Do Women Like Giving Blowjobs?
January 9th, 2007 by JJ
The Churning Loyalists all know I’m completely obsessed with checking my web traffic stats, especially to see where I’m showing up in the search engines. Well, last week someone arrived at The Churning by googling do chicks like giving blowjobs? I guess I should take this opportunity to give a little advice.
See, I suspect women enjoy giving head about as much as men like eating pussy. Some love it, some hate it, and others do it as a kind gesture.
It reminds me of a recent conversation I had with some close friends. We were arguing which is the bigger favor - or rather, which is more unpleasant. The girls in the group all agreed that sucking cock must be worse than munching carpet (not that they’d know - some of the girls never ate a girl out before). They assumed that based on the taste of funky spooge, cocksucking is probably the bigger task.
But my argument is that licking clit always involves lady juice. Knob gobbling, on the other hand, doesn’t always have to end with throat yogurt. A woman can stop early, using it as a precursor to other activities.
So now I ask you all to chime in…
We have two questions to address. And remember, this is all in the name of friendly advice for random web surfers:
1. Do women like giving blowjobs?
2. Which is more of a favor - sucking cock or eating pussy?
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1) I do it as a kind gesture. Hopefully a kind RECIPROCAL gesture.
2) I get bored easily. If it goes on for more than five minutes, it’s a huge chore, either way. Do guys get lockjaw? That might be my determining factor in who has it worse.
As a gay guy, I guess my opinion is kind of jaded. I actually love giving head. Actually is sort of necessary LOL.
I know some women that love giving blowjobs and they don’t seem to look on it as a chore.
I dated girls in high school and was married at one point so I have gone down on women before too and the funny thing was in high school, I thought it was hot. When I was married…it was defintiely a chore.
So there’s an answer from the other side of the tracks.
1. Like all things in life, it depends on my mood at the time. Sometimes it’s a “kind gesture”, sometimes its more for me than him, sometimes I’m not going near it. All depends on my mood…
2. I don’t think it’s really possible to answer that question. Some people like the taste of “throat yogurt” and some people like the taste of “lady juice” so to each of those groups your argument doesn’t matter. Keeping that in mind you can’t say which is the biggest “favor.” (I don’t like viewing this as a favor either…if I don’t wanna…I’m not gonna…and if he don’t wanna, I don’t want him to…)
I couldn’t imagine eating a pussy. Them fucken claws are sharp.
And as far as giving a blowjob, that’ll never happen.
1. Like you said, it depends on the woman. Some love it, some hate it, some tolerate it. It also largely depends on the GUY! If the guy is massive, all you can think the entire time is “Omg.. LOCKJAW!!” but if he’s smaller it is much less of a task.
2. I saw going down on a chick is MUCH MUCH worse. There are so many variables. The scent, the taste, whether they have those huge winged labia, how much hair they have, etc. I think a woman could get quite foul tasting / smelling much quicker than a man.
I can’t speak for all women, but I do like to give blow jobs. It’s fun. That said, I’m going to have to say that going down on a woman - for me at least - is more fun than going down on a man. Probably because it’s sort of old hat for a guy to get a blow job, I mean, don’t they sort of expect it? Whereas a woman tends to be more grateful.
For those who think that a woman’s nether bits are/could be foul tasting/smelling (or even a man’s bits for that matter), I think they might want to raise their standards a little. I mean, foul? Really? Sure I’ve had a man’s dog shit on my floor once while we were having sex, but I’ve never once had someone of either gender smell nasty. Maybe I’ve just been lucky though.
And now you know way more about me than you should. Whoops.
1) My wife, Mrs. RockyJay says she loves sucking my cock, but also that it is very exhausting due to the very large size of my cock. Like Breigh said it: LOCKJAW… and I don’t want to picture her sucking a small one… D’oh! Now I can’t get that image of my mind…
2) I think eating pussy is way more favor than sucking a cock. Every cock is the same; once you learn it, you’re pretty much all set. Whereas, eating pussy varies from pussy to pussy. Some like this and others that. Every time it’s like conquering the Mount Everest. In addition, women are so moody that the same trick you made them come the last time would not work the next time. Plus, it better be shaven…
I’m about to blow the lid on the neighborhood….
Have done both and it depends on what you like doing better. For me, going down on a guy is infinitely better because that’s how I roll….
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1.) I was thinking about writing about this the other day. It came up in conversation that I’ve never had a consistent good blow jobber to the point of expulsion. I always get them in the beginning but then it’s over. However, I’ve known a girl to drip after about thirty seconds of giving head.
2.) From what the ladies say it depends on the size of the cock, and the hairness and smell of vagina. Personally I don’t mind a little lady juice. I like walking around in public with a faint odor of vagina wafting off my face. And while I’m going to guess that Rock Jay is correct in most cocks being the same and vaginas being different I say this: Isn’t it nice to feel like Sir Edmund Hillary everytime you go under the covers?
I meant writing about my lack of a consistent blow jobber, not the whole blow job/box chomping bit.
favor? kind gesture? oh your poor partners. Nothing, absolutely nothing turns me on more than to know I am turning my partner on. Sucking his cock drives him crazy and that is where my focus lies. It drives me wild knowing i have that much power over him. i don’t think he views his part as a chore - because during phone sex all he talks about is putting his tongue all over me and it drives me wild. He loves licking me while inserting a dildo inside of me…I love it too!
Wow, I thought I had seen some interesting…err, odd?…blogs while surfing BlogMad tonight, but this one takes the cake. Or should I say yogurt as you put it so vividly?
I would say IMO, doing a bj is easier than giving a lady a nice time. It is really easy to make a guy smile. As a woman, I know we’re all picky and particular. I shave, but still, I feel bad for my husband, lol, I wouldn’t want to do that. But then I like guys, not girls.
I guess I like giving my man a bj because it turns me on just for him to be turned on. But then I’m a kinky sort of girl.
It’s like most things in life, different strokes for different folks.
For me it depends on the guy. I’ve known some guys that if you even think about giving them a blow job you don’t even have to do the deed. Then there are those that think their cocks are all day suckers. But! Do I like it? Sometimes- sometimes not. Depends on how drunk I am~
As for which is the bigger favor I’m going to have to go with giving a blow job because it’s not a favor for someone to eat my pussy, it’s a privilege.
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1) Depends on the guy. Things I don’t like: hair caught in the back of my throat, a guy with a strong personal stench, gagging. Things I do like: All the rest. I think every girl is individual on her preferences. I like doing it for the most part and will almost always do it for my boyfriend when he asks unless there is some reason not to, which there hardly ever is. And it turns me on to do it.
2) Personally, I can’t ever see myself doing it, what with my crippling vaginaphobia and all. And, sometimes, I don’t care if he does. Some guys just plain aren’t any good at it, and if the guy is squeamish about it or treats it as a chore, I’d just rather he didn’t do it at all.
My preference is for the favorite numbers, though. That turns me on the most of all.
“just because i’m good at it doesn’t mean i have to like it”. that was my argument to a guy whose dick i apparently didn’t suck often enough.
i don’t like giving head to men because they take it for granted and expect it.
and, i’d like to point out that male bits can be just as rank and nasty as girl bits AND i’ve encounter far more gross boy parts than girl parts.
also, if you have the honor of me giving you head? don’t fucking push my head down or guide me by my ears.
cinders:
1) You’re so right. I’m not sure if girls realize this, but it really should be reciprocal. Of course, there are people in this world who like to give oral, but don’t particularly like to receive. But more often than not, it’s only polite to return the favor.
2) Yeah, dudes totally get lockjaw - or at least something similar, like a tongue-muscle cramp.
Ron:
I’m glad you commented. The gay dudes I’ve known over the years all seemed to really be into giving and receiving head. I guess it sorta comes with the territory.
Itchy:
1) Good point. Seems like the same is true for most things in life. “Want pizza tonight?” “Nahh, I’m not really in the mood.” “Wanna suck my cock?” “No thanks.”
2) “I don’t like viewing this as a favor either…if I don’t wanna…I’m not gonna…and if he don’t wanna, I don’t want him to.”
I have a different view on this. I think it’s a sweet thing to do as a favor, especially if you’re not in the mood. Sometimes giving oral can put you in the mood even if you weren’t in the mood to begin with.
MacBros:
I’ve never seen one with claws. That might be a hygiene issue.
Breigh:
1) My lady never has that problem… I mean… ummm… Yeah that’s a real problem! I totally know what you’re talking about!
2) That was my argument. there are waaaay more variables to consider in a lady’s nether regions. A dude can be ready for action with a little soap and water.
CRo:
If you never experienced an odor, you probably have been lucky. And yes, I learned a little more about you today. Nothing wrong with that.
rockyjay:
1) Your wife must be a very happy lady.
2) Dude - you’re totally not kidding about shaving. You don’t want to end up with hair in your mouth, and a patch of short fuzz can be rough on the sides of the tongue. I bet more women would get more oral action if they shaved that lovely area bald.
Julie:
I love it! The neighborhood will never be the same.
Cecil B.:
1) Dude, you’re missing out. You just gotta let loose and stop thinking about it. Maybe smoke a little chiba first.
2) Yeah, the Mount Everest comment was definitely appropriate. Maybe that should be considered a plus - it’s always a challenge!
Sooze:
It’s great that you and your partner love exchanging oral treats. It’s almost hard to believe that some people just won’t do it. Ever. I do think it’s a gesture though - even if you enjoy it, you’re still giving a gift.
Salihah:
I’m so glad to hear that you recognize the fact that shaving makes it more enjoyable for your man. Sounds like you have open lines of communication when it comes to sex. That fucking rocks.
Diane:
Line of the day:
“It’s not a favor for someone to eat my pussy, it’s a privilege.”
trouble:
1) Yeah, it should totally be a turn on to do it. Otherwise things could get awkward. It’s a very personal intimate event and that’s fucking hot.
2) “crippling vaginaphobia”? Sounds like you and your man aren’t planning a threesome anytime soon…
sarah:
Being truly gifted in this area and not sharing that with the world? That’s like being an amazing artist who simply refuses to create art.
I agree with you about the aggressive forcefulness. If a guy wants to guide his lady, words will suffice.
J.Mo : Sucking cock = yum.
P3: Eating pussy rules.
An even better conversation is what makes these things unforgettable. Technique. That’s what I want to know about.
Well, I’m quite late in replying to this, but here goes.
OK so is it a favor to suck a guy’s dick? Well for me it depends on if he’s had a shower since he last took a crap. Because, seriously, you guys know that a truly excellent blowjob does involve at least getting close to the guys A-hole with your tongue. You know, especially right behind the balls.
If he’s freshly showered, smelling all soapy, I really don’t mind. If he isn’t, fuck that. Just fuck it. That’s all.
As for receiving. Well I’m probably the only girl in the world that gets a bit uncomfortable to have a guy’s face right in my twatal area. I really don’t enjoy it unless I’m drunk.
1. Yes, some love it, some hate it. Me? I’m a gagger. Take that as you will.
2. I would have to say that carpet munching is probably the bigger favor. Granted I have never munched carpet, nor will I ever. I guess that my aversion to even the thought of putting my face all up in another girl’s beaver is probably biasing my answer.
Hmm, funny how I am no longer hungry. LOL
I just like seeing all of the different was of saying fellatio and cunninglingus…amazing. I have to go rub one out right now.
I love giving a blow job but not necessarily swallowing.
Never ate pussy…
Blow jobs really aren’t that enjoyable. But it depends on the guy.
Example: I was arguing with this guy who I had been seeing off and on, because he was practically begging for one and I just wasn’t in the mood. I wasn’t in the mood for him at that point, period. You see, I was pretty much done with him because he would never reciprocate orally. Yet he wanted it from me all the time. And he was one of those guys who watched too many porn movies and was convinced that the girl had to swallow for it to be any good. He was a meathead. Anyway, I was telling him how it was not the most enjoyable thing for a girl to do, and that swallowing was out of the question. His response? “It’s not that bad.” I asked how the hell he would know and he told me that he had tasted his own jizz once. As you might imagine, not only did I not give him a blow job but I never saw him again after that.
So men, if you’re trying to persuade a girl to give you head, never use the “I like the taste of my own spunk” argument, no matter how desperate you are. Saying just about ANYTHING else is better.
lol, Beckeye, you said spunk.
Lol,
I’m so immature.
J.Mo:
Technique? You should hire one of those cocksucking coaches. You and your gal pals could learn from a real pro. Either that or watch more hardcore porn.
mel:
I think cleanliness is of primary importance - male or female. And yes, you’re right. Fellatio could lead to having your face close to the chocolate starfish (and of course so could cunnilingus), especially in a 69 position.
DragonLady:
1) *cough* *cough* … Sorry. I had something in my throat.
2) I hear you. I’ve actually never had a cock in my mouth. I just assume it’s no big deal.
Nightmare:
You should check out our euphemism lists. That’s what’s up.
randi:
You might want to try it. Though, it’s probably an acquired taste.
BeckEye:
So let me get this straight. A guy should never taste his own goo? Or he should never admit that he’s tasted it?
Ev:
Pippi Longstocking loves the spunk.
I’m not going to tell all mankind that taking the spunk taste-test is prohibited. So, I’ll go with “never admit it.”
As a bisexual woman, I would say that it really depends on how I’m feeling. It is a lot easier to please a woman, so most of the time given a choice, I would eat pussy. But I’m married and spend most of my time giving head (not complaining), so I’ve gotten to the point where I like that just because it gives him pleaseure (And it makes me feel sexy when I make his toes curl)
Hi, Tricia sent me here. I’ll have a proper look around after writing this off my chest.
As a Swede, I’ve never understand WHY are you calling it a blowjob when it’s actually no blowing involved? *lol*
I’m sure that if it were, more women would be more willing to do it
And I just love that vision it gives me… Think of how big some of them could turn out!
*giggles*
1) I think some women do love doing blowjobs but most of them do it for their partners pleasure only, out of love or kind gesture. Let’s just say that it’s the least women can do to thank the guy who just spent 30 minutes or more on the Y triyng to make them cum… And ladies, if you want to make your man cum fast, apply PRESSURE! Most ladies I’ve known just are to soft about it. Don’t be afraid to do it hard and fast! Just observe a man masturbating and you’ll understand… Finally, men who don’t like to get blowjobs just haven’t found women who do it right. Guide them and you’ll see it’s the greatest sexual experience you’ll ever know!
2) Personaly, I simply adore eating pussy. I think I do it mostly for my own personal pleasure than hers. It makes me so horny to put my face there to smell and taste her wet pussy and to lick her A-hole at the same time… It’s so rewarding to know you made a woman cum this way. On the other hand, I can understand some men finding it a chore. Why? Well let’s face it, some women take for ever to let go and it can be hard on certain muscles. Some women have a bush the size of the Amazone Rainforest! Please ladies, a shaven pussy will drive any man wild!
1) i like sucking. it’s more of a treat for me than it is for my boyfriend. it’s a real turn on for me.
2) i’ve never gone down on another girl, and never will. my boyfriend tells me that the smell does get bad, and i understand that.
I think that both getting and giving oral sex is great as long as it is playful and done willingly. It seems if a women initiates sucking a cock she often views it as empowering. That is what they have shared with me. For whatever the reason I find bringing a woman to orgasm orally is exhiarating and I don’t find it objectionable at all. It is a special treat I have always felt lucky to get to enjoy.
hey no comments
Most women love sucking dick. I never knew a woman who didn’t like doing it. The man needs to look good and have good hygiene obviously. But, yeah, most women love giving blowjobs. Mine anyway
RE: “Is it a chore to give a blow job for a woman”
Just the mention, the hint, the tease, the suggestion of giving my man a blowjob makes me soaking wet.
Lockjaw? what are you ladies doing? It certainly isn’t enjoying the sucking and licking, and stroking of cock…
Maybe I’m cut out of different cloth.. but to me giving head is much better than receiving.
The best combination? a warm stiff cock and a well placed vibrator……
nothing is better than a good ball sucking and blow job by a woman who
wants to
I love to have my cock sucked, but only if its done in a way that I’m being ignored. I’m into cock worship. I like the woman to forget I’m even there, and for Pete’s sake, NO HANDS. Suck my cock while stroking me with your hand is nothing but a handjob with a tongue assist…not good. I want your mouth to draw out the seed.
2. As far as cunnilingus, I absolutely love going down on women. It’s actually causes me to have the hardest erections, which I guess answers the original question. Her going down on me is not a favor, its payback because I always eat her first.
hey everybody…
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as it has already been said… some people like giving head/face and others don’t..
it’s as simple as that.. if u like receiving like i do you’ll try to find someone who likes giving … and make sure she/he knows how much you like it.
I like receiving but i find it it interesting sometimes to try and give my girl a good carpet munching..
so it seems no one is one really one sided…
as for which is more of a chore … i think it’s harder to lick a pussy good than to give a good blowjob , BUT i’m not saying that a blowjob is a piece of cake.. u need to know what you’re doing in both cases.
I wish i knew more girls who love to give blowjobs
seen a lot that posted here.. but i find that in fact they are fewer than those who don’t.
For the first time I was asked by a woman and her husband to join them for a sensual evening after meeting at a political gathering. We all stayed at the same hotel and i was about 17 years older than they. She was 29 and 5′ 6″ and maybe 34C, Auburn hair and Blue Gray Eyes! he was 6′ 1″ like myself and about the same weight. Dark brown hair and Brown Eyes. Looked a bit Latin. We partied and began to play. He loved watching me eat her out and then we fucked for a while and she sucked my cock and as she was sucking me, she stopped to tell me how much she loved it and loved the feel of a solid hard cock in her mouth. She suggested I try it on her husband and I immediately said I was not gay, when she stopped me and said it was not gay to enjoy each other in private. After about 15 more minutes of eating her pussy, her husband came over to where I was feating and he had his hard cock out and was stroking it. She made a pop sound as she came off my cock and pulled on my arm and brought me to her Husbands cock. I hesitated but I was in a fever of sex and I took it and put it i my moth and it felt pretty hot! I enjoyed it and he gave me a warning as to when he was cumming but a little went right in my mouth! His wife french kissed me and I could feel her tongue all over inside my mouth to get as much as possible. He then returned the favor and he took my cum and swallowed it all! I honestly never thought I’d feel like I did but it was very exciting to me!
Do women like cock?
Some do - most don’t.
Out of twenty or so lovers (women who I have extended sexual relationships) I can only think of four true cocksuckers - two of whom flat told me I can pop where ever I wanted but they preferred to eat it. I’ve had a few who at first didn’t have any skills but became pretty adept at blow jobs once realized they liked receiving it, and even if they didn’t swallow they didn’t make a big deal with me popping in their mouth. But at least half did it as foreplay only and rarely if ever would get me off orally and always would gag and spit if I ever popped in their mouth. Real sexy. Interesting though, I only have met one women who didn’t like receiving head.
I love tasting a nice fresh pussy so its no hardship to me. Usually I don’t stop until my lover is a quivering mass of flesh in the middle of a large wet spot. And honestly I don’t see how cocksucking is any hardship as long as the recipient doesn’t try to jam it down an unwilling throat. I indulged a few women who liked snowballing and really found the taste of my own jizz rather bland. Just a musky salty flavor - a little stronger than pussy but not objectionable.
Also with the exception of one all the best fucks were also the best cocksuckers.
I m a 27 year old woman married for 2 years now.
Now the question is Do I like my man in my mouth?
Answer is YES & NO. When I am really hot, I used to do it. We lived in two different cities for an year and used to meet once in 2 months. Those days I wanted to taste him badly. But when I am not in a good mood, there is no interest for him at all
For me what really makes a blow-job a great pleasure is when the woman thoroughly enjoys it and then it is a great turn on. My girl friend loves giving me blow-jobs and especially licking my balls (which I love too).
What we usually do is start off with a shower, so she can thoroughly wash my balls and my cock to her satisfaction. She loves to fondle it. Then afterward, we have another shower so she can clean me up. She loves it! And so do I.
I am very fortunate to have a girlfriend who loves to suck on my cock every time she gets. And it is a great turn on for her too. She has even told me that sometimes she gets orgasmims doing it.
Of course I have been told by many women that I have a lovely big cock. “Just the right size for sucking.” Not too big and not too small.
i dont think women should have to suck cock if they dont want. 2 many men get off on me swallowing their cum which is sick. I hate the taste. I was with an older man for 5 years he never gave me an orgasm or ate my pussy. But i sucked his cock for 5 years every nite when i got home from work, he would call them my female duties. for a 57 year old man he still squirted loads in my mouth and forced me to swallow it.
i dont think getting a blowjob is a good thing a wouldn’t be able to look at my gf if she gave me one and cumming in a girls mouth is sick i think it could be a form of torture
Giving blowjobs for me depends on the guy. Some guys I won’t do it, it just grosses me out. Others it’s a huge turn on, and Im all into it.
But giving head is definitely better than eating a girl out. A lot of girls don’t wash properly downstairs, and nothing tastes worse than a girl who smells rancid and then wants you to taste her juice.
Also the taste of a guys cum is mostly associated with their diet. If they eat healthy then their cum is just salty tasting. And the myth that a guy who smokes weed regularly has bad tasting cum is not true either.
Honestly if the girl stinks, don’t be afraid to hurt her feelings and tell her so, maybe she’ll get the hint and use some soap down there regularly. Or bring along some babywipes and clean her up before you start.
The taste of a guys cum does depend on his diet. If he doesn’t eat that much fruit or none at all, his cum will taste salty.. If he eats tons of fruit it will be more sweeter.
Carey -
I think I can speak for most men when I say if it smells bad no part of me is going to poke it. One of the reasons I sniff around down as foreplay is for a basic health check. If its not healthy I want to know before any part of my body touches it.
Carey & John -
Overall diet makes a difference but often it is what was eaten a half day ago rather than a guys overall diet. And its the same with women - I can always tell when my lover had a lot of coffee earlier. Ditto with liquor or raw onions.
Ps: I only know this, because my gf told me it started to taste really sweet. At the time I was eating tons of fruit every day….
Not that i’ve tried it myself.. I’ve researched the theory and it’s true…
I have never known a REAL WOMAN who doesn’t really LOVE COCK. She loves to fondle it in her hands, make it hard, caress it and SUCK IT.
BUT the cock she sucks and loves so much has to be SEXUALLY presented to her. A man can’t just pull it out of his pants and expected her to like it. And of course, I never expect my women to swallow cum
The key is that the woman has to enjoy it as much if not more than the man, then it is a great experience. Even withhold it from her when she craves it. But don’t push your woman too much, or that will be a turn off for both.
Find a woman who loves to fondle, suck and fuck, then you have really found something
Good blog and always a positive or a negative response depending on who you ask? I am 52 who appreciates a great BJ just about every other day. My wife enjoys it as well and swallows me most of the time. Depending on the mood she may do other things when I cum, rub it on her nipples her lips, wherever the mood takes her. For the other blogger, eating fruit for sure makes your cum taste better she and other girls have told me, pineapple is the best I told.
I had a girlfriend who had a orgasum when she sucked my cock. My wife tells me I’m full of it and I have never heard of anyone else being able to do that, excpet in the deep throat movie.
For the most part I do not thing women wake up every morning and say………………hmmmmmmm I wonder if I should suck his cock. For the most part guys ALWAYS think that way and always will.
Good blog and always a positive or a negative response depending on who you ask? I am 52 who appreciates a great BJ just about every other day. My wife enjoys it as well and swallows me most of the time. Depending on the mood she may do other things when I cum, rub it on her nipples her lips, wherever the mood takes her. For the other blogger, eating fruit for sure makes your cum taste better she and other girls have told me, pineapple is the best I am told.
I had a girlfriend who had a orgasum when she sucked my cock. My wife tells me I’m full of it and I have never heard of anyone else being able to do that, excpet in the deep throat movie.
For the most part I do not thing women wake up every morning and say………………hmmmmmmm I wonder if I should suck his cock. For the most part guys ALWAYS think that way and always will.
1.) Sucking cock is NOT a chore. I love to please him; it turns me on way more to pleasure him than to have him pleasure me. Plus, I like the way sperm tastes and smells and I like the way it looks spread all around. When I’m just doing my thing when we aren’t having sex, I like to be treated as an equal. But when I’m sucking dick it really excites me, because I feel like it is a less severe form of my ultimate sexual fantasy; you know, love slave type things. The power of fantasization is what makes giving head enjoyable to me.
2.) Okay, I for one like ALL the smells and tastes of sex. I’ve never come across a dick I didn’t like, or a vagina for that matter. I mean, I have sex with CLEAN people. Genitalia are only smelly if the person hasn’t showered in a while, to my experience. I don’t think that either sucking dick or carpet munching are a chore– both are enjoyable! But I do prefer cock, just because I like men. The smell and taste of pussy isn’t bad at all though.
The real key to making a woman love and suck your dick is that you have to tease her for a while. She wants it and you know she wants it. BUT it has to be presented to her ROMANTICALLY.
You can’t just pull out your cock and expect her to love it and suck on it. THERE HAS TO BE ROMANCE, for the woman, to get involved.
All REAL WOMEN LOVE COCK. They think about it all the time.They love to handle it, fondle it, let it grow big in their hands, and suck on it. It is the way women are, in the same way that men love women’s breasts, love to fondle and play with them.
For men this is the real key, make sure your woman is in the mood. Don’t just stick it out there. Tease her a little bit until SHE IS HORNY and wants to play with it and suck it.
AND DON’T EXPECT YOUR WOMAN TO SWALLOW YOUR CUM. That often is a great TURN OFF for the woman. Have your woman get you off with a hand job, or great FUCK.
Also, a woman likes a nice BIG COCK. It has to be clean and pleasant. Then, she will NOT BE ABLE TO RESIST IT.
I used to give head when i was at school. Being a gay guy, I learnt a lot with my other gay friends and trust me, there is nothing better than giving a nasty blowjob!!!…I love sucking cocks!!!
Well, here is what I want to say.
ALL WOMEN LOVE COCK AND CUM!!! It is what fulfills her life! Way down deep she wants to procreate. That really is the ultimate fulfillment of her existence, (even though she usually will deny it.)
But, in order to get your woman to love your cock and cum, you have to do certain things. First of all make sure that your cock is presented to her in a very clean and proper manner. Make it Rommantic and Tease her a little bit with it. Ask her if she really wants it.
Then, as far as Sperm is concerned. ALL WOMEN LOVE GOOD HEALTHY SPERM.
The key to good healthy sperm that a woman will love is:
1. Lead a very healthy active life. Eat a very healthy diet.
2. What makes really good and healthy sperm for your woman in my experience is this:
Two or three days ahead, drink 5 to 6 glasses of ice water. And then also, take something call “Horney Goat Weed.” It is a natural supplement.
These things get my sperm out there for my women to always taste and like to get into there pussys
Ross - I’m not touching that with a ten foot pole. But I’d love to hear you best pick up lines, I suspect they are precious.
1.) I think most women really do. Let me elaborate: before I had given a blow job, the thought of it made me gag because I figured it would be uncomfortable and gross; then I gave head for the first time and it was…uncomfortable and gross. However, once I had a steady boyfriend that I was able to be comfortable with and practice with, giving a blow job became a huge turn on and now I love giving blow jobs and it’s the best way to get me wet. So, I think that the majority of women who don’t like blow jobs don’t like it because they have never done it, they had a bad experience they couldn’t get over, or have not been in a relationship where they were able to practice, practice, practice.
2.) As I bisexual woman I have had the pleasure of performing both fellatio and cunnilingus, and I don’t find either to be a chore. That being said, giving a blow job is much more of a favor for several reasons! First reason being, I’ve never experienced lockjaw while performing Cunnilingus, while fellatio can be tiring to the mouth and cause my jaw to hurt. Secondly, women don’t taste or smell THAT BAD, as long as your partner is healthy and clean it is not that big of a deal to lick it. Male ejaculate on the other hand is less pleasurable not only the taste but the texture, especially if the guy’s diet is unhealthy. Also, men make sure you shower and clean before hand, because it can be just as unpleasant to lick a taint and suck balls when they are sweaty or you just used the bathroom. Next, women are more considerate than men while receiving. This is in reference to men being a little too forceful at times by either thrusting further causing a gag reflex or pushing on my head which is a turn off. Also, guys are less likely to shave in my opinion and pubic hair in the mouth stops the flow of performing, while most women are willing to maintain down south. Lastly, women don’t spurt out a mouthful of body fluid and expect it to be swallowed–guys here’s a tip-expect that the women will not swallow, and give her a garbage can to spit in!
Here is my response to the latest posts.
Here is my all time favorite pick-up line: “Where have I met you before? Didn’t I go to high school with you? Or maybe it was your sister. Please tell me more about yourself and how somehow, I know you?” This will immediately raise her interest and you can get the conversation going. This is my ALL TIME FAVORITE PICKUP LINE. It doesn’t offend the woman, it just raises her curiousity.
As far a pubic hair is concerned. A man really should shave off a lot of it. Women, usually don’t like a lot of pubic. What really turns a woman on is a nice clean HEALTHY and appealing Cock. That SHE CANNOT RESIST. Believe me. If there is one thing in life I know it is women!!
Ross
Well I have to admit…didn’t see this blog coming(oops). I don’t see making my wife happy in any way a chore. I have always gotten into pleasing my partner. Do I expect the same in return? Not really, but I prefer head at times to intercourse. My bride of over 15 years was raised a Baptist…so I clearly had my work cut out for me. Once we got past the whole ” oral sex is dirty” thing we were cool. Sex in any form is never a favor as far as I am concerned. It is a gift, to be shared, to be certain. But in the bedroom anything should go, as long as it is consentual and isn’t too dangerous.
yeah i do think majority of women like sucking cock. but sometimes it can be down right FOUL!! this one time i sucked this guys cock all i could smell was urine, poo, stale cum and ball sweat! this bloke had not obviously had a shower for a few days & farting while i was down there had me close to gaging!! what made it worse was that his cock destinctively bent to the right & was thicker than it was long… he’s pubic hair had out grown his penis! he also had only one ball so there was a hell of alot of skin! he pulled me by the hair & began to “skull fuck” me (as he called it). unfortunately he squirted a big load in my mouth and told me to swallow it or else… it tasted like oysters that had gone off! it grossed me out for ages and i sweared id never suck another cock again. but now i have a man thats has good hygene & a big nice looking dick and i ABSOULTUELY LOVE IT! I also like it when he cums all over my face and in my hair!!
That’s disgusting michelle…
I don’t think that what Michelle said was disgusting at all. This is what I have been trying to tell everyone. Michelle had a bad experience with a guy who didn’t know how to please a woman with his cock. But now she has found a guy that uses proper hygene and she ABSOLUTELY LOVES IT!
There are rules to getting a woman to love and suck your dick.
1. First of all make sure that you use proper hygene, and trim your pubic hairs.
2. Make sure you have plenty of good tasting sperm. The best way to do this is to drink 6 to 8 glasses of ice water a day or two ahead of time and then take a supplement called “Horny Goat Weed.” This is an aphrodisiact.
3. Then make sure that your woman is in the MOOD. Make sure that she is HORNY. Tease her a little bit with your cock. Make her want it and beg for it. The great build up for all sex is the flirtation and the things that come before. A lot of men don’t understand this, but especially for women it is important.
4. Don’t expect your woman after she sucks your cock to swallow your sperm. Instead it might be far more pleasurable for her to spread it on her breast, or spread it all over her face or in her hair. It is up to her. If it is nice and creamy, she will love to play with it. And if it is nice and tasty, she might like to swallow it.
But don’t just expect her to swallow it. That is cruel. The only time that sex is really fun, is when it is enjoyable for both partners. Then it can be one of most pleasurable experiences in life. But often, partners see it only on selfness terms.
Ross
I think it’s great that she found a guy who can please her.
It just grossed me out that there are guys out there who don’t have good hygeine and smell like crap.. Some people have no respect for themselves..
But, it’s great she found a clean guy with a nice dick… I personally haven’t had any complaints. All the girls I’ve slept with liked to blow me..
Ilove to stand a woman straight up and eat till her head caves in i can do it atleased an hour at a time till she falls or passes out
i dont lick pussys. i only lick her a-hole… it tastes better.
i dont lick pussys. i only lick her a-hole… it tastes better.
my knew pick up line… show us ya tits and i’ll lick ya arsehole! works everytime
As far as Blowjobs are concerned. I will only have a woman give me a blowjob if she absolutely loves to do it! I have had two women in 20 years who actually enjoyed swallowing my cum. When she told me she would like to suck my cock and then swallow, I made sure that for the entire day, I drank or ate pineapple and a few bananas and she loved it so much that for the next 6 weeks she gave me blowjobs! For me, I absolutely love to eat pussy! I enjoy it way better if she is clean of course. That same woman used to put a v a solid hour or so until it felt like my tongue was paralyzed! I would have her sit in a comfortable chair with pillows behind her so she had her butt right on the edge of the chair and she would spread her legs really wide. She always wore old fashioned nylons and high heels and that alone would get me hard! After about 10 to 15 minutes she would grip the chair and literally quake and (my favorite part) she would put her hands on the back of my head and push a little as I worked her clit! She would not gush but she would drip sweet juice and I couldn’t lap it up fast enough! I sure miss a woman like that!
As far as Blowjobs are concerned. I will only have a woman give me a blowjob if she absolutely loves to do it! I have had two women in 20 years who actually enjoyed swallowing my cum. When she told me she would like to suck my cock and then swallow, I made sure that for the entire day, I drank or ate pineapple and a few bananas and she loved it so much that for the next 6 weeks she gave me blowjobs! For me, I absolutely love to eat pussy! I enjoy it way better if she is clean of course. That same woman used to put a scent of lavender by her pussy and I would eat her for a solid hour or so until it felt like my tongue was paralyzed! I would have her sit in a comfortable chair with pillows behind her so she had her butt right on the edge of the chair and she would spread her legs really wide. She always wore old fashioned nylons and high heels and that alone would get me hard! After about 10 to 15 minutes she would grip the chair and literally quake and (my favorite part) she would put her hands on the back of my head and push a little as I worked her clit! She would not gush but she would drip sweet juice and I couldn’t lap it up fast enough! I sure miss a woman like that!
nice story rick… it got me all hard and couldnt help but flop it out and rub one out. talking about licking pussy well my girlfriend is a squirter so i only go down there when i have to or if im REALLY horny. at first i loved having pussy juice squirted in my face but now im over it!!!! ive started licking out her arsehole & belly button instead and she loves it… and i dont get saturated in pussy spit… problem solved!
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I like my penis to get blowjob every time i make sex , I think it is granted right for men to get it from women before giving energy ,juice and all they have to their partners
I never really liked giving head… always seemed forced into it. Have a new guy in my life, and I love to give him head. Wow, who knew. I think it is all about attitude and desire. I would do anything (sexually) to pleasure him. I actually had an orgasm giving him a blow job. That blew me away, him too (no pun intended) I don’t orgasm everytime I do it, but talk about motivation - wow! What puzzles me is that I never really enjoyed it, and now I love it - with my guy (and so does he)
I have always loved the idea of receiving a blowjob, from way before I talked my wife into doing it the first time, after 10 years of marriage, it took years for her to work up from little licks along the shaft to taking my glans in her mouth.
But I absolutely LOVE going down on a woman, it is just such a privilege to give her so much pleasure, I would almost rather do that than have an orgasm. Almost. And it is true, what works now, doesn’t work 10 seconds later, that just makes the challenge more satisfying, when she does cum, and I LOVE the feeling of her legs clamping my head, her hands pushing my head into her pussy, giving herself over to pleasure, so fully. Wow, I need to lick some cunt, any volunteers?
i would like my penis sucked please. i live at 22 smith street ashmore. i need nice lady to come round and suck it for me so i can cum and be happy. no man please i only like woman so please nice lady come suck it for me it very hard penis and big brown salty balls thank you very much ill be waiting for you
Hi Muhammad, i actually live only 2 streets away from Smith street Ashmore…id love to come around tomorrow sometime…what time suits you?
Simple Answer: I LOVE giving head.
I have, in face, eaten a girl out before, and it disgusted me. Not because I’m straight, but because I was reminded of “what goes on down there”. Not my thing.
Anyways- I think eating a girl out is a big favor. I would rather give head than be eaten out- hands down.
In all honesty, in the love arena between consenting adults, nothing given should be considered horrible from either side. If it is a chore or not appreciated then maybe you both should consider your appreciation for each other. If your partner doesn’t want to get it or doesn’t want to give “it” and if you take offense maybe your partnership isn’t all it should at least is all it could be. That is why it is called a partnership.
Anyway I don’t mind going down on my lady and if she wants to go down on me I appreciate it just as much as she seems to appreciate me, I just can’t seem to scream as much, geesh I wish it was that good for me.
No it’s not a chore and there are hundreds if not thousands of different human aromas, learn each, what they mean, taste and enjoy all that life has to offer, well within reason, I to have my limits, doggy poop would have stopped me at least until I had cleaned it up.
In all honesty, in the love arena between consenting adults, nothing given should be considered horrible from either side. If it is a chore or not appreciated then maybe you both should consider your appreciation for each other. If your partner doesn’t want to get it or doesn’t want to give “it” and if you take offense maybe your partnership isn’t all it should at least is all it could be. That is why it is called a partnership.
Anyway I don’t mind going down on my lady and if she wants to go down on me I appreciate it just as much as she seems to appreciate me, I just can’t seem to scream as much, geesh I wish it was that good for me.
No it’s not a chore and there are hundreds if not thousands of different human aromas, learn each, what they mean, taste and enjoy all that life has to offer, well within reason, I to have my limits, doggy poop would have stopped me at least until I had cleaned it up.
the best this about sucking cock for me is to tell him In the morning that I’m going to do it and wind him up all day I hat so wet knowing how horny its making him!! Then when he gets home we’re both gagging and I love it!! He usually cumms on my face or I swallow. Both are fun at the right time.
When of comes to the smell it should just be that delicious smell of sex! Only time it wasn’t was after I’d had anal sex so I guess it was forgivable!!
I’ve licked pussy a couple of times when having a threesome with my bf. That’s a little bit of a chore as I only do it cos he loves to watch! Also I Definitely find it more tiring!!!
xxx
Interesting debate. I just Googled “women who don’t give blowjobs” to see if anyone had seriously addressed this isssue on the web AND to confirm my suspicion that more women would rather ‘blow this popsickle stand’ than blow the popsickle when it comes to felatio.
1) Most women, in my experience, do NOT get off on it. By this I mean that although most are willing to give head, the majority I have come across seem to do it as a ‘favor’ (unlike ’sarah’ who seems to believe it is a gift from God - get over yourself sarah).
There are exceptions to this rule. Yet, even though I personally am very hygenic, a thoughtful, passionate lover who will reciprocate gladly, some women are never-the-less impassionate and disinterested in giving head.
For the most part my present girlfriend does not seem to get off in a major way when blowing me. I can sense she does it because it turns me on, but when I can sense she is mainly doing it for that reason, I also begin to lose interest. A paradox, I know.
Still, not all woman are of this disposition: in one case I dated a woman for many years who just could not wait to get my cock in her mouth. She would drop to her knees, start opening my fly and, looking up at me girlishly, ask me if it were okay if she took it out! There is no greater turn-on than a woman who loves to passionately, greedily and lustfully lick, suck and slobber all over your member. She would coo and purr when I came in her mouth and would be so wet and horny afterward that I would fuck her right away, no matter how spent I was. It is unequivocally the best sexual relationship I have ever had - a woman who was wild about cock. And yes, even though she was shy and often sheepish about receiving, I gladly gave her the same treatment.
2) I have ALWAYS enjoyed shampooing the bearded clam - eating the whisker biscuit, if you will. It turns me on. I really go for it and just keep sucking, licking, kissing-tongueing-teasing her until she pushes me away and cannot take any more.
im a 25 yr old bloke, have had a pretty good sex life until i met a 32 yr old girl that likes being naughty on a regular basis…if you know what i mean. what i thought was a good sex life was ABSOLUTELY nothing compared to what it is now….ummm mind blowing would sum it up. all i can say is find a woman that genuinely loves to suck your cock and you my friend will live happily ever after! ….of course there is more to a relationship BUT when my girl groans as she sucks me and does these amazing things with her tongue it just makes me love her more!…and yes i love to return the pleasure!! Dammmn, im getting hard just thinking about it, bettert get back to work before the boss catches me red-handed!
My ex started out really disliking it. It took years for her to graduate from tentatively licking the underside of the shaft to putting my glans in her mouth. I enjoyed it so much I just kept asking for it. Gradually she got to where she could do me for a while, but I only managed to blow in her mouth once, and she swallowed all of it.
But as the years went by, I found that she got to the point that she would start out dutifully, just because I wanted it (I know, I am a typical male blankety-blank, but dammit, it felt GOOD!) and even without any foreplay, without me much more than touching her appreciatively, by the time her mouth couldn’t take any more, she was all hot and wet and turned on and ready for penetration. Did she like it? She said she did, and the physical proof of a wet ready pussy was enough to convince me that she did. I guess that was love.
And yes, I reciprocated whenever she wanted me to. And she ALWAYS came. Hard. Really.
Well… the answer behind this is like many have said, behind the situation. First, I believe that there is a big correlation to gender, orientation, and how you feel about the concept of sex. Of course I cannot confirm this because I am a only on one side of each of these as is everyone else (and no Bi does not think the same as both Straight and Gay). Excuse me for implying that all men go with women by using Her when talking about male arousal and Him when talking about females, but its just natural for me to do so. After writing I noticed I had a novel… sorry, don’t read if you don’t want to.
Part I: Gender
From what I know about myself and what you read about guys is that “visual” is a big part of the whole encounter. I believe this to be very true and easily seen through what society has said about how women have to look. Women dress now in a way that sexually excites men, showing off their cleavage and revealing as much skin as possible while trying not to look too slutty. The perfect hourglass figure is asked for every day on TV, and I believe the fact that women are expected to dress like this shows how Men are visual. (Whens the last time you heard a guy brag about their girl for being sensitive, you don’t, you hear them talk about how “Hott” she is.) Having the person your currently with (who you would personally find hot) between your legs looking up so innocent and inquisitive on how you feel with your own special area in her mouth is enough to lose it all on the spot. Sounds also play a big role in mens arousal meaning that when your lover lets out those orgasmic sounds it truly adds to the whole effect, however since this can come from both licking and sticking
it goes back to visual interpretation. I’m pretty sure that most womens boobies 
are more exciting than their Down Under to the eyes of any man especially since they are right next to that lovely face. This would mean that the closer we get to those and the more often we get to touch them and play with them we are happy. Also… physical is just as important but we are wondering which one is preferred to perform.
Although I do not exclude women from being visual, because I do think they still fall for the whole male model look, I’m pretty sure they aren’t as focused on the body as guys are. Not to sound like I am condescending women in any way here, but women are very emotional. Another reason I do not believe women to be as visual as men is that you do not get the same wide-scale porn industries as you do for men. Some may say it is because it is more socially acceptable for men than women, but I believe it is because men wanted it to be socially accepted for them, and women could care less. So, I think women would be more inclined to care about their partners feelings in the entire experience than a male would. I believe this would mean for a man to be between a womans legs would be less arousing for the woman as the man can’t show as much emotion, or get as much. I personally don’t understand how a woman could be more aroused by tongue than a finger, or penis. I mean a finger is longer and i got 5 i can use at the same time to make up for girth, and a penis is much bigger than both. Since the male doesn’t produce the lubricating fluids anyways that doesn’t matter. That also goes opposite for women, a mouth is wet and warm just like a vagina. Of course they don’t scream orgasmically with something shoved in their mouth, but the tongue and touch make it very enjoyable. Also… as you see a hand job doesn’t even compare for men since the lubrication is missing.
Part II: Orientation
Very little that I can talk about here. Straight people will prefer, for lack of a better word, toying with the opposite genders, for laughs, genitalia. Gay people in turn would rather use their own genders genitalia for arousal. Bisexuals are just sad and confused, just kidding, I have no idea what to say about Bisexuals though because I am not one and they would probably rely on the other two parts of my theory about arousal.
Part III: Feelings Toward Sex
Well… pretty self explanatory I think.
I probably said stuff wrong up above due to my not thinking it through until I started writing.
I read Russ’ post, about how he had a girlfriend who had cum just from giving him a bj, with interest because I just sucked my friend’s cock a couple of nights ago and I definitely came just from that without him needing to touch me atall or me touching myself. It was just the whole situation, I fancied him madly, wanted him and felt powerful and very, very desired. The next day he declared it as the best he’d ever had. Am sure boys say that all the time, every time but no matter, I loved hearing it. Isn’t that what sex is all about - having a bloody fantastic time and making sure that both of you feel as good as you possibly can.
In answer to the initial post.
1. Personally love it.
2. No favour, just enjoyment! I love to give a bj to a guy in isolation (ie: no other sex involved) just to give pleasure and feel that luscious, powerful feeling. I like receiving too and have tried licking a girl just the once (young & experimental!) but all in all giving a guy oral sex is best by far.
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I love giving blowjobs. I am a MtoF transsexual, and there is nothing I love better than a cock in my mouth. I love sucking his cock, having a man fuck my face, I love drinking his cum, taking his sperm in my mouth, on my face, in my hair, on my tits, etc.
I love eating pussy too, but sucking cock is #1 in my book.
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I used to give head when i was at school. Being a gay guy, I learnt a lot with my other gay friends and trust me, there is nothing better than giving a nasty blowjob!!!…I love sucking cocks!!!
I consider myself lucky. My cock is 8.5 inches and my girlfriend loves sucking it. She can’t get enough. I am even luckier coz she likes to go all the way and drink my sperm.
I am luckier still coz she likes to get me to eat her out! I love the taste of her pussy, especially when I’ve just had a Polo or a mint of some kind. That makes her really feel it!
being a gay boy i love sucking cocks (preferably uncircumsized and cheesy) also love licking arseholes (preferably unwiped and moist). when a guy blows cum in my hair i get so erect that my ball sack feels like its going to explode and it literally has me creaming a-hole juice all through my panties!! but nothing compares to a freshly shaved pair of saggy balls rubbed up against your face that makes me so wet that when i finger myself and rub my g-spot ive even been known to squirt!! lately ive been experimenting and indulging myself in some poo games…can get messsy but a hot steamy corn loaf on your chest has me orgasming quicker than you can say ’shit on me cowboy!’
Hi Tony, your just the bloke i’m looking for…where do you live and are you single??? Would love to meet up with you for some fun!!
Hey there Nathan…i live on St Johns Street, Melbourne. We meet at the public toilet block in the park opposite the Sheperaton alleyway at 12 midnight….if you live close your welcome to join….bring a rectum expander please
i love giving blowjobs, expecially when i see how pleasing it is to my boyfriend.