Do Women Like Giving Blowjobs?
The Churning Loyalists all know I'm completely obsessed with checking my web traffic stats, especially to see where I'm showing up in the search engines. Well, last week someone arrived at The Churning by googling do chicks like giving blowjobs? I guess I should take this opportunity to give a little advice.
See, I suspect women enjoy giving head about as much as men like eating pussy. Some love it, some hate it, and others do it as a kind gesture.
It reminds me of a recent conversation I had with some close friends. We were arguing which is the bigger favor - or rather, which is more unpleasant. The girls in the group all agreed that sucking cock must be worse than munching carpet (not that they'd know - some of the girls never ate a girl out before). They assumed that based on the taste of funky spooge, cocksucking is probably the bigger task.
But my argument is that licking clit always involves lady juice. Knob gobbling, on the other hand, doesn't always have to end with throat yogurt. A woman can stop early, using it as a precursor to other activities.
So now I ask you all to chime in...
We have two questions to address. And remember, this is all in the name of friendly advice for random web surfers:
1. Do women like giving blowjobs?
2. Which is more of a favor - sucking cock or eating pussy?

October 18th, 2008 - 14:33
and in regards to sttt’s comment.
I don’t approve of abusive sex either, it’s borderline S&M, but usually tends to be one-sided. I think it also depends on the culture the person is from. Some people are more use to rough sex and some to a more romantic way.
Anyone who knows me knows I’m a intelligent and feminist woman. Although I do have quite a bit of casual relationships or one night stands I don’t consider myself to be whorish or be pigeonholed as a “slut”.
There’s obviously a double-standard even with today’s ideals on how much power a woman should have. Some guys consider the way I deal with my sex life as slutty and others think of me as empowering. A guy who has casual sex is considered normal, but this is all old news.
But to get back on topic, I do think guys from different cultures have different views on sex. I live in NY, which is a international city. Although I was raised in the midwest. So I was raised an American technically.
White guys in America are pretty much default. Those I’ve been with sort of have the same routines in bed, aren’t particularly aggressive or rough or versatile or loving. So yea they do embody sort of a equality in bed idea. Which is nice, but it’s boring. I can’t speak for foreign caucasians as of yet
Asian guys (in this case Chinese or Indian) I’ve been with are sweeter, more gentle, and little timid in bed sometimes. It’s not that they’re nicer people, but for some reason I get a sense that they’re a bit more scared. Don’t anyone get offended, there’s always exceptions to the norm. But this is just from the general observation I got from these guys.
I haven’t been with any black so I have no comments on that. It only went so far as making out, but they usually intimidate me. And it would seem that they would be a bit rougher in bed.
The guys that I found really rough and almost a bit on the sadomasochism level were actually middle eastern guys. In this case I’m just going to say Israeli and Turkish. I’ve had them ask me to bite or strangle them or something crazy. They’re more aggressive and dominant too. I do enjoy being dominated a bit, it’s sexy when the guy knows what he’s doing and is taking charge and there’s that primal rush. Plus these guys just seem more masculine, like they’re pumped on testosterone. They’re good in bed and know what they’re doing.
It’s just my take on things, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt on what I don’t fully understand yet. So if a guy is “abusive” in bed, I’m going to judge it on how far he goes. Sometimes it’s just a bit rough, but if it comes to literal degradation of a woman than I can always tell them to stop. Guys shouldn’t just judge girls so simply about how they perform in bed either. It’s always they want a girl to be sexier and try new things, but then they lose respect for them at the same time. A lot of girls do just keep giving and want only doing what the guy wants because it makes them happy, but get burned afterwards.
October 18th, 2008 - 15:32
Joy:
This is exactly the kind of information people want. You should definitely start a blog.
October 24th, 2008 - 10:15
Girls,if you REALLY love him,you’ll slob your boy’s beef regularly,
as b.j.’s are part of being a girlfriend!!!!!
October 26th, 2008 - 15:04
Braystreetboy, keep that kind of attitude and you’ll never get respect from any girl. To be honest say that in front of your girlfriend and she’ll probably castrate you.
October 30th, 2008 - 06:02
Well as a gay guy and also a bit of a trannie I love to give BJ’s, I find the biggest problem is in fact finding the guys in the first place. My question to all you guys out there is do you love blow jobs so much that you would not care if it was male or female on the end of your knob.
November 4th, 2008 - 18:17
I love giving blowjobs. If I could, I would be on my knees 12 hours a day, 7 days a week sucking cock.
I love being a cocksucking whore. Oh yes, grab ahold of the back of my head and fuck me in the mouth.
As my website says, my initials are BJ, and that isn’t a coincidence.
tgirl Bobbie Jo
November 6th, 2008 - 05:06
I love getting my dick sucked its awsome fuck foul tasting clit it sucks major cock haha wich i love getting sucked if u didnt know and bobbie jo if u love be a cocksucking whore why dont you just go right ahead and suck mine BYAHH
November 6th, 2008 - 09:42
i like it when girls suck on my wee wee it feels funny and cool sticky stuff comes out too!
November 6th, 2008 - 09:44
hey there johnny i like sucking little boys cocks…where you live buddy???
November 20th, 2008 - 01:32
Well of course I’m A Guy Who has a fetish of sucklng the male cock but however im not gay. the taste is just amazing to me i love swallowing loads and loads of cum. To me its more of a deserved treat. I mean comon how many straight guys you see sucking cocks and drinking like 10loads of cum in one setting?
thats right be jealous
November 24th, 2008 - 02:10
i’m straight and 31 years old,had only 1 girlfriend in my life because i’m not a sentimental, i’m good looking and 6′4 tall, had plenty of girls dying for me bombarded by phone calls and other crap which i avoided and rejected.
most of all, using power of sexuality over me = no effect whatsoever, i’m ice cold.
now, did i have sex before? absolutely
did i get a blowjob from occasional sex? YES
some do it better than others, i’m always the kind who asks what the girls into, eg. “you lips are so beautiful, i’m almost afraid to ask for a blowjob, are you into blowjobs?” …..1st reaction counts, i’m too picky and very touchy too, you not doing me a favor, you go down on me because you like sucking cock. period. this isn’t the MAFIA! …..favor my arse.
1) i do not like my back of the balls licked, that almost always make my erection die.
2) do not suck my balls, big turn off and not pleasurable in the least
3) no hands, if you use hands you grab the base and move up and down, depth required (not gagging, just go in depth), fake blowjobs = i get up, dress and walk away without a word.
4) i like can eat pussy but not all, depends on the hair, shape and looks, if it’s up to my standard i do.
i’m one of those who fire gallons of Pre-Cum when horny, my boxers always have a huge stain and have to be changed every day, id say 50% of the girls i met who notice that i pre-cum a lot find it super-hot, they start doing stuff that beats even pornstars lol suddenly.
anyway, if you think blowjob/pussy eating = favor or has to be done in turns, you’re on the wrong way to happyness, too much analyzing, too much crap.
next time u go to bed, SHUT YOUR FUCKING BRAIN and just go with the flow, suddenly even bad smell could end up being erotic.
Bye.
November 29th, 2008 - 14:50
i only do it if he asks. or has been particulary nice or something. yes i agree kind gesture. its not like bad but it doesnt give me much pleasure gagging :/ i use like whipped cream to make it more pleasurable for me ^_^ i prefer him eating meout odviously! as i get all the pleasure. but they always want you to go deeper. and im like gahhh. haha. end results nice though. but cum..
December 11th, 2008 - 23:27
Being bisexual, I have to say I can’t really definitely state that one is better than the other. There’s something just plain sexy about a pussy in your mouth, you tongue darting in and out. Making a woman cum with my tongue is the biggest turn-on ever, period. The only turnoff for me is if a woman is close to her period and the hormones are making her smell *really* strong. Otherwise I find it rather sweet/tart. Definitely a turn-on.
A cock, on the other hand, fills your mouth in a way a pussy never could. To feel the heat and firmness is something to behold. I can’t stand the smell or taste of semen, either mine or someone else’s, so I don’t usually let it get to that point in my mouth. But hoovering a nice cock is pretty amazing.
To each his/her own!
December 16th, 2008 - 22:53
a woman is the greatest creature on the earth ….that said u know my view on eating her…but one time a girl asked me to do itr and i said no cuz it felt insulting -.-’ is it???
December 16th, 2008 - 22:53
a woman is the greatest creature on the earth ….that said u know my view on eating her…but one time a girl asked me to do itr and i said no cuz it felt insulting -.-’ is it???
December 24th, 2008 - 15:13
I love to give my man a blow job. I totally love the power I have to make my husband’s legs wobble and he drops to his knees. I give him a blow job at least every three days. I can’t go more the a couple days without showing him that I love his taste. I actually don’t love the taste of cum but like giving him rim, I will do anything in the moment of passion to make him have the best orgasm of his life. I love hearing, “That was the best ever”, and I can tell by the sweat on his forehead and that he is holding his teeth that he means it. When I set a new personal best, he say’s his teeth are all pins and needles. I always swallow because anything else would be rude. I must admit that when I was pregnant, I couldn’t swallow, it made me literally puke. I would have him pop on my face or if it was in my mouth, I would let it run out and down my neck and breasts.
Coming up with new ideas is the only work involved. Giving the blow job is so much fun and lockjaw isn’t a problem if you keep you skills up.
So eating pussy must be much more of a favor. I have always had trouble having an orgasm during intercourse. I only want him to eat me it a couple times a month because I love quality over quantity. When we started dating, we always recuperated and since I take a lot more tonguing then he does, he eats me for 1-2 hour each time. He says he can’t eat me enough but the hot desire just didn’t show then as it does now. I can make him pop in 30 seconds and he’s record time on me is 4 minutes and change. I am usually ready in 20-30 minutes but he like to tease me forever. This didn’t happen often back 20 years ago when he eat me 2-3 times a week.
Oral sex rocks. Much more personal.
December 24th, 2008 - 15:13
I love to give my man a blow job. I totally love the power I have to make my husband’s legs wobble and he drops to his knees. I give him a blow job at least every three days. I can’t go more the a couple days without showing him that I love his taste. I actually don’t love the taste of cum but like giving him rim, I will do anything in the moment of passion to make him have the best orgasm of his life. I love hearing, “That was the best ever”, and I can tell by the sweat on his forehead and that he is holding his teeth that he means it. When I set a new personal best, he say’s his teeth are all pins and needles. I always swallow because anything else would be rude. I must admit that when I was pregnant, I couldn’t swallow, it made me literally puke. I would have him pop on my face or if it was in my mouth, I would let it run out and down my neck and breasts.
Coming up with new ideas is the only work involved. Giving the blow job is so much fun and lockjaw isn’t a problem if you keep you skills up.
So eating pussy must be much more of a favor. I have always had trouble having an orgasm during intercourse. I only want him to eat me it a couple times a month because I love quality over quantity. When we started dating, we always recuperated and since I take a lot more tonguing then he does, he eats me for 1-2 hour each time. He says he can’t eat me enough but the hot desire just didn’t show then as it does now. I can make him pop in 30 seconds and he’s record time on me is 4 minutes and change. I am usually ready in 20-30 minutes but he like to tease me forever. This didn’t happen often back 20 years ago when he eat me 2-3 times a week.
Oral sex rocks. Much more personal.
December 28th, 2008 - 02:00
1.I’m a straight guy, i’d rather take it in the butt when a dick is on a condom than sucking a cock
2. I love clean girls who clean and groom themselves well. I hate bitches who have strong body odor, esp down there, and that is just disgusting to the max, enough said.
December 29th, 2008 - 11:54
1, i’m a straight guy in streamwood, The Women that I;ve had that have given me a Blow job for the Most part have done very good, acouple not so good,,the good ones have enjoyed it i guess cause they were so good,, and cause they could see i enjoyed it also,:ock jaw can be avoided or ignored if all involved are enjoying the act at same time,,
2. having said that as Much as I enjoy gettin my Dick SUCKED on {not licked}.. I HONESTLY enjoy eating Pussy more,, the Women that I;ve had Befor and performed this act for,, have enoyed it Immensky,, and the site of watchun their Ass bounce up and down and reaching for more is so Exciting
January 9th, 2009 - 07:31
well its about d chemistry….
my girl is more den willing to give a nice blowjob n really doesnt mind me losing control inside her mouth or face… i guess it depends on d comfort level…
January 17th, 2009 - 23:03
1) EVERY woman I’ve encountered says or has viewed it as a chore and/or doesn’t enjoy it. I guess I’m just unlucky!
3) Eating pussy is absolutely by FAR more a favor than giving a blowjob. On a man, it’s your own saliva that’s on and in your mouth. On a woman, it’s some pugnant sweet nasty smelling (not exactly foul) stench. She has tons of vaginal fluid flowing everywhere and of course, each twat is not the same.
I’m either really unlucky or I truly am disgusted by womans massive amount of vaginal fluid. I’m not even gay and I’d rather give a blowjob than lick some rotten twat.
January 17th, 2009 - 23:11
The only way I’d prolly ever eat a woman out again is probably to just use a chloraseptic mouthwash and stuff my nostrils so full of vicks i can only smell medical vapor and prolly take so many vicadin i’m dead to the world around me so I don’t care about a gallon of slime all over my face.
January 22nd, 2009 - 15:15
do women enjoy getting eaten ,,, any tips on how to eat best
January 22nd, 2009 - 16:25
I absolutely love to eat pussy. Never met one I didn’t like, never anything foul or nasty. I love to hit that G spot and then hang on for dear life as she starts buckin’. I come out of there looking like a glazed donut!
I even had one girlfriend who was a squirter. Too cool.
January 22nd, 2009 - 16:45
You are a lucky lucky man.
January 22nd, 2009 - 18:58
Hey guys just wandering does anyone know when you lick a girls arsehole and you hit the G-spot…is that cum or diarehia shes squirting!!??…it surely tastes like shit!! like is it normal for women to be squirting chunks of corn and such???????
Thanks, Pete
January 23rd, 2009 - 19:48
My girlfriend loves to pleasure me and we make love everyday except when she’s having her period… so during her period she loves giving me blowjobs to keep me happy.
As for eating pussy, I love it because it taste so good. The only exception is right before, during, and right after her period because the scent and taste are pretty bad.
February 5th, 2009 - 07:09
i guess it all depends on people. but then again it has to be fifty fifty. You cant just expect to recieve you have to give. If your partner wants it shaved and you want oral sex performed on you shave i do. its like if youve been working all day take a shower before intercourse. everything involves work when it comes to sex for both parties weather it be oral or just plane sex. I go down on my girlfriend for 20-30 minutes at a time i love it but she has to stop me cause she says she cant take much more and needs a breather. she gives me head very little but im to big for her. her jaw starts hurting and when that happens she get tierd and i get teeth (ouch). and even if a girl is lying on her back missionary that doesnt mean there not doing work hell i gave my girlfriend a sports induced asthma attack during sex ounce and she hadnt had an attack in a few years. but honestly its only as bad as you make it for yourself tongues get tierd and jaws get tierd smells can be on both sides for women the flow of fluid is constint for men it comes out like a gun sometimes in a jolt. in other words if you want it good settle for how you want to give it in respect to hair odor and any other variables not mentioned.
February 19th, 2009 - 18:05
“”"” RobbieBobbie said:
January 17th, 2009
The only way I’d prolly ever eat a woman out again is probably to just use a chloraseptic mouthwash and stuff my nostrils so full of vicks i can only smell medical vapor and prolly take so many vicadin i’m dead to the world around me so I don’t care about a gallon of slime all over my face.”"”"”
^AMEN BROTHER, ALL THESE POSTERS ARE OUT OF THEIR MINDS. THEY’RE ADDICTED TO STINKY ROTTEN SLIME. YOU SAID IT RIGHT DUDE, YOU GOTTA GET FUCKED HIGH/DRUNK/NUMB BEFORE DOING THAT TO A CHICK.
March 3rd, 2009 - 02:55
omg stop talkin ues or no simple
men and women talk too much here u need something in ur mouth i know what …. DO U ??
March 4th, 2009 - 07:18
First, for guys, you really shouldn’t be worried about a chick not giving you a blow job. Sex needs to be a mutual thing. That means, make it about her, and I guarantee you’ll have a better time.
So go down on your girl, try to pleasure her like she’s never experienced it and I guarantee you’ll enjoy the experience a lot more than if you just want her to suck your johnson. I always tried to give my gf the best orgasm I could, and often that was going down on her and getting creative. It wasn’t easy at first! Women are complex! Here’s a big tip, most women aren’t like dudes: you can’t just dive down below and make their dreams come true, you have to start with a lot of foreplay to get her going. Then go to town!
You do that, I bet you anything she’ll want to return the favor.
As for girls, guys are a bit selfish when it comes to sex, so I would suggest asking for it in a sexy manner to get results (being polite and timely goes for both parties) Also, as well as for guys, shaving and cleaning can make the experience 100x better (well, for guys I would suggest trimming if anything) and more likely. Heck, my ex was getting laser hair removal when we parted ways, I still think about how nice that must be now! Not many guys would reject a nice pink hairless taco.
I have to repeat though, guys, make it about her, and i guarantee you’ll have a better time. If anything feels like a chore, either get over it and try to get into the mood and like it, or try waiting until you are more turned on.
Peace! And have safe sex, people!
March 21st, 2009 - 10:39
My wife gives me regular bj’s…its never been an issue. We use the ryhthm method of birth control, so at times, oral is very, very frequent. Sex is a part of life for us; we do it daily…so if we don’t do intercourse on a series of days, its good blowjobs instead…not to mention, my wife loves sucking me; even when we are in a safe zone and I can ejaculate inside her, I often pull out anyway and she finishes me of by sucking me and swallowing.
Interestinly, my wife thinks that this type of thing belongs in marriage…she thinks women who would do this on one-night stands, uncommited relationships; etc. are hosebags. Deep intimacy should be correlated with such sex acts, to her mind.
If you seen us on the street; you’d say “ahh what a cute couple” and would have no idea how regular my wife enjoyed sucking me!
March 25th, 2009 - 20:30
i love to get blow jobs i have a 11.8 inch cock girls love it!!!
March 27th, 2009 - 08:07
I’m an extremely horny man who likes it –giving and receiving–2-3/day. Wife needs to feel like a woman 150% before anything happens. Loves to receive, but won’t reciprocate ever. I am honest, hard-working, responsive to her needs, loving and tender. Find myself longing for before marriage girlfriends who would have sex frequently and creatively.
March 28th, 2009 - 22:04
I am obsessed with giving blowjobs. (I’m a girl).
I think it is really hot.. and you know what I think is hotter?
That I do it with a man I love. It might sound stupid, but those are the best. Even better when you know he isn’t acting all fake and ‘romantic’. Fuck.. I am still going to give you the fucking blowjob.
I remember my first of few blowjobs I’ve had. I had a great time. Just hearing him shudder and moan, and see him thrust his hips was so sexy. I also liked it when he pushed my head down to his cock. Mmm.
I don’t mind pubic hair much, but it would be 1000 times sexier if you were shaven guys.. I do the same for you.
(Not just for you, I also like to feel my shaved pussy when I masturbate).
*Be sincere, and don’t fucking try to be ‘romantic’. Only if you really mean it. TRUST and sincerity people. Where has it all gone?
*Sometimes I think about eating pussy, and it gets me hot. Although I can never link myself with a woman emotionally..
April 4th, 2009 - 13:01
Blowjobs are bit of a chore in terms of jawlock, and I think that like most women, I do it and show I’m enjoying it mainly to turn the guys on which is what I enjoy, and as a gesture.I don’t particularly like blowjobs but the above applies – I bet my bf would say that I like giving it though he’s thinking for different reasons.
I can imagine as a guy that things like hairy vaginas and smells can be a turn off – that’s why I don’t even want someone to go down on me until I’ve done my maintenance down there (even though they can be crazy enough to say they don’t mind)! This issue is exactly the same for girls I think, when I smell something unpleasant around the penis (maybe under it), you bet I’m holding my breath until I’ve peaked at the head and take a quick breather – after too long, I feel like gagging. That’s what puts me off blowjobs, guy’s hygiene (and dicks generally aren’t the same!). Most of you seem to have good experiences so that’s lucky!
I personally think oral sex for both have the same problems and pleasures (although I always thought guys had a fantasy of eating out girls).
Come to think of it, I think a blowjob is like beer/alcohol, one of those things you get accustomed more than actually enjoying it in the first place.
June 2nd, 2009 - 13:52
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July 16th, 2009 - 13:11
I like both and yes I love to swallow. Some men have a strong masculine and somewhat unpleasant smell however not all to gether a turn off. If the man”s ejaculate and precum are sweet and he doesn t take to long I really love it. If his fluids are bitter I am turned off.
As for women, there are vaginas that smell so wonderful and taste so good. Physically, it is harder for me to go down on a woman due to there being nothing to hold on to. Its all about the clit and how you manipulate it. There are also women who just plain smell bad down there. Like the preverbial fish. I will not go near one like that. Women who squirt and smell good are a treasure.
September 9th, 2009 - 16:57
i enjoy eating pussy especially when there is no funny smell down there. that’s why i would only give oral sex after the lady has a shower. amazingly i get a blowjob with or without a shower. this is actually a puzzle for me. sometimes i think it is easier for the lady to give a blowjob than for a man to eat pussy. one thing, if the pussy is not shaved, the pubes could give a pungent smell (of course depending on the woman). the same could be true for the man i guess. but the difference is, the penis’ shape is more natural to be sucked. the pussy is “flat” so, a shaved pussy would always be inviting for me, especially after being washed. hygiene is therefore an important factor in oral sex (for me).
September 15th, 2009 - 16:01
i love sucking my guys cock, as long as he respects me when i do it,id suck him anywhere he wanted, anytime, because i actually love doing it, and making him come in my mouth
September 15th, 2009 - 17:38
I agree with you Tina, I love giving guys blowjobs, and drinking the cum ..as my website says:
Bobbie Jo – The human sperm bank, your deposit will be safe with me.
September 17th, 2009 - 19:30
Every time I eat out my wife it gets her really turned on, and it heats things up really well. However, she is very wary of it because she associates my eating her out with bladder infections, which is understandable but a big barrier in our love making. She absolutely refuses to give me head (even though she has in the past) because she doesn’t enjoy the thought of possibly getting splooge in her mouth. I love getting blowjobs, but since I’ve gotten married all that has gone down the drain, and I love to eat out my wife, but she usually won’t let me. There’s still sex in our marriage (every now and then), but it just doesn’t feel as fulfilling to me as it could. I don’t cheat on her, but it’s definitely a thought that I’ve toyed with and with which I’ve almost gone through. Is this a healthy sexual relationship? Because I’m willing to explore beyond what we know as far as what we do in bed is concerned and she isn’t, we’re never going to be completely sexualy compatible with each other. We’re thinking about divorce, and I honestly think the biggest reason for that is our lack of sexual compatibility. It’s a tough thing to work through if each partner wants different things. Don’t let “traditional” “conservative” American values get you fooled. If you and your partner don’t fully explore each other sexually before becoming completely committed to your relationship (i.e. getting married) things are going to be mighty rocky for the two of you and much pent up anger and frustration is going to happen.
September 20th, 2009 - 17:29
I don’t go down on women. I think that changes the power structure of a relationship too much, and I’m not willing to get “on my knees” for a woman, no matter how much I love her. Although I have friends (mostly white guys, I’m white too, but hispanic) that enjoy getting on their knees (psychologically speaking) and going down on a woman, but they tend to also be in more egalitarian relationships. More power to them, just not my style. Whatever makes you happy, you know?
I do, however, get head at least once a day, sometimes more. I love getting head. Better than sex sometimes.
September 28th, 2009 - 19:57
Sparty, I can relate to your situation.
I have to kick and scream to get to the point of being able to make love to my wife. And I always want to eat her out. She often thinks I am gross for doing that. She will suck me only if I put it in her face. She will not allow my cum anywhere on her body except her pussy, much less on her face or in her mouth.
I love eating her pussy, although it is a battle to get her to let me. I don’t get it. I am thinking about going astray also. But that too has a lot of negatives too. I dont know.
September 28th, 2009 - 20:11
Yeah, JDawg, I really don’t want to cheat on her, and she says she doesn’t want to cheat on me. The thought does enter my mind every now and then as sexual frustration builds.
I guess I’m just the guy that wants more variety in bed, and she’s not into that really. It’s a struggle to get her to try anything new, really. Blowjobs scare her because cum scares her, and I don’t know how to break her of that, or if I should even think to break her of that. It’s a big reason why thoughts of a new sexual partner for myself even arises, but should I be thinking these thoughts just because she’s not as compatible with me in bed as we once thought?
September 29th, 2009 - 01:00
Hey, Sparty, I just wanna say I’m proud of you for not cheating… That being said, what you think about will more than likely eventually happen. As in, if you are entertaining thoughts of trying out different women, what do you think will happen? So really I’d just encourage you to choose what you want and stick with it whole heartedly. . Can I just say that I really appreciate that you’re not sure she should be broken of her fear of that? I mean, I have swallowed just a few times, and as much as I sincerely try so very hard to like it and make him happy cuz I know it’s something guys seem to really like, I just can’t like it. It’s truelly not to be offensive, it’s just the taste and it’s shooting into your throat and tastes so bad. Maybe it’s completely mental but it makes my stomach sick and I taste it for hours. I WANT to be able to enjoy it. For me too it just always seemed so very demeaning, like a guy who did that was treating me like a toilet, and honestly, emotionally it hurt me to think that I didn’t merit more love and respect than that. So Maybe (just a suggestion) you could tell her sincerely that you won’t come on or by her if she ever went down on you. I know it sounds so disappointing, but if you don’t push, maybe she’ll be like me and eventually want to try it. I just know when my guy told me he didn’t expect me to, because he loved me and didn’t want to demean me or do that to me (in his own words) I nearly cried because I realized how much he loved me that he would apply what I had communicated to him.. Corny? Probably… These are just my feelings, and I’m not trying to get in the way,. Maybe some couple’s counseling? Only if you’re really serious about staying together, because, yeah… Sex is so important in a relationship. Truely. But only when it’s not just physical
October 8th, 2009 - 01:11
i always ask the girl and tell her I’ll buy anything to put on my cock if she wants to suck it. that said, if she says no, I don’t press the issue and ask if she wants a hug since she’s a beautiful girl. But, usually girls do it out of a favor for you and thus you should like it if your a guy. as for demeaning comment to a girl, I told her just taste it once if you don’t like it then let’s do something else. Again, if I love the girl and she loves me, I think she will do it for me but it tastes like nothing she always says and I tell her no gagging, since that means a painful experience for both. In the end, just ask and if she says no, hug or kiss, or just fuck the girl but make sure that she knows its something you would like to try but its not a deal breaker
October 9th, 2009 - 02:49
There was a girl who sucked me on for like 45 mins and throughly enjoyed it! every bit! It was after a crazy friday night, I was out partying and drinking till late; so maybe since I was so drunk I did not cum for long. I did not have a condom so it was just the blow job and she did an amazing job. This was like 4 years back and till date remains the best BJ I’ve received. She also did all sorts of the things with my dick, like twisting, biting, and what not!! Though I told her to just stop and mainly suck!! But it was fun! Well she was one horny girl too.
About eating a woman, I have a crazy preference – I actually like it trimmed below than completely shaven. I just don’t like it all bare, and that’s my preference even when I’m watching porn. I once picked a blonde who had really long hair down below. So yeah, didn’t go down and just kept fingering her, and that’s another night I remember, cause this girl was moaning and shaking all over. She was another horny bloke.
October 13th, 2009 - 10:10
OOOHH YEEES. there’s nothing I love more, then to feel my wet mouth sliding up and down my husbands big hard cock. I love to put in a good porn movie, with a lot of cock sucking in it. and then just have him lay back, while I enjoy myself fucking his cock with my mouth. the one thing I like most, is to open my mouth nice and wide. and then just slowly push his throbbing cock head down my warm throat. and then close my lips around the bottom of his cock shaft. and slowly slide his cock head back out of my throat. OOOHH YAAA, now thats the way I like to fuck a hard cock. and then when I’m all done enjoying myself. thats when I get my reward. MMMMMM, to taste that creamy hot cock cum running all in my hungery waiting mouth…. ……LOVE, PORNSTARDEB……
October 13th, 2009 - 11:48
I like sucking on a man’s dick, as long as a hand DOES NOT start pushing the back of my head!!
I would LOVE to eat out a woman, just so I could finger-fuck her while I lick the clit.