was asked by a woman and her husband to join them for a sensual evening after meeting at a political gathering. We all stayed at the same hotel and i was about 17 years older than they. She was 29 and 5′ 6″ and maybe 34C, Auburn hair and Blue Gray Eyes! he was 6′ 1″ like myself and about the same weight. Dark brown hair and Brown Eyes. Looked a bit Latin. We partied and began to play. He loved watching me eat her out and then we fucked for a while and she sucked my cock and as she was sucking me, she stopped to tell me how much she loved it and loved the feel of a solid hard cock in her mouth. She suggested I try it on her husband and I immediately said I was not gay, when she stopped me and said it was not gay to enjoy each other in private. After about 15 more minutes of eating her pussy, her husband came over to where I was feating and he had his hard cock out and was stroking it. She made a pop sound as she came off my cock and pulled on my arm and brought me to her Husbands cock. I hesitated but I was in a fever of sex and I took it and put it i my moth and it felt pretty hot! I enjoyed it and he gave me a warning as to when he was cumming but a little went right in my mouth! His wife french kissed me and I could feel her tongue all over inside my mouth to get as much as possible. He then returned the favor and he took my cum and swallowed it all! I honestly never thought I’d feel like I did but it was very exciting to me!
December 13th, 2007
Do women like cock?
Some do - most don’t.
Out of twenty or so lovers (women who I have extended sexual relationships) I can only think of four true cocksuckers - two of whom flat told me I can pop where ever I wanted but they preferred to eat it. I’ve had a few who at first didn’t have any skills but became pretty adept at blow jobs once realized they liked receiving it, and even if they didn’t swallow they didn’t make a big deal with me popping in their mouth. But at least half did it as foreplay only and rarely if ever would get me off orally and always would gag and spit if I ever popped in their mouth. Real sexy. Interesting though, I only have met one women who didn’t like receiving head.
I love tasting a nice fresh pussy so its no hardship to me. Usually I don’t stop until my lover is a quivering mass of flesh in the middle of a large wet spot. And honestly I don’t see how cocksucking is any hardship as long as the recipient doesn’t try to jam it down an unwilling throat. I indulged a few women who liked snowballing and really found the taste of my own jizz rather bland. Just a musky salty flavor - a little stronger than pussy but not objectionable.
Also with the exception of one all the best fucks were also the best cocksuckers.
January 1st, 2008
I m a 27 year old woman married for 2 years now.
Now the question is Do I like my man in my mouth?
Answer is YES & NO. When I am really hot, I used to do it. We lived in two different cities for an year and used to meet once in 2 months. Those days I wanted to taste him badly. But when I am not in a good mood, there is no interest for him at all
January 9th, 2008
For me what really makes a blow-job a great pleasure is when the woman thoroughly enjoys it and then it is a great turn on. My girl friend loves giving me blow-jobs and especially licking my balls (which I love too).
What we usually do is start off with a shower, so she can thoroughly wash my balls and my cock to her satisfaction. She loves to fondle it. Then afterward, we have another shower so she can clean me up. She loves it! And so do I.
I am very fortunate to have a girlfriend who loves to suck on my cock every time she gets. And it is a great turn on for her too. She has even told me that sometimes she gets orgasmims doing it.
Of course I have been told by many women that I have a lovely big cock. “Just the right size for sucking.” Not too big and not too small.
January 19th, 2008
i dont think women should have to suck cock if they dont want. 2 many men get off on me swallowing their cum which is sick. I hate the taste. I was with an older man for 5 years he never gave me an orgasm or ate my pussy. But i sucked his cock for 5 years every nite when i got home from work, he would call them my female duties. for a 57 year old man he still squirted loads in my mouth and forced me to swallow it.
January 30th, 2008
i dont think getting a blowjob is a good thing a wouldn’t be able to look at my gf if she gave me one and cumming in a girls mouth is sick i think it could be a form of torture
January 31st, 2008
Giving blowjobs for me depends on the guy. Some guys I won’t do it, it just grosses me out. Others it’s a huge turn on, and Im all into it.
But giving head is definitely better than eating a girl out. A lot of girls don’t wash properly downstairs, and nothing tastes worse than a girl who smells rancid and then wants you to taste her juice.
Also the taste of a guys cum is mostly associated with their diet. If they eat healthy then their cum is just salty tasting. And the myth that a guy who smokes weed regularly has bad tasting cum is not true either.
Honestly if the girl stinks, don’t be afraid to hurt her feelings and tell her so, maybe she’ll get the hint and use some soap down there regularly. Or bring along some babywipes and clean her up before you start.
January 31st, 2008
The taste of a guys cum does depend on his diet. If he doesn’t eat that much fruit or none at all, his cum will taste salty.. If he eats tons of fruit it will be more sweeter.
January 31st, 2008
Carey -
I think I can speak for most men when I say if it smells bad no part of me is going to poke it. One of the reasons I sniff around down as foreplay is for a basic health check. If its not healthy I want to know before any part of my body touches it.
Carey & John -
Overall diet makes a difference but often it is what was eaten a half day ago rather than a guys overall diet. And its the same with women - I can always tell when my lover had a lot of coffee earlier. Ditto with liquor or raw onions.
February 1st, 2008
Ps: I only know this, because my gf told me it started to taste really sweet. At the time I was eating tons of fruit every day….
Not that i’ve tried it myself.. I’ve researched the theory and it’s true…
February 4th, 2008
I have never known a REAL WOMAN who doesn’t really LOVE COCK. She loves to fondle it in her hands, make it hard, caress it and SUCK IT.
BUT the cock she sucks and loves so much has to be SEXUALLY presented to her. A man can’t just pull it out of his pants and expected her to like it. And of course, I never expect my women to swallow cum
The key is that the woman has to enjoy it as much if not more than the man, then it is a great experience. Even withhold it from her when she craves it. But don’t push your woman too much, or that will be a turn off for both.
Find a woman who loves to fondle, suck and fuck, then you have really found something
February 5th, 2008
Good blog and always a positive or a negative response depending on who you ask? I am 52 who appreciates a great BJ just about every other day. My wife enjoys it as well and swallows me most of the time. Depending on the mood she may do other things when I cum, rub it on her nipples her lips, wherever the mood takes her. For the other blogger, eating fruit for sure makes your cum taste better she and other girls have told me, pineapple is the best I told.
I had a girlfriend who had a orgasum when she sucked my cock. My wife tells me I’m full of it and I have never heard of anyone else being able to do that, excpet in the deep throat movie.
For the most part I do not thing women wake up every morning and say………………hmmmmmmm I wonder if I should suck his cock. For the most part guys ALWAYS think that way and always will.
February 5th, 2008
Good blog and always a positive or a negative response depending on who you ask? I am 52 who appreciates a great BJ just about every other day. My wife enjoys it as well and swallows me most of the time. Depending on the mood she may do other things when I cum, rub it on her nipples her lips, wherever the mood takes her. For the other blogger, eating fruit for sure makes your cum taste better she and other girls have told me, pineapple is the best I am told.
I had a girlfriend who had a orgasum when she sucked my cock. My wife tells me I’m full of it and I have never heard of anyone else being able to do that, excpet in the deep throat movie.
For the most part I do not thing women wake up every morning and say………………hmmmmmmm I wonder if I should suck his cock. For the most part guys ALWAYS think that way and always will.
February 5th, 2008
1.) Sucking cock is NOT a chore. I love to please him; it turns me on way more to pleasure him than to have him pleasure me. Plus, I like the way sperm tastes and smells and I like the way it looks spread all around. When I’m just doing my thing when we aren’t having sex, I like to be treated as an equal. But when I’m sucking dick it really excites me, because I feel like it is a less severe form of my ultimate sexual fantasy; you know, love slave type things. The power of fantasization is what makes giving head enjoyable to me.
2.) Okay, I for one like ALL the smells and tastes of sex. I’ve never come across a dick I didn’t like, or a vagina for that matter. I mean, I have sex with CLEAN people. Genitalia are only smelly if the person hasn’t showered in a while, to my experience. I don’t think that either sucking dick or carpet munching are a chore– both are enjoyable! But I do prefer cock, just because I like men. The smell and taste of pussy isn’t bad at all though.
February 6th, 2008
The real key to making a woman love and suck your dick is that you have to tease her for a while. She wants it and you know she wants it. BUT it has to be presented to her ROMANTICALLY.
You can’t just pull out your cock and expect her to love it and suck on it. THERE HAS TO BE ROMANCE, for the woman, to get involved.
All REAL WOMEN LOVE COCK. They think about it all the time.They love to handle it, fondle it, let it grow big in their hands, and suck on it. It is the way women are, in the same way that men love women’s breasts, love to fondle and play with them.
For men this is the real key, make sure your woman is in the mood. Don’t just stick it out there. Tease her a little bit until SHE IS HORNY and wants to play with it and suck it.
AND DON’T EXPECT YOUR WOMAN TO SWALLOW YOUR CUM. That often is a great TURN OFF for the woman. Have your woman get you off with a hand job, or great FUCK.
Also, a woman likes a nice BIG COCK. It has to be clean and pleasant. Then, she will NOT BE ABLE TO RESIST IT.
February 10th, 2008
I used to give head when i was at school. Being a gay guy, I learnt a lot with my other gay friends and trust me, there is nothing better than giving a nasty blowjob!!!…I love sucking cocks!!!
February 23rd, 2008
Well, here is what I want to say.
ALL WOMEN LOVE COCK AND CUM!!! It is what fulfills her life! Way down deep she wants to procreate. That really is the ultimate fulfillment of her existence, (even though she usually will deny it.)
But, in order to get your woman to love your cock and cum, you have to do certain things. First of all make sure that your cock is presented to her in a very clean and proper manner. Make it Rommantic and Tease her a little bit with it. Ask her if she really wants it.
Then, as far as Sperm is concerned. ALL WOMEN LOVE GOOD HEALTHY SPERM.
The key to good healthy sperm that a woman will love is:
1. Lead a very healthy active life. Eat a very healthy diet.
2. What makes really good and healthy sperm for your woman in my experience is this:
Two or three days ahead, drink 5 to 6 glasses of ice water. And then also, take something call “Horney Goat Weed.” It is a natural supplement.
These things get my sperm out there for my women to always taste and like to get into there pussys
February 24th, 2008
Ross - I’m not touching that with a ten foot pole. But I’d love to hear you best pick up lines, I suspect they are precious.
February 26th, 2008
1.) I think most women really do. Let me elaborate: before I had given a blow job, the thought of it made me gag because I figured it would be uncomfortable and gross; then I gave head for the first time and it was…uncomfortable and gross. However, once I had a steady boyfriend that I was able to be comfortable with and practice with, giving a blow job became a huge turn on and now I love giving blow jobs and it’s the best way to get me wet. So, I think that the majority of women who don’t like blow jobs don’t like it because they have never done it, they had a bad experience they couldn’t get over, or have not been in a relationship where they were able to practice, practice, practice.
2.) As I bisexual woman I have had the pleasure of performing both fellatio and cunnilingus, and I don’t find either to be a chore. That being said, giving a blow job is much more of a favor for several reasons! First reason being, I’ve never experienced lockjaw while performing Cunnilingus, while fellatio can be tiring to the mouth and cause my jaw to hurt. Secondly, women don’t taste or smell THAT BAD, as long as your partner is healthy and clean it is not that big of a deal to lick it. Male ejaculate on the other hand is less pleasurable not only the taste but the texture, especially if the guy’s diet is unhealthy. Also, men make sure you shower and clean before hand, because it can be just as unpleasant to lick a taint and suck balls when they are sweaty or you just used the bathroom. Next, women are more considerate than men while receiving. This is in reference to men being a little too forceful at times by either thrusting further causing a gag reflex or pushing on my head which is a turn off. Also, guys are less likely to shave in my opinion and pubic hair in the mouth stops the flow of performing, while most women are willing to maintain down south. Lastly, women don’t spurt out a mouthful of body fluid and expect it to be swallowed–guys here’s a tip-expect that the women will not swallow, and give her a garbage can to spit in!
February 26th, 2008
Here is my response to the latest posts.
Here is my all time favorite pick-up line: “Where have I met you before? Didn’t I go to high school with you? Or maybe it was your sister. Please tell me more about yourself and how somehow, I know you?” This will immediately raise her interest and you can get the conversation going. This is my ALL TIME FAVORITE PICKUP LINE. It doesn’t offend the woman, it just raises her curiousity.
As far a pubic hair is concerned. A man really should shave off a lot of it. Women, usually don’t like a lot of pubic. What really turns a woman on is a nice clean HEALTHY and appealing Cock. That SHE CANNOT RESIST. Believe me. If there is one thing in life I know it is women!!
Ross
February 29th, 2008
Well I have to admit…didn’t see this blog coming(oops). I don’t see making my wife happy in any way a chore. I have always gotten into pleasing my partner. Do I expect the same in return? Not really, but I prefer head at times to intercourse. My bride of over 15 years was raised a Baptist…so I clearly had my work cut out for me. Once we got past the whole ” oral sex is dirty” thing we were cool. Sex in any form is never a favor as far as I am concerned. It is a gift, to be shared, to be certain. But in the bedroom anything should go, as long as it is consentual and isn’t too dangerous.
March 3rd, 2008
yeah i do think majority of women like sucking cock. but sometimes it can be down right FOUL!! this one time i sucked this guys cock all i could smell was urine, poo, stale cum and ball sweat! this bloke had not obviously had a shower for a few days & farting while i was down there had me close to gaging!! what made it worse was that his cock destinctively bent to the right & was thicker than it was long… he’s pubic hair had out grown his penis! he also had only one ball so there was a hell of alot of skin! he pulled me by the hair & began to “skull fuck” me (as he called it). unfortunately he squirted a big load in my mouth and told me to swallow it or else… it tasted like oysters that had gone off! it grossed me out for ages and i sweared id never suck another cock again. but now i have a man thats has good hygene & a big nice looking dick and i ABSOULTUELY LOVE IT! I also like it when he cums all over my face and in my hair!!
March 3rd, 2008
That’s disgusting michelle…
March 4th, 2008
I don’t think that what Michelle said was disgusting at all. This is what I have been trying to tell everyone. Michelle had a bad experience with a guy who didn’t know how to please a woman with his cock. But now she has found a guy that uses proper hygene and she ABSOLUTELY LOVES IT!
There are rules to getting a woman to love and suck your dick.
1. First of all make sure that you use proper hygene, and trim your pubic hairs.
2. Make sure you have plenty of good tasting sperm. The best way to do this is to drink 6 to 8 glasses of ice water a day or two ahead of time and then take a supplement called “Horny Goat Weed.” This is an aphrodisiact.
3. Then make sure that your woman is in the MOOD. Make sure that she is HORNY. Tease her a little bit with your cock. Make her want it and beg for it. The great build up for all sex is the flirtation and the things that come before. A lot of men don’t understand this, but especially for women it is important.
4. Don’t expect your woman after she sucks your cock to swallow your sperm. Instead it might be far more pleasurable for her to spread it on her breast, or spread it all over her face or in her hair. It is up to her. If it is nice and creamy, she will love to play with it. And if it is nice and tasty, she might like to swallow it.
But don’t just expect her to swallow it. That is cruel. The only time that sex is really fun, is when it is enjoyable for both partners. Then it can be one of most pleasurable experiences in life. But often, partners see it only on selfness terms.
Ross
March 4th, 2008
I think it’s great that she found a guy who can please her.
It just grossed me out that there are guys out there who don’t have good hygeine and smell like crap.. Some people have no respect for themselves..
But, it’s great she found a clean guy with a nice dick… I personally haven’t had any complaints. All the girls I’ve slept with liked to blow me..
March 9th, 2008
Ilove to stand a woman straight up and eat till her head caves in i can do it atleased an hour at a time till she falls or passes out
March 9th, 2008
i dont lick pussys. i only lick her a-hole… it tastes better.
March 9th, 2008
i dont lick pussys. i only lick her a-hole… it tastes better.
March 9th, 2008
my knew pick up line… show us ya tits and i’ll lick ya arsehole! works everytime
March 10th, 2008
As far as Blowjobs are concerned. I will only have a woman give me a blowjob if she absolutely loves to do it! I have had two women in 20 years who actually enjoyed swallowing my cum. When she told me she would like to suck my cock and then swallow, I made sure that for the entire day, I drank or ate pineapple and a few bananas and she loved it so much that for the next 6 weeks she gave me blowjobs! For me, I absolutely love to eat pussy! I enjoy it way better if she is clean of course. That same woman used to put a v a solid hour or so until it felt like my tongue was paralyzed! I would have her sit in a comfortable chair with pillows behind her so she had her butt right on the edge of the chair and she would spread her legs really wide. She always wore old fashioned nylons and high heels and that alone would get me hard! After about 10 to 15 minutes she would grip the chair and literally quake and (my favorite part) she would put her hands on the back of my head and push a little as I worked her clit! She would not gush but she would drip sweet juice and I couldn’t lap it up fast enough! I sure miss a woman like that!
March 10th, 2008
As far as Blowjobs are concerned. I will only have a woman give me a blowjob if she absolutely loves to do it! I have had two women in 20 years who actually enjoyed swallowing my cum. When she told me she would like to suck my cock and then swallow, I made sure that for the entire day, I drank or ate pineapple and a few bananas and she loved it so much that for the next 6 weeks she gave me blowjobs! For me, I absolutely love to eat pussy! I enjoy it way better if she is clean of course. That same woman used to put a scent of lavender by her pussy and I would eat her for a solid hour or so until it felt like my tongue was paralyzed! I would have her sit in a comfortable chair with pillows behind her so she had her butt right on the edge of the chair and she would spread her legs really wide. She always wore old fashioned nylons and high heels and that alone would get me hard! After about 10 to 15 minutes she would grip the chair and literally quake and (my favorite part) she would put her hands on the back of my head and push a little as I worked her clit! She would not gush but she would drip sweet juice and I couldn’t lap it up fast enough! I sure miss a woman like that!
March 13th, 2008
nice story rick… it got me all hard and couldnt help but flop it out and rub one out. talking about licking pussy well my girlfriend is a squirter so i only go down there when i have to or if im REALLY horny. at first i loved having pussy juice squirted in my face but now im over it!!!! ive started licking out her arsehole & belly button instead and she loves it… and i dont get saturated in pussy spit… problem solved!
March 14th, 2008
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March 19th, 2008
I like my penis to get blowjob every time i make sex , I think it is granted right for men to get it from women before giving energy ,juice and all they have to their partners
March 21st, 2008
I never really liked giving head… always seemed forced into it. Have a new guy in my life, and I love to give him head. Wow, who knew. I think it is all about attitude and desire. I would do anything (sexually) to pleasure him. I actually had an orgasm giving him a blow job. That blew me away, him too (no pun intended) I don’t orgasm everytime I do it, but talk about motivation - wow! What puzzles me is that I never really enjoyed it, and now I love it - with my guy (and so does he)
March 29th, 2008
I have always loved the idea of receiving a blowjob, from way before I talked my wife into doing it the first time, after 10 years of marriage, it took years for her to work up from little licks along the shaft to taking my glans in her mouth.
But I absolutely LOVE going down on a woman, it is just such a privilege to give her so much pleasure, I would almost rather do that than have an orgasm. Almost. And it is true, what works now, doesn’t work 10 seconds later, that just makes the challenge more satisfying, when she does cum, and I LOVE the feeling of her legs clamping my head, her hands pushing my head into her pussy, giving herself over to pleasure, so fully. Wow, I need to lick some cunt, any volunteers?
March 29th, 2008
i would like my penis sucked please. i live at 22 smith street ashmore. i need nice lady to come round and suck it for me so i can cum and be happy. no man please i only like woman so please nice lady come suck it for me it very hard penis and big brown salty balls thank you very much ill be waiting for you
April 1st, 2008
Hi Muhammad, i actually live only 2 streets away from Smith street Ashmore…id love to come around tomorrow sometime…what time suits you?
April 2nd, 2008
Simple Answer: I LOVE giving head.
I have, in face, eaten a girl out before, and it disgusted me. Not because I’m straight, but because I was reminded of “what goes on down there”. Not my thing.
Anyways- I think eating a girl out is a big favor. I would rather give head than be eaten out- hands down.
April 19th, 2008
In all honesty, in the love arena between consenting adults, nothing given should be considered horrible from either side. If it is a chore or not appreciated then maybe you both should consider your appreciation for each other. If your partner doesn’t want to get it or doesn’t want to give “it” and if you take offense maybe your partnership isn’t all it should at least is all it could be. That is why it is called a partnership.
Anyway I don’t mind going down on my lady and if she wants to go down on me I appreciate it just as much as she seems to appreciate me, I just can’t seem to scream as much, geesh I wish it was that good for me.
No it’s not a chore and there are hundreds if not thousands of different human aromas, learn each, what they mean, taste and enjoy all that life has to offer, well within reason, I to have my limits, doggy poop would have stopped me at least until I had cleaned it up.
April 19th, 2008
In all honesty, in the love arena between consenting adults, nothing given should be considered horrible from either side. If it is a chore or not appreciated then maybe you both should consider your appreciation for each other. If your partner doesn’t want to get it or doesn’t want to give “it” and if you take offense maybe your partnership isn’t all it should at least is all it could be. That is why it is called a partnership.
Anyway I don’t mind going down on my lady and if she wants to go down on me I appreciate it just as much as she seems to appreciate me, I just can’t seem to scream as much, geesh I wish it was that good for me.
No it’s not a chore and there are hundreds if not thousands of different human aromas, learn each, what they mean, taste and enjoy all that life has to offer, well within reason, I to have my limits, doggy poop would have stopped me at least until I had cleaned it up.
April 20th, 2008
the best this about sucking cock for me is to tell him In the morning that I’m going to do it and wind him up all day I hat so wet knowing how horny its making him!! Then when he gets home we’re both gagging and I love it!! He usually cumms on my face or I swallow. Both are fun at the right time.
When of comes to the smell it should just be that delicious smell of sex! Only time it wasn’t was after I’d had anal sex so I guess it was forgivable!!
I’ve licked pussy a couple of times when having a threesome with my bf. That’s a little bit of a chore as I only do it cos he loves to watch! Also I Definitely find it more tiring!!!
xxx
April 22nd, 2008
Interesting debate. I just Googled “women who don’t give blowjobs” to see if anyone had seriously addressed this isssue on the web AND to confirm my suspicion that more women would rather ‘blow this popsickle stand’ than blow the popsickle when it comes to felatio.
1) Most women, in my experience, do NOT get off on it. By this I mean that although most are willing to give head, the majority I have come across seem to do it as a ‘favor’ (unlike ’sarah’ who seems to believe it is a gift from God - get over yourself sarah).
There are exceptions to this rule. Yet, even though I personally am very hygenic, a thoughtful, passionate lover who will reciprocate gladly, some women are never-the-less impassionate and disinterested in giving head.
For the most part my present girlfriend does not seem to get off in a major way when blowing me. I can sense she does it because it turns me on, but when I can sense she is mainly doing it for that reason, I also begin to lose interest. A paradox, I know.
Still, not all woman are of this disposition: in one case I dated a woman for many years who just could not wait to get my cock in her mouth. She would drop to her knees, start opening my fly and, looking up at me girlishly, ask me if it were okay if she took it out! There is no greater turn-on than a woman who loves to passionately, greedily and lustfully lick, suck and slobber all over your member. She would coo and purr when I came in her mouth and would be so wet and horny afterward that I would fuck her right away, no matter how spent I was. It is unequivocally the best sexual relationship I have ever had - a woman who was wild about cock. And yes, even though she was shy and often sheepish about receiving, I gladly gave her the same treatment.
2) I have ALWAYS enjoyed shampooing the bearded clam - eating the whisker biscuit, if you will. It turns me on. I really go for it and just keep sucking, licking, kissing-tongueing-teasing her until she pushes me away and cannot take any more.
April 23rd, 2008
im a 25 yr old bloke, have had a pretty good sex life until i met a 32 yr old girl that likes being naughty on a regular basis…if you know what i mean. what i thought was a good sex life was ABSOLUTELY nothing compared to what it is now….ummm mind blowing would sum it up. all i can say is find a woman that genuinely loves to suck your cock and you my friend will live happily ever after! ….of course there is more to a relationship BUT when my girl groans as she sucks me and does these amazing things with her tongue it just makes me love her more!…and yes i love to return the pleasure!! Dammmn, im getting hard just thinking about it, bettert get back to work before the boss catches me red-handed!
April 23rd, 2008
My ex started out really disliking it. It took years for her to graduate from tentatively licking the underside of the shaft to putting my glans in her mouth. I enjoyed it so much I just kept asking for it. Gradually she got to where she could do me for a while, but I only managed to blow in her mouth once, and she swallowed all of it.
But as the years went by, I found that she got to the point that she would start out dutifully, just because I wanted it (I know, I am a typical male blankety-blank, but dammit, it felt GOOD!) and even without any foreplay, without me much more than touching her appreciatively, by the time her mouth couldn’t take any more, she was all hot and wet and turned on and ready for penetration. Did she like it? She said she did, and the physical proof of a wet ready pussy was enough to convince me that she did. I guess that was love.
And yes, I reciprocated whenever she wanted me to. And she ALWAYS came. Hard. Really.
May 2nd, 2008
Well… the answer behind this is like many have said, behind the situation. First, I believe that there is a big correlation to gender, orientation, and how you feel about the concept of sex. Of course I cannot confirm this because I am a only on one side of each of these as is everyone else (and no Bi does not think the same as both Straight and Gay). Excuse me for implying that all men go with women by using Her when talking about male arousal and Him when talking about females, but its just natural for me to do so. After writing I noticed I had a novel… sorry, don’t read if you don’t want to.
Part I: Gender
From what I know about myself and what you read about guys is that “visual” is a big part of the whole encounter. I believe this to be very true and easily seen through what society has said about how women have to look. Women dress now in a way that sexually excites men, showing off their cleavage and revealing as much skin as possible while trying not to look too slutty. The perfect hourglass figure is asked for every day on TV, and I believe the fact that women are expected to dress like this shows how Men are visual. (Whens the last time you heard a guy brag about their girl for being sensitive, you don’t, you hear them talk about how “Hott” she is.) Having the person your currently with (who you would personally find hot) between your legs looking up so innocent and inquisitive on how you feel with your own special area in her mouth is enough to lose it all on the spot. Sounds also play a big role in mens arousal meaning that when your lover lets out those orgasmic sounds it truly adds to the whole effect, however since this can come from both licking and sticking
it goes back to visual interpretation. I’m pretty sure that most womens boobies 
are more exciting than their Down Under to the eyes of any man especially since they are right next to that lovely face. This would mean that the closer we get to those and the more often we get to touch them and play with them we are happy. Also… physical is just as important but we are wondering which one is preferred to perform.
Although I do not exclude women from being visual, because I do think they still fall for the whole male model look, I’m pretty sure they aren’t as focused on the body as guys are. Not to sound like I am condescending women in any way here, but women are very emotional. Another reason I do not believe women to be as visual as men is that you do not get the same wide-scale porn industries as you do for men. Some may say it is because it is more socially acceptable for men than women, but I believe it is because men wanted it to be socially accepted for them, and women could care less. So, I think women would be more inclined to care about their partners feelings in the entire experience than a male would. I believe this would mean for a man to be between a womans legs would be less arousing for the woman as the man can’t show as much emotion, or get as much. I personally don’t understand how a woman could be more aroused by tongue than a finger, or penis. I mean a finger is longer and i got 5 i can use at the same time to make up for girth, and a penis is much bigger than both. Since the male doesn’t produce the lubricating fluids anyways that doesn’t matter. That also goes opposite for women, a mouth is wet and warm just like a vagina. Of course they don’t scream orgasmically with something shoved in their mouth, but the tongue and touch make it very enjoyable. Also… as you see a hand job doesn’t even compare for men since the lubrication is missing.
Part II: Orientation
Very little that I can talk about here. Straight people will prefer, for lack of a better word, toying with the opposite genders, for laughs, genitalia. Gay people in turn would rather use their own genders genitalia for arousal. Bisexuals are just sad and confused, just kidding, I have no idea what to say about Bisexuals though because I am not one and they would probably rely on the other two parts of my theory about arousal.
Part III: Feelings Toward Sex
Well… pretty self explanatory I think.
I probably said stuff wrong up above due to my not thinking it through until I started writing.
May 15th, 2008
I read Russ’ post, about how he had a girlfriend who had cum just from giving him a bj, with interest because I just sucked my friend’s cock a couple of nights ago and I definitely came just from that without him needing to touch me atall or me touching myself. It was just the whole situation, I fancied him madly, wanted him and felt powerful and very, very desired. The next day he declared it as the best he’d ever had. Am sure boys say that all the time, every time but no matter, I loved hearing it. Isn’t that what sex is all about - having a bloody fantastic time and making sure that both of you feel as good as you possibly can.
In answer to the initial post.
1. Personally love it.
2. No favour, just enjoyment! I love to give a bj to a guy in isolation (ie: no other sex involved) just to give pleasure and feel that luscious, powerful feeling. I like receiving too and have tried licking a girl just the once (young & experimental!) but all in all giving a guy oral sex is best by far.
May 28th, 2008
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June 8th, 2008
I love giving blowjobs. I am a MtoF transsexual, and there is nothing I love better than a cock in my mouth. I love sucking his cock, having a man fuck my face, I love drinking his cum, taking his sperm in my mouth, on my face, in my hair, on my tits, etc.
I love eating pussy too, but sucking cock is #1 in my book.
June 19th, 2008
Good day Ron,
This is Ajaye Poonith from Mauritius. I would love to get in touch with you.
I used to give head when i was at school. Being a gay guy, I learnt a lot with my other gay friends and trust me, there is nothing better than giving a nasty blowjob!!!…I love sucking cocks!!!
June 26th, 2008
I consider myself lucky. My cock is 8.5 inches and my girlfriend loves sucking it. She can’t get enough. I am even luckier coz she likes to go all the way and drink my sperm.
I am luckier still coz she likes to get me to eat her out! I love the taste of her pussy, especially when I’ve just had a Polo or a mint of some kind. That makes her really feel it!
July 2nd, 2008
being a gay boy i love sucking cocks (preferably uncircumsized and cheesy) also love licking arseholes (preferably unwiped and moist). when a guy blows cum in my hair i get so erect that my ball sack feels like its going to explode and it literally has me creaming a-hole juice all through my panties!! but nothing compares to a freshly shaved pair of saggy balls rubbed up against your face that makes me so wet that when i finger myself and rub my g-spot ive even been known to squirt!! lately ive been experimenting and indulging myself in some poo games…can get messsy but a hot steamy corn loaf on your chest has me orgasming quicker than you can say ’shit on me cowboy!’
July 9th, 2008
Hi Tony, your just the bloke i’m looking for…where do you live and are you single??? Would love to meet up with you for some fun!!
July 9th, 2008
Hey there Nathan…i live on St Johns Street, Melbourne. We meet at the public toilet block in the park opposite the Sheperaton alleyway at 12 midnight….if you live close your welcome to join….bring a rectum expander please
July 11th, 2008
i love giving blowjobs, expecially when i see how pleasing it is to my boyfriend.
July 20th, 2008
1. I hate giving head. It’s disgusting. I get a view of my partner’s pale, sweaty gut and twitchy feet. His penis is small, weepy (precum), and the bush is out of control. The only reason I do it is because he makes me feel guilty, like I don’t love him or there’s something wrong with me (maybe there is). I don’t ask for him to reciprocate because I’ve never experienced an “O” from it, at least when he has done it (I’ve tried to communicate what works, but he either does not listen or gets all offended if I say anything). Sucking his dick is always a chore and is something I dread. In fact, I just don’t do it anymore. There is so much more to being in a relationship than me sucking him off. If he can’t see that, it’s really a shame.
2. Which is more of a favor? Maybe if it is done for the right reason (you actually want to do it), there is no favor involved.
July 29th, 2008
Wow… after reading all of these comments and absorbing it all I’ve come up with a few conclusions. 1. Women can truly enjoy giving head. 2.Ross, you’re an a hole, offense completely fine. “All real women love cock”? Insinuating what? That a woman isn’t a real women if she doesn’t like it, groomed or no? Seriously, that’s low. The only good thing you’ve really said that was good other than grooming was to not expect a woman to swallow. 2. Somisono. Seriously… get over it. Sex is meant to be completely enjoyable for BOTH partners and results in both people working to achieve that happy ending, so don’t disillusion yourself into thinking it is your “right” as a man to get head. If a woman somehow either cared for you enough to do it for your sake or simply enjoys doing it, good for you. Otherwise, it is NOT a right to receive that. It should be considered a gift, whether given willingly or lovingly, or both. Ha, think about this, if it was somehow what you deserve for the oh so hard effort you put forth during intercourse, then what does she deserve if she ever bears your child? 3. Whoever said all that bologna about male penises somehow “fulfilling” women is so utterly wrong. Physical pleasure is amazing and can very easily draw two people closer together, but fulfillment isn’t based on the physical things we experience.
Okay, so now comes what I have to add from my own thoughts. Neither women nor men should at any point in time be made to feel that it is necessary to prove his or her care for their partner by performing oral sex. This should NOT be a test or a guilt induced experience. In the right circumstances it can be very enjoyable. Yes, I personally enjoy giving head to my guy, but there was a time when I didn’t, and that was okay with him. That should always be okay. It should not ever be a forced ordeal or it will not be an enjoyed one. (Unless you’re into the whole bondage scene, I suppose) What ended up happening with us is I first had to take things very slowly;I had never even seen a man’s part before and was understandably very nervous, but he was very patient and just lightly hinted around the topic until I was completely willing to try it. Then even though I hated it the first time he made me want it simply by prohibiting me from doing it while at the same time treating me to things.. Then I was all over it and became almost aggressive toward wanting to give it. ****Men who are eager for head and women who are eager for the same thing: BE PATIENT!!!!!!!!! Please please PLEASE do not force it. That has got to be the hugest turn off you could possibly ever do, to grab your partner’s head and push them down. Nobody will want to give head if they feel that that is all you want them for and they are just your sex machine. Now I know that there are many people out there that are totally opposed to the concept of oral sex. If you are one of those people, at the very least just try it. And not just once. Even if you hate it the first few times, try it at least 5 times.
To men on the receiving end: 1. Do not force your women’s head, especially if she is hesitant to attempt it. Even having your hand ON her head can easily frighten her in a bad way when she is new at or has had a bad experience in this area. Best advice: Keep your hand away from her head the first few times she attempts it, AT LEAST, no matter how tempted you are, because she will not be comfortable with the thought of having her throat literally rammed with a hard “stick” that can produce bruising, gagging, vomit, and a blocked air passage- would you? Also, women (including myself and every one I’ve talked to) can be so incredibly turned on by noises that you make… groaning, heavy breathing, anything!! This is no time to be macho and try to stay quiet. The main reason that most women give head in the beginning is because it is for YOUR enjoyment! So let loose and enjoy it
I would put this under the women’s advise, but I don’t think noise is a problem with us 
To women on receiving end: Again, don’t try to force your partner’s head. Not cool. Also, I know that we can be very self conscious, but don’t let that ruin your fun; what’s the point of getting it if you don’t enjoy it? Shave!! This is for both men and women.. take a shower and shave!! Pussy or dick, neither is appetizing when they smell as sweat and sewage and taste the same.. with hair to boot!
Guys giving: Give. You can take. You can bloody well give. I found it interesting as I was reading that many of the men commenting on which was more of a favor openly admitted to not even having tried giving oral pleasure to a woman.. why not? Would you be ok with that same treatment? So if you try it, try it more than once. It’s more than ok to tell your partner that she needs to shower and clean very well. It’s ok. You can even say something about being clean shaven. Some women don’t realize that’s an issue and it’s far better to politely share with them these potential turn offs then put up with them. Yes, there may be some scents and tastes that you’re not used to. But thankfully you’re not a pansey, right? You’re a man for Pete’s sake! lol And just a head’s up… women don’t start off loving giving head either. The vast majority of women can’t stand it (I went so far as to say I loathed it)when they begin oral, but many (myself included) learn to love it and endure the sore jaw and lips willingly because it turns them on and they know what it does for you… so why can’t you do the same? Give it at least 5 tries. There are flavored lubes and such that you can use to help vanquish any unpleasant taste. P.S. A lot of women are VERY self conscious. Suggesting that oral on them is or could be gross in any form and level can completely humiliate them and boom. It’s over. You will not be able to experience the joy of seeing and feeling her reaction when you bring her to that pinnacle of excitement, to know that you are the one who caused her to feel that good. (at least not that time)
Women giving: Give. You can take. You can give. lol Tell your guy the things that are frightening you or turning you off. Some things he can’t change, like his ball sack. It’s there. So instead of shying away from that, embrace it. Know that that is part of your man and it’s something that you can love about him. Men can be self conscious, too. But some things he can change are his grooming techniques lol Girls, giving head is not hard. To be able to lick him (you’d be surprised how smooth he feels on your tongue) and play with him and bring him such enjoyment is just fun and can be a huge turn on. Let yourself get into it! Before you start you need to set up boundaries though and let him know what you are comfortable with. Will you deep throat? (The day I learned to deep throat is the day I started loving giving blow jobs) Can he press your head? Do you like it rough? Can he look this time?…Can he cum in your mouth? Will you swallow it? I’m serious, ladies, these are things you have to discuss. The more open and honest your sex life is, the more enjoyable it will be
So, to answer the two questions, 1. yes, women CAN enjoy giving oral, but they do not have to, and they don’t always. Sometimes, as mentioned by numerous people, it just depends on the mood and how it is presented. 2. I honestly don’t think that enough men or women have tried giving oral to a women to even begin to make an assumption. Yes, there are things that can be considered awkward, gross, and/or uncomfortable on both ends of the spectrum. Sometimes you need to be the one to step up and at least try it for their sakes and keep trying it, maybe even a dozen times before deciding that it’s really not right for you. It’s unfair to say that either is worse because of hair, taste, texture, soreness incurred, etc., because guess what? They’ve both got that. So stop whining and just try it. Several times. Talk to each other and communicate. I guess my very last thought is guys can breathe the whole time (men and women can BOTH potentially smell, so don’t pull that excuse, guys), but women cannot when a man’s part is fully inserted.
August 1st, 2008
My dad told me sex is a mutual pleasure giving contest. He died soon thereafter. That advice never let me down. Try it. It works. If the other person squirms, quit. You are noy giving pleasure.
August 3rd, 2008
There are 2 kinds of oral sex as part of having real sex and doing it both ways as a guy I enjoy that. The other kind having a girl take you by the “balls” and making you come I do not really like that that much it happens because my girl thinks it is fun to observe my bodily functions or something she thinks it is fun when I get hard because she can tease me with that and I like here to have that pleasure. The second kind does not really work the other way around woman are not that obvious.
August 5th, 2008
i LOVE giving head… waking up to my boyfriend’s morning glory is such a turn on! in fact seeing his dick is always a turn on, especially when it’s hard, makes me want to squeeze all the juice out of it! but thats just the opinion of a nympo…
August 8th, 2008
For me, whether I like giving head depends on a) the size of the cock b) how it’s done - 69 or not c) the guy’s attitude (appreciative or not) d) my mood.
To elaborate - if I am really into the guy at that time, I am into giving head. But if the guy has a large cock when it’s hard, it’s really hard to suck him off for me b/c I have difficulty breathing. I’ve tried relaxing my throat and that only works for so long. I can only do it for a few minutes at a time if he is big and I will gag eventually b/c it’s so big. If it’s not that big, it’s not as big a deal b/c I can breathe.
Not a big fan of 69 and being on bottom of that with a big guy b/c I can’t move and the cock is jammed down my throat.
Attitude - Like someone else said, if there is no foreplay or fun, then I am not real interested in doing it. Also, if there is no reciprocation or at least offer to, I’m not that thrilled.
When it is expected, I find that a turn off.
d) Sometimes I’m into doing it, sometimes not. Same with intercourse.
Personally, I don’t know a lot of women who LOVE it all the time regardless of the guy/size/mood despite what all the replies on this site say.
Men obviously love getting good head and if a girl has trouble doing it - Men I suggest you try it yourself and see what it’s like… try it out on the size of a cucumber that’s about your size hard. Shove it down your throat and keep it down there. Now try to breathe, all the while sucking hard and licking. Christ… it takes an Olympian if you have a big cock and you don’t want to gag.
August 18th, 2008
guess i’ll start off by saying i was one of those guys that said i would never eat pussy. i’ve been drunk before and almost talked into it but it didn’t happen. i think i’ve recieved head from all the women i’ve been with and it was really there choice i never was asked to do except from one girl which i faked it on cuz she aksed so manny times and she was horrible and sucking dick to the point that i never asked her again so i would have to deal with he asking me to eat her pussy. i think anyone that sucks ur dick and u start of hard and from her sucking it makes it soft she should quit and not suck dick anymore or practice.
but i think eating pussy from when i did takes more effort even if u get to the point were u enjoy eating pussy. sucking dick is mostly damn near like sucking ur thumb but eating pussy u have in my case the only person i’ve ever done it with is my best friend which whom squirted in my mouth and face supprisingly i liked it only from her other women i’ve been with i still can’t go down there but her at anytime no problem besides the fact that i make her squirt which is amazing cuz i make her do that in many ways so much so that she even had to practice and she accomplished making her self squirt.
August 21st, 2008
I dont know..people from different nations have different view to it..some love some dont..some men love and some dont..i actually do not like whorish acts in bed..i expect everything to be mutual..and not to feel guilty..after my first dirty whorish gf i hate it when girls become submissive and cock pleasing even when they are being degraded in pain and abuse..I m planning to marry a nice respected women..who i would be mutual in bed with..she does not have to be throated gaged insulted to enjoy..there are a billion romantic ways and naughty not abusive way to enjoy sex..for example words are enough..sweet words can melt a man..maybe a little teasing dance maybe reminding him that she loves him a lot..and
to let things come lil by lil..GIRLS DO NOT JUST DROP ON YOUR KNEESE most men think women who give such things from first nite are dirty and not trustworthy..and do express your fantacies with a man but take your time..NEVER EVER EVER LET a man abuse you..call you names and be super dirty kinky with you because it will end and you will eventually feel just like a whore ..and this is how he will regard you and the next man will get super disgusted that is the only reason i left my GF..she had been into a disgusting relation..and i couldnt stand the fact that if she can lower herself to be so whorish submissive dirty slave..UGHH…yuk..imagine such a dirty whore..and on me in bed she take me for granted cuz i like romantic sex..YUK..
September 15th, 2008
I love eating pussy. I especially luv it wen it taste good! N it makes my cock harder wen I kno I’m pleasurin her! I also luv gettin my cock sucked! I think it should be a returned favor alwayz… W tht bein said I kno women who have suckd a lot of dick n men who have a lot of pussy n the general thght is if it taste good thn do it!!!
October 4th, 2008
I heard about how a healthy diet has an impact on the taste of a man’s cum..I would think it effects women as well. Ok fruits, I heard about…now what about honey? I love honey, does that make my juice sweet? hmmm =) Now for sucking cock.. excuse me, I hate the term blow jobs.. he’s not a freakin balloon I need to blow air into! After all, if a woman talks naughty to her man, it’s safe to say he would rather hear from her “I want to suck your cock” with a seductive voice… and not the ” I want to give you a blowjob” Uhm nope, not effective, lol.
I was married years ago, and my ex had a terrible taste.. so bad, very bitter with the taste of pepperoni. Very strong and very difficult to enjoy it. Now, I have been with a couple of men I desired so much I litterally drool wanting to please him amd swallow him… ok, it’s making me hot now, haha. It’s ultimate pleasure on both sides when the desire is present and so strong. When a woman is pleased, not just sexually, there is no telling what she would do for her man…Hmmm, or maybe I can only speak for myself =P
October 18th, 2008
Well I’m a girl and from my experience…
1. when I was younger I use to always say no to blowjobs because I just thought it was degrading and disgusting. But now in my early 20s I really do enjoy it, it’s a turn on. Not really because of how it feels but more because of the reaction I can get out of guys. And it’s sexy watching them get all hot and bothered watching me. A guy with more girth is a little harder to take if it goes on for more than 5 min. And there’s the gagging to take in consideration if they want you to deepthroat all of it. But a smaller cock isn’t as tempting haha.
2. I do think going down on a girl is more of a chore. It’s more complicated. And a lot of guys don’t really know what to do or what feels good. So far no guy’s ever given me anywhere near pleasure from going down on me so I sort of try to avoid it even when they offer. Although most guys I’ve been with usually don’t want to do it at all.
October 18th, 2008
and in regards to sttt’s comment.
I don’t approve of abusive sex either, it’s borderline S&M, but usually tends to be one-sided. I think it also depends on the culture the person is from. Some people are more use to rough sex and some to a more romantic way.
Anyone who knows me knows I’m a intelligent and feminist woman. Although I do have quite a bit of casual relationships or one night stands I don’t consider myself to be whorish or be pigeonholed as a “slut”.
There’s obviously a double-standard even with today’s ideals on how much power a woman should have. Some guys consider the way I deal with my sex life as slutty and others think of me as empowering. A guy who has casual sex is considered normal, but this is all old news.
But to get back on topic, I do think guys from different cultures have different views on sex. I live in NY, which is a international city. Although I was raised in the midwest. So I was raised an American technically.
White guys in America are pretty much default. Those I’ve been with sort of have the same routines in bed, aren’t particularly aggressive or rough or versatile or loving. So yea they do embody sort of a equality in bed idea. Which is nice, but it’s boring. I can’t speak for foreign caucasians as of yet
Asian guys (in this case Chinese or Indian) I’ve been with are sweeter, more gentle, and little timid in bed sometimes. It’s not that they’re nicer people, but for some reason I get a sense that they’re a bit more scared. Don’t anyone get offended, there’s always exceptions to the norm. But this is just from the general observation I got from these guys.
I haven’t been with any black so I have no comments on that. It only went so far as making out, but they usually intimidate me. And it would seem that they would be a bit rougher in bed.
The guys that I found really rough and almost a bit on the sadomasochism level were actually middle eastern guys. In this case I’m just going to say Israeli and Turkish. I’ve had them ask me to bite or strangle them or something crazy. They’re more aggressive and dominant too. I do enjoy being dominated a bit, it’s sexy when the guy knows what he’s doing and is taking charge and there’s that primal rush. Plus these guys just seem more masculine, like they’re pumped on testosterone. They’re good in bed and know what they’re doing.
It’s just my take on things, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt on what I don’t fully understand yet. So if a guy is “abusive” in bed, I’m going to judge it on how far he goes. Sometimes it’s just a bit rough, but if it comes to literal degradation of a woman than I can always tell them to stop. Guys shouldn’t just judge girls so simply about how they perform in bed either. It’s always they want a girl to be sexier and try new things, but then they lose respect for them at the same time. A lot of girls do just keep giving and want only doing what the guy wants because it makes them happy, but get burned afterwards.
October 18th, 2008
Joy:
This is exactly the kind of information people want. You should definitely start a blog.
October 24th, 2008
Girls,if you REALLY love him,you’ll slob your boy’s beef regularly,
as b.j.’s are part of being a girlfriend!!!!!
October 26th, 2008
Braystreetboy, keep that kind of attitude and you’ll never get respect from any girl. To be honest say that in front of your girlfriend and she’ll probably castrate you.
October 30th, 2008
Well as a gay guy and also a bit of a trannie I love to give BJ’s, I find the biggest problem is in fact finding the guys in the first place. My question to all you guys out there is do you love blow jobs so much that you would not care if it was male or female on the end of your knob.
November 4th, 2008
I love giving blowjobs. If I could, I would be on my knees 12 hours a day, 7 days a week sucking cock.
I love being a cocksucking whore. Oh yes, grab ahold of the back of my head and fuck me in the mouth.
As my website says, my initials are BJ, and that isn’t a coincidence.
tgirl Bobbie Jo
November 5th, 2008
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November 6th, 2008
I love getting my dick sucked its awsome fuck foul tasting clit it sucks major cock haha wich i love getting sucked if u didnt know and bobbie jo if u love be a cocksucking whore why dont you just go right ahead and suck mine BYAHH
November 6th, 2008
i like it when girls suck on my wee wee it feels funny and cool sticky stuff comes out too!
November 6th, 2008
hey there johnny i like sucking little boys cocks…where you live buddy???
November 20th, 2008
Well of course I’m A Guy Who has a fetish of sucklng the male cock but however im not gay. the taste is just amazing to me i love swallowing loads and loads of cum. To me its more of a deserved treat. I mean comon how many straight guys you see sucking cocks and drinking like 10loads of cum in one setting?
thats right be jealous
November 24th, 2008
i’m straight and 31 years old,had only 1 girlfriend in my life because i’m not a sentimental, i’m good looking and 6′4 tall, had plenty of girls dying for me bombarded by phone calls and other crap which i avoided and rejected.
most of all, using power of sexuality over me = no effect whatsoever, i’m ice cold.
now, did i have sex before? absolutely
did i get a blowjob from occasional sex? YES
some do it better than others, i’m always the kind who asks what the girls into, eg. “you lips are so beautiful, i’m almost afraid to ask for a blowjob, are you into blowjobs?” …..1st reaction counts, i’m too picky and very touchy too, you not doing me a favor, you go down on me because you like sucking cock. period. this isn’t the MAFIA! …..favor my arse.
1) i do not like my back of the balls licked, that almost always make my erection die.
2) do not suck my balls, big turn off and not pleasurable in the least
3) no hands, if you use hands you grab the base and move up and down, depth required (not gagging, just go in depth), fake blowjobs = i get up, dress and walk away without a word.
4) i like can eat pussy but not all, depends on the hair, shape and looks, if it’s up to my standard i do.
i’m one of those who fire gallons of Pre-Cum when horny, my boxers always have a huge stain and have to be changed every day, id say 50% of the girls i met who notice that i pre-cum a lot find it super-hot, they start doing stuff that beats even pornstars lol suddenly.
anyway, if you think blowjob/pussy eating = favor or has to be done in turns, you’re on the wrong way to happyness, too much analyzing, too much crap.
next time u go to bed, SHUT YOUR FUCKING BRAIN and just go with the flow, suddenly even bad smell could end up being erotic.
Bye.
November 29th, 2008
i only do it if he asks. or has been particulary nice or something. yes i agree kind gesture. its not like bad but it doesnt give me much pleasure gagging :/ i use like whipped cream to make it more pleasurable for me ^_^ i prefer him eating meout odviously! as i get all the pleasure. but they always want you to go deeper. and im like gahhh. haha. end results nice though. but cum..
December 11th, 2008
Being bisexual, I have to say I can’t really definitely state that one is better than the other. There’s something just plain sexy about a pussy in your mouth, you tongue darting in and out. Making a woman cum with my tongue is the biggest turn-on ever, period. The only turnoff for me is if a woman is close to her period and the hormones are making her smell *really* strong. Otherwise I find it rather sweet/tart. Definitely a turn-on.
A cock, on the other hand, fills your mouth in a way a pussy never could. To feel the heat and firmness is something to behold. I can’t stand the smell or taste of semen, either mine or someone else’s, so I don’t usually let it get to that point in my mouth. But hoovering a nice cock is pretty amazing.
To each his/her own!
December 16th, 2008
a woman is the greatest creature on the earth ….that said u know my view on eating her…but one time a girl asked me to do itr and i said no cuz it felt insulting -.-’ is it???
December 16th, 2008
a woman is the greatest creature on the earth ….that said u know my view on eating her…but one time a girl asked me to do itr and i said no cuz it felt insulting -.-’ is it???
December 24th, 2008
I love to give my man a blow job. I totally love the power I have to make my husband’s legs wobble and he drops to his knees. I give him a blow job at least every three days. I can’t go more the a couple days without showing him that I love his taste. I actually don’t love the taste of cum but like giving him rim, I will do anything in the moment of passion to make him have the best orgasm of his life. I love hearing, “That was the best ever”, and I can tell by the sweat on his forehead and that he is holding his teeth that he means it. When I set a new personal best, he say’s his teeth are all pins and needles. I always swallow because anything else would be rude. I must admit that when I was pregnant, I couldn’t swallow, it made me literally puke. I would have him pop on my face or if it was in my mouth, I would let it run out and down my neck and breasts.
Coming up with new ideas is the only work involved. Giving the blow job is so much fun and lockjaw isn’t a problem if you keep you skills up.
So eating pussy must be much more of a favor. I have always had trouble having an orgasm during intercourse. I only want him to eat me it a couple times a month because I love quality over quantity. When we started dating, we always recuperated and since I take a lot more tonguing then he does, he eats me for 1-2 hour each time. He says he can’t eat me enough but the hot desire just didn’t show then as it does now. I can make him pop in 30 seconds and he’s record time on me is 4 minutes and change. I am usually ready in 20-30 minutes but he like to tease me forever. This didn’t happen often back 20 years ago when he eat me 2-3 times a week.
Oral sex rocks. Much more personal.
December 24th, 2008
I love to give my man a blow job. I totally love the power I have to make my husband’s legs wobble and he drops to his knees. I give him a blow job at least every three days. I can’t go more the a couple days without showing him that I love his taste. I actually don’t love the taste of cum but like giving him rim, I will do anything in the moment of passion to make him have the best orgasm of his life. I love hearing, “That was the best ever”, and I can tell by the sweat on his forehead and that he is holding his teeth that he means it. When I set a new personal best, he say’s his teeth are all pins and needles. I always swallow because anything else would be rude. I must admit that when I was pregnant, I couldn’t swallow, it made me literally puke. I would have him pop on my face or if it was in my mouth, I would let it run out and down my neck and breasts.
Coming up with new ideas is the only work involved. Giving the blow job is so much fun and lockjaw isn’t a problem if you keep you skills up.
So eating pussy must be much more of a favor. I have always had trouble having an orgasm during intercourse. I only want him to eat me it a couple times a month because I love quality over quantity. When we started dating, we always recuperated and since I take a lot more tonguing then he does, he eats me for 1-2 hour each time. He says he can’t eat me enough but the hot desire just didn’t show then as it does now. I can make him pop in 30 seconds and he’s record time on me is 4 minutes and change. I am usually ready in 20-30 minutes but he like to tease me forever. This didn’t happen often back 20 years ago when he eat me 2-3 times a week.
Oral sex rocks. Much more personal.
December 28th, 2008
1.I’m a straight guy, i’d rather take it in the butt when a dick is on a condom than sucking a cock
2. I love clean girls who clean and groom themselves well. I hate bitches who have strong body odor, esp down there, and that is just disgusting to the max, enough said.
December 29th, 2008
1, i’m a straight guy in streamwood, The Women that I;ve had that have given me a Blow job for the Most part have done very good, acouple not so good,,the good ones have enjoyed it i guess cause they were so good,, and cause they could see i enjoyed it also,:ock jaw can be avoided or ignored if all involved are enjoying the act at same time,,
2. having said that as Much as I enjoy gettin my Dick SUCKED on {not licked}.. I HONESTLY enjoy eating Pussy more,, the Women that I;ve had Befor and performed this act for,, have enoyed it Immensky,, and the site of watchun their Ass bounce up and down and reaching for more is so Exciting
January 9th, 2009
well its about d chemistry….
my girl is more den willing to give a nice blowjob n really doesnt mind me losing control inside her mouth or face… i guess it depends on d comfort level…
January 17th, 2009
1) EVERY woman I’ve encountered says or has viewed it as a chore and/or doesn’t enjoy it. I guess I’m just unlucky!
3) Eating pussy is absolutely by FAR more a favor than giving a blowjob. On a man, it’s your own saliva that’s on and in your mouth. On a woman, it’s some pugnant sweet nasty smelling (not exactly foul) stench. She has tons of vaginal fluid flowing everywhere and of course, each twat is not the same.
I’m either really unlucky or I truly am disgusted by womans massive amount of vaginal fluid. I’m not even gay and I’d rather give a blowjob than lick some rotten twat.
January 17th, 2009
The only way I’d prolly ever eat a woman out again is probably to just use a chloraseptic mouthwash and stuff my nostrils so full of vicks i can only smell medical vapor and prolly take so many vicadin i’m dead to the world around me so I don’t care about a gallon of slime all over my face.
January 22nd, 2009
do women enjoy getting eaten ,,, any tips on how to eat best
January 22nd, 2009
I absolutely love to eat pussy. Never met one I didn’t like, never anything foul or nasty. I love to hit that G spot and then hang on for dear life as she starts buckin’. I come out of there looking like a glazed donut!
I even had one girlfriend who was a squirter. Too cool.
January 22nd, 2009
You are a lucky lucky man.
January 22nd, 2009
Hey guys just wandering does anyone know when you lick a girls arsehole and you hit the G-spot…is that cum or diarehia shes squirting!!??…it surely tastes like shit!! like is it normal for women to be squirting chunks of corn and such???????
Thanks, Pete
January 23rd, 2009
My girlfriend loves to pleasure me and we make love everyday except when she’s having her period… so during her period she loves giving me blowjobs to keep me happy.
As for eating pussy, I love it because it taste so good. The only exception is right before, during, and right after her period because the scent and taste are pretty bad.
February 5th, 2009
i guess it all depends on people. but then again it has to be fifty fifty. You cant just expect to recieve you have to give. If your partner wants it shaved and you want oral sex performed on you shave i do. its like if youve been working all day take a shower before intercourse. everything involves work when it comes to sex for both parties weather it be oral or just plane sex. I go down on my girlfriend for 20-30 minutes at a time i love it but she has to stop me cause she says she cant take much more and needs a breather. she gives me head very little but im to big for her. her jaw starts hurting and when that happens she get tierd and i get teeth (ouch). and even if a girl is lying on her back missionary that doesnt mean there not doing work hell i gave my girlfriend a sports induced asthma attack during sex ounce and she hadnt had an attack in a few years. but honestly its only as bad as you make it for yourself tongues get tierd and jaws get tierd smells can be on both sides for women the flow of fluid is constint for men it comes out like a gun sometimes in a jolt. in other words if you want it good settle for how you want to give it in respect to hair odor and any other variables not mentioned.
February 19th, 2009
“”"” RobbieBobbie said:
January 17th, 2009
The only way I’d prolly ever eat a woman out again is probably to just use a chloraseptic mouthwash and stuff my nostrils so full of vicks i can only smell medical vapor and prolly take so many vicadin i’m dead to the world around me so I don’t care about a gallon of slime all over my face.”"”"”
^AMEN BROTHER, ALL THESE POSTERS ARE OUT OF THEIR MINDS. THEY’RE ADDICTED TO STINKY ROTTEN SLIME. YOU SAID IT RIGHT DUDE, YOU GOTTA GET FUCKED HIGH/DRUNK/NUMB BEFORE DOING THAT TO A CHICK.
March 3rd, 2009
omg stop talkin ues or no simple
men and women talk too much here u need something in ur mouth i know what …. DO U ??
March 4th, 2009
First, for guys, you really shouldn’t be worried about a chick not giving you a blow job. Sex needs to be a mutual thing. That means, make it about her, and I guarantee you’ll have a better time.
So go down on your girl, try to pleasure her like she’s never experienced it and I guarantee you’ll enjoy the experience a lot more than if you just want her to suck your johnson. I always tried to give my gf the best orgasm I could, and often that was going down on her and getting creative. It wasn’t easy at first! Women are complex! Here’s a big tip, most women aren’t like dudes: you can’t just dive down below and make their dreams come true, you have to start with a lot of foreplay to get her going. Then go to town!
You do that, I bet you anything she’ll want to return the favor.
As for girls, guys are a bit selfish when it comes to sex, so I would suggest asking for it in a sexy manner to get results (being polite and timely goes for both parties) Also, as well as for guys, shaving and cleaning can make the experience 100x better (well, for guys I would suggest trimming if anything) and more likely. Heck, my ex was getting laser hair removal when we parted ways, I still think about how nice that must be now! Not many guys would reject a nice pink hairless taco.
I have to repeat though, guys, make it about her, and i guarantee you’ll have a better time. If anything feels like a chore, either get over it and try to get into the mood and like it, or try waiting until you are more turned on.
Peace! And have safe sex, people!
March 21st, 2009
My wife gives me regular bj’s…its never been an issue. We use the ryhthm method of birth control, so at times, oral is very, very frequent. Sex is a part of life for us; we do it daily…so if we don’t do intercourse on a series of days, its good blowjobs instead…not to mention, my wife loves sucking me; even when we are in a safe zone and I can ejaculate inside her, I often pull out anyway and she finishes me of by sucking me and swallowing.
Interestinly, my wife thinks that this type of thing belongs in marriage…she thinks women who would do this on one-night stands, uncommited relationships; etc. are hosebags. Deep intimacy should be correlated with such sex acts, to her mind.
If you seen us on the street; you’d say “ahh what a cute couple” and would have no idea how regular my wife enjoyed sucking me!
March 25th, 2009
i love to get blow jobs i have a 11.8 inch cock girls love it!!!
March 27th, 2009
I’m an extremely horny man who likes it –giving and receiving–2-3/day. Wife needs to feel like a woman 150% before anything happens. Loves to receive, but won’t reciprocate ever. I am honest, hard-working, responsive to her needs, loving and tender. Find myself longing for before marriage girlfriends who would have sex frequently and creatively.
March 28th, 2009
I am obsessed with giving blowjobs. (I’m a girl).
I think it is really hot.. and you know what I think is hotter?
That I do it with a man I love. It might sound stupid, but those are the best. Even better when you know he isn’t acting all fake and ‘romantic’. Fuck.. I am still going to give you the fucking blowjob.
I remember my first of few blowjobs I’ve had. I had a great time. Just hearing him shudder and moan, and see him thrust his hips was so sexy. I also liked it when he pushed my head down to his cock. Mmm.
I don’t mind pubic hair much, but it would be 1000 times sexier if you were shaven guys.. I do the same for you.
(Not just for you, I also like to feel my shaved pussy when I masturbate).
*Be sincere, and don’t fucking try to be ‘romantic’. Only if you really mean it. TRUST and sincerity people. Where has it all gone?
*Sometimes I think about eating pussy, and it gets me hot. Although I can never link myself with a woman emotionally..
April 4th, 2009
Blowjobs are bit of a chore in terms of jawlock, and I think that like most women, I do it and show I’m enjoying it mainly to turn the guys on which is what I enjoy, and as a gesture.I don’t particularly like blowjobs but the above applies - I bet my bf would say that I like giving it though he’s thinking for different reasons.
I can imagine as a guy that things like hairy vaginas and smells can be a turn off - that’s why I don’t even want someone to go down on me until I’ve done my maintenance down there (even though they can be crazy enough to say they don’t mind)! This issue is exactly the same for girls I think, when I smell something unpleasant around the penis (maybe under it), you bet I’m holding my breath until I’ve peaked at the head and take a quick breather - after too long, I feel like gagging. That’s what puts me off blowjobs, guy’s hygiene (and dicks generally aren’t the same!). Most of you seem to have good experiences so that’s lucky!
I personally think oral sex for both have the same problems and pleasures (although I always thought guys had a fantasy of eating out girls).
Come to think of it, I think a blowjob is like beer/alcohol, one of those things you get accustomed more than actually enjoying it in the first place.
June 2nd, 2009
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