What do Guys Think of Inverted Nipples?
February 5th, 2007 by JJ
Someone arrived at The Churning last week after Googling what do guys think of inverted nipples? (Somehow they ended up at my post about back dimples.)
I had never really thought of it before. In fact, I don’t think I had ever seen an inverted nipple - in person or even a picture. But you know me. I love to give advice and I certainly don’t mind doing a little milk-sack research. Check out my answer to the question and a couple of NSFW pics after the jump…
Apparently, inverted nipples are pretty common. They can just be flat, or sometimes they’re like little titty craters. I got these pictures from a plastic surgery website, so you know there’s a market out there for “corrective” surgery. But from what I’ve read, there’s no detrimental effect associated with inverted nipples. Babies can suck milk out of those mini-nips and there’s not really an increased chance of infection or anything. So it seems like the surgery is entirely aesthetic.
I guess that’s fine. I support plastic surgery and body modification, etc. Whatever makes you feel sexy…
But back to the original question - what do guys think? The answer: Don’t sweat it. Inside-out headlights are fine. I don’t have a fetish for them or anything, but it certainly doesn’t turn me off. As long as the girl is halfway attractive and has a little sexual self-confidence, I would assume that most guys would hardly even notice.
Another option would be to find a dude who thinks the dimples on your little sweater puppies are delicious. It can’t be all that hard to find a fetishist with a thing for your nips.
And if you’re really worried about it, consider plastic surgery your final option. You could always get those funbags pierced instead. Wiki says that works and Wiki is always right.
lmao! my husband has one normal and one inverted nipple…it’s cute.
They are not that bad, to look at are they?
:D *hugs*
I’m gonna be that guy that makes you feel like shat if you have the inverted nips.
Seriously, I dated a girl for a while with the second picture up there, the non-existent nips. They’re not nasty, or gross, or unattractive, but they’re not fun. At all. I’d much prefer a nipple. Maybe I’m not talking aout inverted nips, but just non-existent ones. Once in a while they’re not bad, but a steady diet….
I’m not a fan. The second picture is gross.
??? They look fairly normal to me.
I know one lady who has one and shown me and who has them and not shown me…..yet…yea…not shown met yet.
anyways
boobs rule.
nuff said.
all nipple are different. some arent as pretty as others but hey…doesn’t mean it doesnt need to get some attention. a boob is a boob. embrace diversity. i wouldnt kick a girl out of bed for it.
Simply put, any woman who is kind enough to show me her boobies is one that will get nothing but appreciation from me.
Of course my wife may get pissed…
But simply put, any ladies who are self-conscious about this, please don’t worry. Boobies in all shapes and sizes, and nipple configurations, are great! Show those pretties with pride!
It amazes me that you get searches like that. Next you’ll probably discuss “shrinkage” lol
“As long as the girl is halfway attractive and has a little sexual self-confidence, I would assume that most guys would hardly even notice.”
I’m in agreement here… While I do prefer enough to nibble/bite on while I’m making my rounds, I’m still gonna make her moan regardless of her nipple-”vertedness”.
i have a confession to make… *sniff* oh, god this is difficult… *sniff* i have… *sniff* inverted nipples…
I had a guy tell me once I had the most beautiful breasts he’d ever seen. Of course that was 30 years ago and they’ve dropped an inch (seriously) since then and I don’t know what the consensus would be now but there’s no inversion. I’m not a guy so I can’t comment with authority but if I was bisexually inclined I’d think it was a bit strange. Wouldn’t you have to roll your tongue up really tight to administer an appropriate effect? Heh!
although i don’t doubt you had (have) beautiful breasts…I’ve said it to every breastholder i’ve encountered. of course…they were all magnificent.
What nobody’s mentioned so far is that most inverted nipples pop out and look totally normal once the owner’s aroused! Look at the second picture — if you gave her a lick or two, the nipple would appear. Of course, that still wouldn’t help her coloration. . . .
I have a pair of inverted nipples, but they’ve never bother me.
They don’t really “pop-out” when aroused. I mean they do stand up a little, but they would never look like average exverted nipples.
Is there any study of its prevalence? Both men I dated have inverted nipples. They like to be nipped more than nipping me - maybe it’s a flaw afterall.
i have inverted nips also..much to my discomfort.
personally i wanna get surgery soon. very soon.
i have had 2 guys make bad comments to me about my nipps.
neither of which ever saw them. ive never had a complaint about them from anyone who’s seen them, even after i’ve treated a guy, beyond unfairly, if im being honest. but i find them unattractive. and am very self concious of my boobs as a result. however, i do believe, some guys dont mind, obviously. my boyfriend, absoloutely loves my boobs, and plays with them any chance he gets, so i dont think he minds much :p
I have inverted nips, I’ve never had any problems with them & all the guys who’ve ever seen my breasts have never minded either.
I’ve always been told that I have great breasts by both girls & guys. You can coax them out as well, although this does take a little while longer. But as far as I’m concerned if a guy can’t be bother to do this he’s not worth the effort anyway!
I have inverted nipples too and I feel extremely self concious of them..I’ve never told anyone I have them and no one’s ever seen them either. I’m afraid to show my boyfriend my breasts becaue of them..and I really do want to show him them and have him play with my breasts (and I wish my nipples too but thats not possible because of my inverted nips…) but I feel so stupid because of my inverted nipples and I feel like he’ll be grossed out or think im weird. Why did it have to happen to me? Are these inherited or something because I hate them and I’d love so much to have normal nips :’(
to sara. i think that if you just ignore how horrible you feel about them once, if your bf is any good at all, he’ll love them. after i let the first guy see them, i didnt have much of a problem. if i knew i was gunna do something with the guy, i figured, they’re not gunna complain… my bf saw them, and is always trying to play with them ever since.
i agree with cheese cake. I am also a possessor some shy nipplets but they will come out and say hello if treated nicely. Although I still have some confidence issues with my nipples, It all seems to go away when its their time to get some attention.
About the whole inverted nipples and girls being self conscious…,. Please don’t, they’re beautiful, and all these people that say that they are weird. Suck on one, once you get done, they’re not inverted any more! And who doesn’t want to take a couple of extra seconds to play with a breast and a nipple anyway! If you’re a guy that doesn’t, well you were too greedy anyway, and you don’t deserve them because of that, any girl that thinks that you should be ashamed of your nipples, you just bring them by my way and I’ll point out all the great parts about ya! ;-P
I have IT too and I hate it!! but I heard of special instrumment calls Niplette, who suck nips on outside! I am ashamed of my nips, but I’m going to change it, because I want have normal, beautiful nipples:) and I’m going to buy Niplette:). sory for my grammar, ut I am not for UK:) pozdrawiam
Ive had them ever since i was born and im going to have surgery on them pretty soon but the first time i got self confidence and showed my bf at the time he looked at them funny and asked if they were just pierced or something. i was so embarressed i cried. My boyfriend now doesnt care though. before i showed them to him i told him all about the disorder and he seemed pretty cool with it. he loves them now that i let them out every so often so i think it definitly all depends on the guy
i have inverted nipples and was so embarrassed of them. I never let any guys see them because i thought they wold be grossed otu or something. but anyway i got surgery on them a few days ago and now i have nipples. Its amazing. I recommend for you girls that have inverted nipples and feel self concious about them to get surgery on them. It does cost a little bit of moeny..almost 2,000 dollars but trust me its worth it. You will have nipples for the rest of your life. And the surgery did not even hurt one bit. I went in at 7am and was done at 930. I woke up and didnt even think i had the surgery. Its been 5 days and the healing process has been great.
I have inverted nipples,but they do come out when coaxed and are quite a good size to nibble on when they do make an appearance,but my boyfriend loves them and thinks making them
pop out is a cool trick.I did used to worry about my nipples when meeting a new guy,but i’ve never met any it bothered.I did buy the Avent nipplette system which seriously doesn’t work,the best thing to do is be proud of your special party trick nips.I am.
i have inverted nipples. one less then other. one has been inverted since i had them, and would not go out until i discovered Avent Nipplete (in early 30ies). i was wearing it for a month but at the end it got it out. it still inverts, but can be easily pulled out when wanted. i decided to use nipplete again to try to exert them for good. i am self consius about it and dont show breasts easily, but guys do not mind it. i think they have fun with them.
oh my god…. plse somebody help me!!!! i have been sitting infront of this stupid computer for the last 7 hours trying to find a cure for inverted nipples & the best i have seen is the AVENT NIPPELLETE thing , however, its not available in india where i’m at the damn moment. Does anybody know a store here… any help would do at this time.
I have inverted nipples and am seriously thinking about getting the surgery. I’ve never let any guy see them because I’m too embaressed. Also because I’ve listened to conversations with my friends & other people about nipples, and to quote one guy, “If a girl’s nipples are fucked up, them i’m out of here” so that ruined my self confidence just a little…
It makes me a little sad to hear that all these girls are worried about what a guy will think about their sweet sweet nips. I’m a non-judgemental nip lover. I love all shapes and sizes. Guys who criticize nips are complete douchebags.
hey all….so i’m kinda in the middle here (literally hehe), my nips are sorta flat when i’m warm/not turned on, and they are out and proud when i’m cold/turned on. i used to be really embarrassed by it and i’ll admit i still try and get a little cold if my boyfriend is gonna see them. but i know he’s seen them when they’re just flat and he doesn’t seem to mind much. there’s stuff about guys that isn’t always the norm and we deal with it, so why shouldn’t they?
Most of the comment here are made by girls who have inverted nipples. What about the guys? Do they really enjoy them or, just being nice? I am not sure.. Mine are inverted and i am also extremely self conscious. I feel ashamed of them and do not like to show the to guys, even though when they’re popped up, they look really cute. I want to find some ways to fix them. I am afraid of surgery.. just so afraid.. and if that nipplete thing doesn’t work, what else can i do?
I’m a guy and I think they’re cool. I’m a big fan of uniqueness.
my girlfriend has inverted nipples and it really doesn’t matter to me. it’s fun either way
Wow sometimes it feels like I’m the only one. I know it’s silly and petty but I can’t tell you how much anguish and insecurity I have felt from having inverted nipples. It’s a fucking plague on my life. I try not to let it bother me but I can’t stand feeling bizarre or anything but standard in the nipple area. I’m very self-critical, obviously… My current boyfriend loves them but I’m afraid he doesn’t represent male kind in general. I’m so not inclined to show them to guys… BTW Niplette did NOT work for me at all. Bet they’re having fun with my $50. Hope it works at least for others. I guess I’ll just have to take the leap and accept my little eccentricity as part of what makes me unique and beautiful… But damn when you’re 18 that’s so hard to do.
The subject of inverted nipples…well, I think as a man you’re very lucky of your girlfriend or wife has one or perhaps two inverted nipples…that way you have it both ways
It certainly adds a huge amount of pleasure to foreplay and it is amazing what an icecube or two can do. With care and attention, and loads of pleasure….you can bring them out , play with them and they disappear until the next time. Everybody happy 
I have inverted nipples, and I was very self-conscious about them for a long time (I’m 30-ish). I’ve never had anyone I’ve dated be turned off by them, or make fun of them, and a couple have thought it was a great trick to get them to “come out and play”.
Everyone who is embarrassed to show them, give your guys a chance. You may be very pleasantly surprised.
I have inverted nipples and man is it hard to deal with. I am so afraid to show them off even to my boyfriend. No one has ever seen them. But I want to give it a try before I decide on surgery. I want to tell my best friend so bad to see what she think of it first. I will eventually have surgery but I am afraid. I with Allie B…”Damn it’s hard to deal with at the age of 18.”
hello people
It is sooooo good to hear from others with the same problem, to sara I feel exactly the same way as you. I am actually sat here crying i HATE them so much. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and he has never seen my boobs and he never will until i have surgery. WHy cant it be made to look normal. People think its not because thet see these page 3 models with nipples and they think that that is the norm. I really want surgery but am in so much debt already i really cant afford it i dont know what to do. its so nice to hear guys say they dont mind i know my boyfriend loves me but i know if i show him he willbe taken aback im so stuck is there no really cheap cosmetic surgery i could get?!?!
thanks guys
Just in case anyone didn’t know,some inverted nipples do come out when excited or cold( or other situations). They don’t stay inverted 100% of the time.
This is to Rachel who has been with her boyfriend for 2 and a half years,I think you should just show him your nipples,mine are inverted and my boyfriend loves them,he likes to suck them till they pop out, give your bloke a chance,he might surprise you. Once you’ve shown him,i’m sure he won’t care, not if he loves you. I do know how you feel believe me.
thanks Lynne thats really nice of you, its great to hear from other poeple cos iv never known anyone else whos the same. the only thing that puts me of showing him is he once said why do you hate your boobs so much, you dont have them flat nipples do you, n it just knocked me sick n obviously that has really put me off. I know he would love me whatever but it still embarasses me. I really want surgery but it is so ridiculously expensive. I wish i could have your confidence Lynne its great that you dont mind cos i know i shouldnt have to be embarassed its such a stupid small thing. I really appreciate your reply it helps a lot. xxxx
I am 20 and just found out that my nipples are different and inverted. I had always assumed that everyones hid until excited. It’s only been a few days and I am still self-conscious, even though my boyfriend doesn’t care one way or the other. The thing is, it sickens me when I read men saying that it is “weird” or “gross”… no one is perfect, and you do have something different with your body too. Why do men accept that penises come in different sizes, but the shut down the idea that breasts just may have the right to do so as well? If you were made to feel ashamed for what is different about you, I bet your stance would change. You should be ashamed. Considering about 30% of the female population has inverted nipples, you probably know a few women and like them while you put them down without knowing it on this message board. And don’t think you’re perfect super models and celebrities are immune.. 3 out of 10 of them have these nipples or were born with them, and you don’t even know it as you drool while looking at them. What you all have said will someday come around, and something that makes you different will be shut down and said to be wrong by a complete stranger.. and it will hurt. Until then, I hope you boys who (and notice, i used boy, as you have not matured,) will realize your vanity. To the lady’s out there in my boat, don’t worry. The world is flipping upside down, different is becoming better. Don’t let a man tell you the meaning of perfect.
good on you sarah! and as if cecil has room to comment, look at his name xx
I have IN and I’ve never had any issues with partners. Only one has straight out asked any questions and his response was “great tits”. I have a pretty big bust in DD cups and my nips do pop out when excited. Cause I have a big chest there is no way to hide them as I am relatively slim and short so I just thought from the start to make the most of what I have and be proud of them. Never has let me down. I figure a boob man is into them no matter what and we all come in different shapes and sizes.
i honestly hate my inverted nipples and really have self-confidence issues with them. i never showed anyone my boobs as a result.
but frustration never dooes anything…
there are really four ways for everyone with this problem to work this out:
1) find a guy, or guys, who dont mind inverted nipples
2) surgery for purely cosmetic reason, though it will probably affect breastfeeding later in life for young women.
3) have them pierced (i personally dont prefer that)
4) nipplette pumps, if they work that is.
worst comes to worst, theres always surgery…though im not a fan of comestic surgery at all, i think if it boosts a girl’s self esteem, then it should be done
sigh
by the way, how many percentage of all women have this issues? 5%? 105? most websites ive been on say 10%, but honestly i dont think its that prevalent.
I also wanted to add that I went to a specialist breast surgeon as I had found a lump in my breast, which turned out to be benign which was brilliant. I asked him about surgery and he put it into perspective (and seemed quite annoyed that he deals with women with much greater problems and quite a percentage who will not live which made me feel really small for asking). He basically said that he would cut around the base of the nipple, push it out and put a stitch underneath it and then sew it back up BUT that there was a very high chance i would not be able to breastfeed and also of loosing sensation (they are just fab for that at the moment and the thought of loosing sensation upset me just for cosmetic purposes) plus he said they would never look like “normal” nipples PLUS and this gave me the shudders, as I’ve never seen it listed as a negative of surgery, that there is quite a percentage of people that this happens to and it is that when the nipple is pushed out and the stitch put in, there is a change that the nipple dies due to lack of blood circulation and then it has to be removed totally. It made me go home clutching my chest, literally and figuratively, and just being so thankful for what I have.
i hate this
To Rachael (and anyone else who needs advice),
Your boyfriend was silly to make that comment but I bet he would never be down on inverted nipples if he knew you had them. I bet he would like them and I think there’s a very, VERY slim chance that it would change the way he feels about you. I know you don’t want to lose him or turn him off. Trust me, I know how hard it can be to show them to guys. It’s incredibly difficult. But I think we who have them are far more harsh on ourselves than others are on us… No one else really seems to care at all. Some things to remember (from experience):
a) Your boyfriend clearly loves you, and chances are he’s not physically “perfect” either. Anyone who can’t accept a “flaw” or unusual trait in a partner is crazy.
b) If you show him your breasts, either he will accept or like or love them (like mine does) and an enormous weight and burden will be off your shoulders. This is the vastly more probable scenario. Or he will not like them. If he doesn’t, most likely he will accept them and get used to them and they will grow on him. In the teeny chance that he can’t deal with it, you truly are better off without a guy who would care that much.
I know it is much easier said than done. Just try to be brave. I’m sure they are BEAUTIFUL and I strongly encourage you to avoid surgery… All the before/after pics I have seen are thoroughly disappointing. The reality is, we will probably never look like the nipple “ideal” we aspire to. That is so hard to come to grips with. But I honestly think that you will be far happier and more at ease with yourself in the long run if you push through the embarrassment and don’t opt for surgery. Living with it will make you stronger and probably more accepting a person.
Thanks for reading my diatribe. Hope it helps. I’m still trying to take my own advice every day.
hey everyone
im posting again i had posted way above and said how self concious i was of my inverted nipples and how much i hate them… i still do and it really upsets me the fact that i have these and have to feel so uncomfortable about it. I’m still with the same boyfriend i was talking about before and i did end up showing them to him a couple times but not full in the face, just like glanced and it was slightly dark..he said they were fine (one time he asked if they were cut off or something which made me feel even stupider.. oh my goddd i hate these stupid nipples >:O ) but im still scared and i made him promise not to tell anyone and i tried to explain to himi why im so uncomfortable about them..he never says anything about them and seems liek hes turned on still when he sees them i just dont really know…im still scared he might tell his friends becuase i just feel so stupid about themand i know most guys always talk about a girl and things they like and dont like about them and their bodies and stuff..i dont know.. i just hate these stupid inverted nipples!!! i just want to be able to be comfortable being naked in front of my boyfriend and i want him to love me and my body and its bad enough how much girls are self concious of themselves in the first place…this just makes it worse
Oh and another thing i wanted to ask… is it true for everyone that you can make your inverted nipples come out like during foreplay or whatever? or getting them really cold or sucked on or something? becuase ive never ever been able to get them to pop out, they are always in and when i get cold my nipples like get a little bit smaller and like kind of harder around where it goes in, i cant explain it but i just want to know how exactly i can make them pop out… Or is there anyone else whose nipples can’t pop out? maybe mind just don’t :/
im exactly the same sara they wer tlkin about it on radio 1 on scott mills n they were like laughin about it which made it worse, wankers. Anyway sara maybe you have flat nipples like me rather than inverted ones flat ones just dont do anything they just look like a slit like the second pic. I would def recommend buying an avent nipplette. Its about £35 from boots in the babycare section and you wear it at night it sucks your nipples out. Mine arent corrected like it says they will be but before they didnt even become erect whereas now they do which is a definate improvement! xxxxxx
hey rachael,
well they look more similar to the first picture not the second, and i have feeling they are inverted and not the flat ones. Does that nipplette thing really work? I live in the u.s. and im only 16 so i dont really want to go buy one or order one online or anything because i dont want anyonet to find out. So how does the nipplette work? Is it effective for everyone…can it like have a bad effect on my nipples andmake them hurt and look worse than they already do? im just worried… i dont want surgery because im afraid it will make them look even uglier than they are or get infected or something bad might happen… i just wish i was born with normal nipples.
heres a question for anyone:
Those of you who are able to get their inverted nipples to come out please tell me of different ways that work so i can try them out? I haven’t been able to..thanks..
i wish i was born with normal nipples too people who have them really dont know how lucky they are it makes it worse because i am an A cup too! i literally wake up EVERY day thinking about them i really do i am desperately trying to save up for surgery but i too am worried there will be scarring or they will get infected. i know what you mean sara i didnt want to buy it off the internet either so i ran to the checkout at boots, hid my face and then hid it in my massive bag. To be honest if your nipples are inverted it will probably have a MUCH better affect on you than on me because you basically have nipples they just need sucking out. and no it doesnt hurt sometimes it makes your nipples cracked and discharge comes out but it will definately have an effect it did on me and mine are really really bad. they are 2 suction cups and you put them over your nipple and suck them out even after 1 night when you take them off your nipples will be stuck out for a few minutes! read this http://www.avent.com/uk/en/breastfeeding_niplette_in-depth.php But i live in england so i dont really know where you could find it in a shop in the us. they sell them at most chemists over here though so im guessing they do in america too! i would definately recommend it though and it definately wont make them look worse im sure xxxxx
thanks rachael that helps a lot, and don’t feel bad im like an a/b cup my boobs aren’t large either but im slim anyway so im used to being small lol, im already uncomfortable about my body in other ways these nipples just really top it off. Hopefully someday i’ll try that nipplette thing, sometime soon i hope i jsut really want them to come out at least when they are stimulated so i can feel more comfortable about myself and around my boyfriend.
yeah thats all i wanted too really well if thats what you want the niplette will DEFINATELY go some way to helping you i was sceptical but its has had some result on me even though it is actually for people with inverted rather than flat nipples. the worst thing was ive just been on holiday and absolutely EVERYONE there was sunbathing topless n i hate that my bf will have seen their boobs and have noticed their nipples and then will think mine are weird when (if) if eventually gets to see them. anyway i commend you on showing them to your bf! youv got more balls than me! xxxxx
i ended up showing my inverted nipples to my boyfriend like two weeks ago. it turned out that he doesnt mind at all, in fact, he loves sucking them out….and all the time i spent worrying…well inverted nipples are just part of a girls body. if a guy cant even accept this little abnormality…(10% of all women have it!) then he should go to hell.
i found this site tonight because i was fighting with my bf about them. Until now I thought they are the ugliest things on earth. Moreover my first bf who left me after 5 years told me he had seen nipples but mine are the most unattractive of all so he didnt like to touch me there. after he left me i thought: i will never show them to anyone again.” Well, I lived with this fright of letting another person see them until i met my present bf. I love him, too much and i was afraid i will lose him because of my inverted nipples and not only. It was so hard to think he may like me as i am as he always tells me. i showed them to him after so many desperate attempts and he kissed me he sucked them and it felt so strange and i was really ashamed cos i felt he can have any girl with nice nipples and not be forced to do that, i felt guilty about the way i am. but something happened tonight. I decided to find out how this problem of mine is called in english and i found this site, with so many girls who say they have the same problem, little abnormality how other ppl said above. i read every one very carefully. Some girls decided to have a surgical thing as i was thinking too and some just live with them and are not ashamed of themselves. i am sure all the girls who have the same issue would love to be part of the second group of girls who live with it. I want it too, now i want it, cos my bf says he loves everything about me. and i believe him. now i really believe him and not only that but i want to consider myself normal. i need it. and if until now i always said i will try to do it .. well now i will really remove it from my head, and not consider myself ugly anymore. i am how i am and if he loves me the way i am it is because i am normal. in his eyes and in my own eyes too.
wow mari, i just wanted to say what you wrote was so great, its true everything you’ve said and i am so happy for you that you are able to feel that way..it even motivates me somewhat to feel the same about myslef and accept what i have and consider myself normal. I know my b/f likes me for who i am…and us who have these inverted nipples can’t help the fact that we have them…we were born with them and theres nothing we can do about it so im with you and want inverted/flat nipples to be accepted as nothing ugly or unattractive..
i really applaud you mari and i really wish i cold feel that way too because after all they are 2 tiny bumps on our boobs and its really nothing is it! but its just not considered to be normal unfortunately is it? we need some celebrities or glamour models to have them and then it wold be considered normal! i really cannot afford surgery and i know in the back of my head i should be happy with them and not care what people think but i just do it will haunt me forever whenever someones on tv talking about nipples or some topless girl is in the paper i will feel like my bf is thinking why arent my gfs like that. boys just believe the media and because of fhm and stpid lads mags like that they think that protruding nipples are normal i would be VERY surprised if there has ever been a successful glamour model with inverted nipples there really should be someone who comes out on tv and shows them and i would feel a lot better! but its like a taboo nobody really knows about them which makes them seem weird and abnormal. but anyway mari well done and i really hope that one day i can feel like that but its just such a big step to show them to him i know one day hes gonna get mad though i mean bless him he has waited nearly 3 years i annoy myself let alone him. xxxxx
Dear me i didnt think there was so many of us and i find it confusing… so inverted nipples are the ‘ones’ where when we are not turned on or warm they stay hidden and then whe turned on or cold they ‘pop’out … is that right ? So normal ones are just the ones which are out all the time ?
w.b please
Dear me i didnt think there was so many of us and i find it confusing… so inverted nipples are the ‘ones’ where when we are not turned on or warm they stay hidden and then whe turned on or cold they ‘pop’out … is that right ? So normal ones are just the ones which are out all the time ?
w.b please
Just wanted to add, I stumbled across a topless picture of some recent beauty queen (Miss England I think) at the beach. And one of her nipples was “normal,” the other was completely inverted. And there were no comments at all about it in the picture comments.
“I am actually sat here crying i HATE them so much.”
These are some of the saddest comments I’ve heard from women… like a butterfly hating that it has brightly colored wings.
Inverted nipples are **ADORABLE**. I really feel bad that comments might have been made to you in your lives by some uneducated jerks that left you feeling otherwise.
Really though, they’re soo cute. Not all (or even most) guys hate them.
thats so nice craig! i hope you get a girl with inverted nipples then she doesnt have to feel so ashamed, she’d be very lucky to have you i think you are one in a million!
God, this is like sitting in on an inverted nipple support group. I don’t have them, but I’d like to give everyone who does a big, big hug.
its not so much being ashamed as it is embarassed. I won’t lie..they make me feel like the ugliest person in the world..even though i wouldnt say that im that bad looking lol. But its just embarassing…ive been avoiding relationships all together because i know those usually lead to being naked lol…and just thinking about someone seeing them…is just…ugh. My worst fear would be the guy being a complete douchebag and making some smart ass remark..confirming anything that i had ever thought about myself and completely keeping my away from ever doing it again. I think it’s awesome that you girls are sooo comfortable with yourselves…i wish i could be like, im just way way way to self conscience.
I love them makes me hard all day long
I am 13 yeasr old nearly 14 and i have inverted nipples. I have told my mum i am worried but she said its nothing to worry about…but i still do! I have heard some boys in my school joke about inverted nipples and it makes me consious…for when im older! I do hope boys dont judge!
I so worried! HELP?
:S
Why has the happened ahve i dun sumthing to my nipples for this to happen? its so embarrasing!! Im so upset
I’ve had inverted nipples my whole teen years and I never showed a soul until I lost my virginity. The guy (my current husband) was a doll, sensitive to them, and kind. All it took was a little confidence and the sex is great. I do wish I had regular nipples sometimes, but he always reassures me that he loves and enjoyes me the way I am. Not all guys like them, some might be grossed out, but its important to know that you are beautiful anyway and a guy that knows that is really a good catch.
You’ve got to be kidding me– surgery??? Inverted nipples are hot… Check out the xxx film big naturals 2. It’s a popular film. Anyway The second or third girl has the most beautiful pair of tits I have ever seen and she has inverted nips. I doubt she’d be in the film if they were considered ‘gross.’
I’m 17 and I’m kind of starting to accept mine.
I figure a good portion of the women in the world have them, and guys should feel lucky to experience something that is different.
Some people seem to make a lot of fuss and appear quite outspoken on the subject…the question goes right back to what is considered normal and what is not by some people. The human body comes in many different shapes and varieties ,and we seem to focus on the genitals and other bits hanging off to get our kicks. Some people kick on one thing , others on something else.
Small nipples , large mipples , pointed nipples, inverted nipples : as for as men are concerned : small penises large penises , straight ones and curved , well , so be it.
It does not take more than a few hours surfing the net to see most bodyshapes and attachments and you’ll then come to the conclusion we all are what we are and how we are.I’m not aware of any ‘nipple’ dedicated websites as such, but the general girly sites will gives you a pretty good idea.
Go to a nudist beach next Summer, quite apart from the fact it is a ‘liberating’ experience, after 10 minutes you’ll find yourself reading a book or swimming rather than comparing your own body with others.
Whatever your body looks like ; enjoy it
I have such an issue with my nipples it hurts!!!! Had plastic surgery, didn’t really work…Paid a fortune!!! Because of my ‘abnormality’ i have had to become an absolute sex-goddess in order to detract attention from my boobs! I am what most people call really pretty and above average, but it doesn’t matter what anyone says, I feel like less of a woman…Please I need advice, reassurance, ANYTHING????
how come the surgery didnt work Ineke! I thought that was my only hope! Did you have the milk ducts cut? I am like you Iv never taken my bra off for my bf in 3 years! I will never be happy with them I feel like a freak xxx
In my opinion Inverted nipples can be beautiful things… my experience in the past with inverted nipples was preferred over those which are not… There’s something about the licking and sucking of the inverted nipples which is pleasing…
and as many people said if you can’t try and please the one you’re with you shouldn’t be allowed to be with them…
I have no idea why it didn’t work…to be honest, they are a lot better, and if I fiddle with them first they look quite good…My boyfriend thinks they are lovely and doesn’t want me to have a second op…But I am convinced that having them pierced will stretch them and make them stay out!!!! There are some beautiful nipple rings and nipple shields a la Janet Jackson out there…and no, I didn’t cut the milk ducts…
www.painfulpleasures.com - nipple piercing rings etc. - going to give it a try….
ok at least they worked a little bit i think ill go for it and glad you didnt have the milk ducts cut. Yeah go for the piercing they can look really nice and im sure it will help a lot let me know how it looks! xx
the second picture is pretty much dead on replica of my boob meat. i can joke about this now, i am 20 and realize that boobs are just boobs. some are more attractive than others, but you’re stuck with them until you have money to do something about it. i still get insecure about, but i have learned to make up it that. the people that have seen them haven’t really said much, or anything negative. i guess having D cups is more important than if you nipple is constantly hard. a guy i was seeing for a few years when i was younger gave me a weird look at first, which ended up with me crying in the bathroom for hours. they do make an appearance when i am cold, if i have my arms up for a while, or am really turned on. they are then “normal” for a while and go back to being flat. i guess the plus side is not having to worry if you can see my nipples through a shirt?
i guess what it comes down to for myself is that if you make fun of me for not having constant hard nipples, i will point out your flaws. i seriously doubt you’re packing a 10incher so don’t put me down.
there is nothing wrong with them you should not feel bad i have a friend who has them and im so jealous of her boobs everyones boobs are different. i mean is there a chat for girls with two big of outies?
I have flat nipples…I’m 21 years old and I just realized this recently. My nipples, although very small, do come out when turned on/cold- and I never even knew it wasn’t normal for them to be flat when not hard. My friends and I have been talking about body issues lately and everyone talks about how gross inverted nipples are…….now I’m so embarrassed! I honestly wish that I was still ignorant about this. I have always been confident and have had no problem being naked in front of guys. But, now that I know I’m different I’m so ashamed and never want any guy to touch me or see! Hopefully I will be able to revert back to my former, confident self..
For all those other girls out there with flat and inverted nipples…it just shows that we are the only ones who really care or think about it!! Before I knew, I hooked up with so many guys and had several relationships, and not once did anyone ever say anything negative or even mention it!
I have inverted nipples and I HATE THEM. I’m getting the surgery when I’m older, but, I showed mine to my boyfriend for the first time last week, after 10 months hahah, and he was great about it, he said he loved them and they were perfect, though it’s the only real pair of boobs he’s ever seen… and he knows how self concious I am, but I’ve only let him touch and see under a blanket so it’s dark… Hate them though, they don’t look that bad, considering all are different and I don’t find any attractive, but still I hate that mine are weird… but I heard that one in every ten people have them.
i have one inverted nipple, im so embarased by it
it never comes out no matter what. i went out with this guy for 2 years n he didnt mind at all, he sed he prefered them to normal nipples.. :S i dont know whats wrong with him lol..anyway he made me feel really comfortable bout them n they werent an issue. but we split up n im currently nearly with this other guy, josh. he doesnt know yet n im not gna tell him , its too embarasing especially seen as when we were out with his friends a few days ago one of his friends was slagging off their ex cos she had them n all the lads including josh agreed that she was a freak. i felt reallly insecure about them, more than ever, i really like the guy n didnt think it wud be a problem until now. what should i do??
if this guy doesnt accept your inverted nipples
hes not worth it =]
ive been with my bf for 3 YEARS now and he STILL hasnt seen them he must be thinking theres something seriously up with them. Anyway as i said earlier, my bf made similar comments kayleigh you know theyr weird etc but im sure if they knew we had them theyd be fine cos if he had something up with his penis ie crooked or summat i wouldnt care i really wouldnt! Boys are just thoughtless bastards sometimes they say horible selfish things and dont think about other peoples feelings, he will have said that cos he was with his mates. Lets face it theres no way a lads gonna say ‘oh no i love them actually’ when all his mates are saying otherwise. i just dunno what to do though ive saved up like 500 quid now for the op but its just so much money for something so trivial 2 little bumps on your boobs. im not saying this for any kind of sympathy just to put things in perspective but a member of my family has just died through a long illness and it just makes you realise how stupid it is to worry about things like this but for some reason it still doesnt make me think lifes too short to worry. arrghhh happy new year xxxx
I used to have inverted nipples (since birth), and I totally agree with all the girls who say above that it’s hugely embarrassing and affects you not just physically, but emotionally and psychologically as well.
I’d also like to say that the Avent Niplette DOES work (for me at least), although I find that it’s most successful when used in combination with baby lotion or something. Trying to ’stretch it out’ any other way hurts like the bejeezes, and you really do have to wear it for at least 8 hours a day (but remember - it works!). Mine used to be totally inverted, never seen them out in my life, in fact if they were pinched they would go INWARDS (scary, ugly, terrifying, abnormal, all those thoughts running through my head).
After just over a week with the niplette, they are now flat/slightly everted, and when coaxed will stay out for a while. I expect that after 3 months (recommended length of usage) they will stay out permanently. Persistence is really the key here - it will work, but overnight results won’t happen. You’re more likely to see significant change after 3-4 weeks, they say.
Responding to the topic now? Can’t really answer it as I’m a girl, but it is great to hear that there are guys out there that are willing to give the innies just as much love as the outies. Probably a good opportunity also to state that if you have a girl with innies, she’s most likely going to be self-conscious about it. REALLY self-conscious about it. Just a heads up - she will then be REALLY appreciative and loving when you tell her (very quickly) that you still think she’s awesome.
I dated a girl for a year and a half that had inverted nipples and it didnt bother me at all. I thought they were just as cool either way… but then again… i have inverted nipples too haha.
I dated a girl who had IN and beautiful, firm, full and round breasts. I loved her and her breasts and would take time massaging them with my hands and mouth, which she loved, but Nancy was always self-conscious about her nipples. When her nipples became aroused they were quite large and long, which was surprising- like almost an inch long and very firm. One time she asked me to bite them and I could not believe how aroused she became. Anyway, I always told her how great they were and how they were unique and beautiful, but she always dismissed me. We stopped dating because (I think) I refused to have sex without a condom. Different issue, I know, but my point to any women out there with IN is to celebrate them! They are beautiful!!!
Would entirely and absolutely revell and bask in your admiring sunshine…My lover has recently been formally introduced to my beauties…and..surprise, surprise! He adores them, and didnt even realise there was a problem…I also love having them bitten, and he loves coaxing them out and feels they are exclusively his…I always get complimented on my cleavage, and feel like a fraud…this is slowly changing…Have my nether regions adored and graced with amazing sensitivity and am totally turned on by watching and feeling my man continually sucking on my nipples….
Hey ya’ll..
I really need some help, I’m 17 which is a really rough age to be dealing with the physical and emotional struggles of having completely inverted nipples. I never used to know there was anything wrong with me until a few years ago and ever since then its been a downward spiral of depression and extreme insecurity. Somedays I can’t even look in the mirror without bursting into tears. I could only the nipplette on the internet about and so my mum has just got around to buying me one. However I was ecstatic to finally recieve one and thought it would be the end to all my problems. I’ve never seen my nipples before! and still after a few days of wearing the nipplette I’ve not seen them. I think things have improved a small amount and I think they could be on the move. But I don’t understand why the process is going so slowly, and if it was going to happen, wouldn’t they have come out already? Another problem I’m experiencing which can’t be right is bleeding. Only a very very small amount. Like a drop in the thimble. But it still shouldn’t be there. Its also very painful when I first apply the nipplette. After a while the pain dies down as my body gets used to it. But everything I’ve read has told me its painless and the nipple comes out immediately just doesnt stay out once you remove the thimbles. BUT MINE HAV’NT COME OUT ATALL!
Nothing I read helps and I’m feeling hopeless. About to hit rock bottom anyday now as the nipplette was kind of my only shot. Me being poor means surgery is just out of bounds.
Can’t stress enough how much I could use your inut guys. Anything atall!?
Thanks =] x x x
hey nay
I think you probably have the exact same nipples as me, are they just completely flat with a slit in the middle like the second picture, as opposed to the first one? Im so sorry to tell you this but i dont think the niplette will work for you, it hasnt for me, ive been using it for nearly 2 years now and its not worked, id be surprised if it worked for anyone, it has made me have sort of fake nipples appear when i pinch them really hard, but that last for a few seconds at the most. Ive started putting £50 away for surgery every month. Im annoyed at the makers of niplette because they give you false hope and its not fair to say ‘there is no reason why it shouldnt work’ because it hasnt for me, also as regards to the blood, i had that, dont worry it is aparently normal. Does it come from very cracked skin cos thats what its just chapped skin all over my nipple and its very sore. Im also at rock bottom and cry constantly over them i hate them and have never shown my bf my boobs it is ruining my relationship and i have no self esteem. But then i just think even though to me it is a major thing there are so many more people worse off in the worls and its really something so small. But unfortunately i think your only option will be surgery cos the niplette is bollocks a complete scam it probably works on people with ‘grade 1′ nipples where they come out easily but to people like us who dont have any nipples it will never work, so sorry to tell you this but its better to know cos theyll tell u it will definately work but it doesnt.
Let us know how u feel
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Hey girls,
The two posts above me make me so sad… Can’t tell you how much I sympathize with you and your pain, first of all. I know what it’s like to look in the mirror and recoil from your own reflection, to want to never ever show your nipples to a guy, to feel extreme despair and depression over this “imperfection.” I bought the Niplette about two years ago, ecstatic like you, and ended up disappointed–it just wasn’t meant for my body I guess, maybe it helped slightly but didn’t change my nipples much at all. There goes $50 right? It’s such a sad feeling to realize they won’t work for you. I’m happy for but jealous of the girls who have had success with them. I’m 18 now, at college, and at this point I feel better than I did about them. I know they’re different, something that will always be looked down upon in our society. I will always have to live with that. But different can be beautiful, even if just in an unorthodox way. I have A-cups by the way, and there’s a stigma against that in the first place, so I have a lot to overcome about confidence with my breasts. But I have had so many more successful experiences with other people’s reactions to them than failures. First boyfriend I showed them to after a month (I was terrified of course) but he loved them and has always held to the statement that he prefers them over most other nipples. He thought them to be less offensive, less bulbous and more attractive. When I finally got comfortable showing them to him without my hands covering my breasts, my life was good. It’s a great feeling to have someone accept and embrace an insecurity like that. We dated for two years. Now, at school, I am dating another boy, another 18-year-old. Again I was nervous to show him them, but when I did I only got totally positive feedback. It’s possible that I just choose sweet and accepting guys to date, but I haven’t ever showed them to someone (boyfriend or hookup) who commented negatively. I think it’s a bit disconcerting to them at first, cuz it’s not exactly what they’re expecting to see or feel, but it’s not such a bad surprise and it’s such a small deal to most guys–there are so many other more important characteristics to worry about than nipple shape. In fact, I recentlty (apprehensively) showed them to a guy friend known for being bluntly honest and he said he saw nothing wrong with them at all and he even liked them. I’m sure there may be guys out there who would consider inverted nipples a big deal, but they are most likely few and far between and not worth dating anyway. I’ve pretty much come to grips with this flaw of mine (though of course part of me still hates them) and once you have that acceptance of yourself, other people’s acceptance follows. So I sympathize greatly with all of you, but the success stories on this site have helped me a lot over this last year and hopefully this one will encourage you. I know it’s hard to remember but you are beautiful and so are your breasts, maybe even more so with the unique trait of inverted nipples. Please try to embrace them as a part of yourself. Try not to be sad… You’ll be okay.
I am so relieved right now. I always knew other women had inverted nipples but I never knew just how many. I always thought I was crazy for being ashamed of them; afraid to show them off. Everyone always said I had beautiful breasts and in my head I would alwasy respond with ‘if you only knew’. My boyfriend LOVES them. He’s found many ways to turn me one and anytime he can he’s got to be touching them…so cute. To women who feel badly about them…don’t. Embrace your beauty. I know it’s hard..believe me. I couldn’t and still sometimes can’t even watch a movie with nudity in it without wanting to cry. I feel like my boyfriend is thinking ‘I wish my girl had breasts like that’. It’s a depressing thought, very hard to deal with. But I must say, coming to this site today has changed my view of thing, ever so slightly.
Hello, I am the usual male who loves sucking on, playing with and looking at breasts — never have I felt turned off by inverted nipples — it has been my experience that they pop out nicely when played with and they no way distract from my pleasure of looking at a breast — I am always appreciative of a view –
I have nipples but when its not cold or when I’m not aroused there just flat… And I just want them to prutude always… and just stay that way…… I’m just keep’n it real… So N-E ways let me tell you what Happened….
I’ve been reading different sites and There is a cure….
Well I haven’t done it yet… but I definitely will…. I asked a Question on Craigslist about having inverted nipples and I got a response that made me sooooo happy…. They told me that to get exverted nipples all you need to do is get a Piercing…. Thats it… and they’ll come out and not go back in… You’ll be back to feeling normal about your self and more confident then ever…. Just think your getting a piercing and not only is it making your breast exverted (point outward) its also very stylish as well…. So I hope that can help… When I was told I was very excited…I hope to here someones results from this soon…! I know there’s some warnings like anything else but I think if you go to the right piercer and you get the right size nipple ring then there should be no problem…… I just know it well work… Just look at the sites…
http://wiki.bmezine.com/index.php/Inverted_Nipples
p.s. tell me what you think….. I think it works… I’ll let you know when I get mine done…. 4sure…!
Hi guys, i’ve just been reading Lushays comments on the nipple piercing, which sounds brill
but I found a solution that’s a bit less harmful and has the same effect, Nipple rings, i bought them from an adult web site that sells toys etc, they are fab , all it is , is a piece of really thin metal and you coax your nipple out and pop the ring around the nipple and make it as tight as you like, because the rings come open to enable you to do this, they are really for nipple arousal
but once you’ve got them on nipples stay erect as long as you want them to.
I bought them before i went on holiday last year, as my bloke loves to go to nudist beaches, can you imagine that, having to have my nipples on show for all to see, he doesn’t see it has a big deal because he loves them, but I totally hate them, but the nipple rings worked, you can’t wear them for hours on end, because they make the nipple a little sore, but wearing them on and off
helps lots. And i didn’t worry about anyone staring at me at all. I would defo try them before you try the piercing unless of course you don’t mind getting pierced, then go for it.
Whatever helps i say.
Looking at the adult sites is good fun too, lots of good stuff to buy. xxxxxx
Hi guys, i’ve just been reading Lushays comments on the nipple piercing, which sounds brill
but I found a solution that’s a bit less harmful and has the same effect, Nipple rings, i bought them from an adult web site that sells toys etc, they are fab , all it is , is a piece of really thin metal and you coax your nipple out and pop the ring around the nipple and make it as tight as you like, because the rings come open to enable you to do this, they are really for nipple arousal
but once you’ve got them on nipples stay erect as long as you want them to.
I bought them before i went on holiday last year, as my bloke loves to go to nudist beaches, can you imagine that, having to have my nipples on show for all to see, he doesn’t see it has a big deal because he loves them, but I totally hate them, but the nipple rings worked, you can’t wear them for hours on end, because they make the nipple a little sore, but wearing them on and off
helps lots. And i didn’t worry about anyone staring at me at all. I would defo try them before you try the piercing unless of course you don’t mind getting pierced, then go for it.
Whatever helps i say.
Looking at the adult sites is good fun too, lots of good stuff to buy. xxxxxx
Honest answer to Rachael…When I had my op,I was so embarrassed that I told everyone, including my best friend, that I had to have a lump removed…I didn’t go as far as saying it was melignant…but said it could become serious…even when lying across from anothr patient who had obviously had a nose job, i lied and said i had a lift…nearly died when the staff mentioned a nipple reversion! My nipples are way bettr than they were, however I wanted to have them redone, at the absolute dispair of my boyfriend -who felt that they were his special nipples, and that he alone had the ability to coaxe them out and keep them that way!…In the past the only reason why they werent properly noticed was because I always averted attention away from them saying that I was way more sensitive and turned on downstairs…I am at a point now that I can lie in a sauna without a bra on , tweak them and lay down , casually pulling them and admiring there lengthening capacity to stay erect… My latest trick is to absolutely adore and admire them when they are out…which somehow makes them stay out longer and make me feel sexier…
thanks for your advice Ineke! i am set on getting the op now, if you got it done again would you get the ducts cut? its funny that you say that about saying you had a lump removed cos i was gonna use that excuse at work so i dont have to lift things afterwards cos theres no way im admitting ive had nipple surgery! Thanks again! xxx
thanks so much for all your advice Ineke! i really appreciate it. Im set on getting the op now! its funny you should say you used the excuse of having a lump removed because i was thinking of saying something like ive had a mole removed so i dont have to lift boxes and things at work!
If you had it done again will you have your ducts cut? and do you have scars?
I swear i wont ask you anything else!
Thanks again! your a star xxxx
okay so i have inverted nipples and i never even knew i had them til just recently and i always noticed they were alil diffrentt, but no one has ever said anything bad, except one guy said they looked like chocolate chips
i didnt know if it was a bad thing or a good thing! anyways ive been with my bf for a year now and he i dont even think he notices but im pretty sure he likes them but i hate themm and i feel eww.
reading all of these comments brought tears to my eyes. I have innies and didnt even realize until i read something in a magazine asking if it was normal. “corrective” surgery is very unnessicary and drastic. what needs to be corrected is in our heads. everyone having and striving for carbon copies of one anothers hair and body types is the norm but its pathetic, no one collects four leaf clovers. be glad you have innies, it really is the same as innie or outtie belly buttons, or anything else completely trivial. plus it separates the decent men from the shallow, if a guy’s out over an innie nippie be thankful you found that out early enough! and i know its hard to hear comments other people make but its really the same thing as making a fat joke or comment when there isnt one present, no one knows you have them and if they did they just wouldnt say negative things about them thats all. some people have wierd birthmarks some have innies, one innie, people are different, and it’s wonderful, find company that loves you as an individual.
Hey everyone! I too have inverted nipples and it totally sucks! I*m sick of being embarassed of them so I was wondering If anybody here has tried the Avent Niplette thing?? Does it work??? Yes or No?? I want to get rid of this problem once and for all! haha I need answerssssssssssssss =)
I also have inverted nipples. When I was younger, I was afraid that the small bumps meant that I had breast cancer. Now that I know this not to be the case, I just want them fixed!! I had been considering having my nipples pierced soon, even before finding out that it could “cure” me. I’m most definately going tomorrow. My fiance doesn’t seem to mind, however, I just don’t feel comfortable knowing that I can fix this.
I have them too! There are a lot of us aren’t there. My boyfriend of 3 years has only ever seen them after I’ve been there first for a tweek so he doesn’t even know! I hate the thought he might be turned off, but also hate that once its acknowledged he might tell other people.
I dont know what causes inverted nipples but I remember my older brother was always thumping me in the chest when we were kids. It hurt like hell and I’m convinced he damaged me! I’m still angry with him about it now that we’re adults, though its never spoken about.
This is a huge problem as it absolutely ruins the self-esteem of teenage girls.
For doctors to dismiss it as not a problem, its a variation of normal, is completely demoralising and misses the point entirely.
i am a girl so i cant really help out with the actual question about what guys think of inverted nipples but im hoping that this can be related to. i wish that this very common problem was more publicised so i didnt feel like i was so deformed - sorry harsh words.
i know no one else who has them and it makes me feel so alienated. i dont understand how for such a common problem ive never come across someone else my age (17) who has told me they have the same insecurity and felt the same way. everyone must hide their inverted nipples well. i used to stand infront of the mirror for hours on end and pull at the skin trying to pull them out often making my skin directly around my nipple crack and bleed. i always wear padded bras and as for swimming its another self concious experience all together.
ive been to a plastic surgeoun who told me he will correct them for me. what he will do is cut around the outline of my ‘nipple’and cut the cord type tissue underneath which is my milk ducts which will make them hopefully petrude. i’m scared about scarring and it not working does anyone have any information to help me out?
I’m still very interested in what guys think of inverted nipples tho… ive been with my boyfriend for a year and i just dont know what he’ll think and how im going to explain to him about the operation. id like to show one person them before i go for the operation. i am an optimist but i would like to know what the worst i can expect is…any personal experiences? do guys know about inverted nipples? and are they one of those things that are constantly slagged off about in guy-to-guy conversations?
ive read everyones comments and i think its great that i there is someone other then doctors saying its normal and i can relate to many of the comments previous to mine.
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Hi Hear.me.out
Take my comments for what they are and make up your own mind…but please don’t worry about what boyfriends thinks or say, or what you might think they think. I am a 50 year old male and after my divorce 10 years ago I dated a number of Ladies, one of which had inverted nipples. The fact it did not work out together had nothing to do with her nipples, it was purely her personality in the end, or lack of rather.
Yes, physical attributes is something us Men look at in the first 10 seconds of meeting someone, after that it is not that important and personality and character play a much more important role.
Also, ask your plastic surgeon whther you will retain full sensitivity in your nipples/breasts after the operation. The questions is do you want to give up a degree of sensitivity/ feelings of arousal in your nipples for the rest of your life at the age of 17 ?
Another thing, please bear in mind that it is not only Ladies who have to deal with things like inverted nipples etc….some men can have the same.
Play it safe, take your time to decide.
All the best ,
Richard
thanks richard:),
your comment really made me feel so much better about my self and what other people may think about my body. i do know ive rushed into the operation a bit and i am going to take my time in deciding whether or not there are alternative treatments that arent so hard on my body that i could have. my brothers have inverted nipples also but they are younger then me so they dont really worry too much about it although one of them whos now 15 doesnt ever go swimming without a shirt because he knows that they arent the same as his friends. its hereditory right?
thanks again, im taking in every bit of information that can be given to me and i appreciate that you took up your own time on helping me out.
Hello all, I have inverted nipples and I didn’t even realize it til sometime in high school when a boy referred to mine as, “you have the tea cup kind.” Well, firstly, this made me feel very self conscious…but more importantly, it showed me that I am not the only girl with this type of nipple if there was a knick name created for it. I thought about it for a while and came to the conclusion, hey! what is more feminine than a tea cup
And in time, I have learned to accept my body for the way it is. And that it is beautiful. However, I have also been standing around a group of guys talking about how “weird” an inverted nipple is..and yes, this did make me feel nervous about my breasts BUT get this….I once heard my own boyfriend say a comment about a friend’s sister that supposedly had inverted nipples, and how he thought that must be soooo unattractive..THE FUNNY THING IS that he and I had already been intimate for years by this time AND HE LOVED MY BREASTS!! He didnt even realize what the heck he was talking about!! Ladies, my point here is..most men talk the talk just to sound cool around other men…I have always had men tell me that my breasts are beautifull..not once have one of them ignored my breasts because my nipples lay flat at times. They totally enjoy making my nipples hard..They can tongue them, or pinch them, or gently nibble on them..and out the nipple comes! In fact, I think it turns them on tenfold. Its just another indicator that they are doing their job in turning me on. Who doesn’t love a little reasurance? And this exactly what the inverted nipple does..It shows response!! So just keep in mind that Men Love Boobs! Don’t let your own insecurities (they are mostly just in your heads my dears) ruin your romantic intimacy. Give your nips a good pinch before he sees them if you need a little help..and once things get going, don’t be afraid to pinch them again while you are being intimate..Men love to see you touch yourself too. Embrace your body..its your temple 
As neurotic as what I am and have been previously… I now, as a nearly 30 year old, sexy, sex loving lady, have some simple,raw wise words of advice, for all you apparently ‘deformed women’… wear a bra, moisturize, adore, and plump out the mass of your breasts…lets be honest, boys as a rulooe, don’t generally have a clue of how to to deal, handle or entice yor nipples, ie. the washer, dryer effect..the weight and fullness of your breast are what men are affected and curious about…nipples are the enticing part of the appeal… Enjoy and revell in the plump, aroused, perkiness of your nipple…especially in its pre-period state…express the intent of your arousal and greatfullness, even more so, when your partner is perhaps taking an especially long time to get hard…use the normal, general respose as an absolute example for your intimate unusual responsivenes…Make them look enticing, full , and aroused in yor bra, - and there will be no reason for them to absolutely be just so!!!
i have inverted nipples and really hate it. I’m 18 years old and have been thinking about getting surgery for a while now. but for those of you who have gotten this surgery have you had any effects? such as scarring or loosing feeling? and do they look natural afterwards?
I also have innies (like the first picture) and I have been self-conscious about them for as long as I can remember (I’m 21). I was reading into solutions - ways of protracting the nipple - when I stumbled across this page…
I would like to modify my nipples for the two following reasons: 1) I want to increase stimulation (at the moment, I don’t seem to feel much, as they barely even ‘come out’ when aroused, 2) I have always contemplated stripping but I think my nipples would really hold me back, at least personally (I mean, afterall, it IS all about aesthetic value). So I think I will look into this Niplette idea and probably try a piercing as well (hopefully one of these methods work!). I briefly contemplated surgery but the risks and financial costs are far too high.
But I think it is important to remain realistic about these procedures, although some people have great success stories, they won’t work for everyone. So I think if you are considering modification, you should be prepared for the consequences of not succeeding.
As for the boys issue: Personally, it has never been a problem for me. Maybe I have just been lucky with guys. But nevertheless I think there’s no point in delaying the inevitable. I know it sounds cliche’d but just jump right in, show him! The worst that can happen is that he is a douchebag and narrow-minded and probably isn’t worth your time (another cliche, but true). However, if there’s one thing I learned from modelling (and it it a terrible industry!), it is that you should never expose your “flaws”. If you constantly draw attention to them (in a negative light), and treat them as a flaw, your partner will eventually agree with you (and can you blame him?).
Ultimately, guys probably prefer “normal” nipples to inverted or flat ones because they are ubiquitous and more common. But it is such a small issue when you can look at it objectively. I know that last sentence will probably upset or anger some of you, but I wholeheartedly believe it. Try embracing your best features: Get a tattoo, a piercing, do bodypainting… At least with unique nipples it is relatively easy to hide them from the general public. There are worse “deformities” to have.
Anyway, that’s my rant. I’m sure you won’t agree with some (or most) of it but it is my opinion. After reading all your contributions, the least I could do was add my own.
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hi im a 17 year old girl and i just thought i should let you guys know that yesterday i got an operation to correct my inverted nipples and maybe some people might like to know what the surgory is like and any other stuff about it you might wanna know.
Well it cost about $1200 australian dollars (i live in canberra) and it can be covered by health insurance depending on who you see also. I went into hospital yesterday and they put me to sleep, the surgory took about 30 mins and i woke up 2 hours later and i had bandages over both nipples. Im a bit sore today but not as much as i thought id be and a bit drowsy but overall fine. There is a bit of blood coming through the bandages but i wont be able to take them off for a few more days but ill keep you updated when i finally see what they did and whether im happy with the results.
cheers
For that matter I have never seen them like that in person and wish my woman/women of the past had them.
hmm first post didn’t enter… Basically I said I think they are sexy and I found this site looking for them. Be proud of em… if your man has issues with em you should find a man lie me I would make em feel right at home… Minus already being involved with someone but if I go single again…
i too have inverted nipples, one is more flat than the other
i had the avent nipplette but i lost the syringe !
it made a difference but now a few months later they are back to where they were.
they both protude when im cold or i make them come out but one more than the other
ive had a boyfriend for 7 months now he has seen them when ive made them protrude and once or twice when not, i dont even think he realised (or cared)
but i am still sooooooooooooooooooooooo self concious about it! i cry about it sometimes because although it seems silly because its something so small it has a huge toll on me
i really want the surgery when im 18
ok so i got my bandages off today and i am in complete shock. Its been a week since the surgery and so i know that they are still healing but it was not a pleasant appearance. My right breast is very very dry skinned and bruised. The nipple looks to be honest.. absolutly awful there is skin literally falling off it and its scabby and just really really horrible but it is not inverted its been cut into from the above and below it and sowed to stay up right. Im starting to wonder whether or not it would of had this surgory knowing the results. As for my left nipple. Well it was more severely inverted than my other nipple and it is still slightly inverted but one half of it is coming out a bit, its mostly flat. It was very scabby but now it is more just infected looking. I just really hope that my plastic surgeon knows what he was doing cos atm im just praying that its not gonna stay this way. To be honest im really in regret and hoping that they are just healing and all will be fine soon.
oh no jessica thats awful, im sure they will heal fine though, look at people who have facelifts they look like theyv had a car crash at first but then they look great when theyv healed. Im still going to go ahead with the surgery i think but if you could keep it updated about how yours is going. Im sure though it will heal fine its bound to look bad theyv been cut up after all, can you not ring your surgeon and ask them if its normal? Hope it gets better soon! xx
also Jessica did you have the ducts cut?? Thanks
I have inverted nipples and I think my boobs are fantastic. I have never ever thought that I had a ‘disorder’ or that there was anything wrong with them at all. No guy has ever had a problem with them either. One guy did seem really curious, but it just meant that he played with them more. And heaven help any guy that should dare to complain about them! He should consider himself lucky for being able to see them. There is nothing wrong with inverted nipples at all, you girls just need to learn to appreciate yourselves for who you are. I’d be worrying about that and not the nips if I were you.
thanks rachel i really appreciate your support. I did get my milk ducts cut and i got internal stiching on it aswell. Its been a couple days now since i got my bandages off and theyre starting to heal a lot better. My mum said the exact same thing about the car crash thing lol. I can now see what my plastic surgeon has tried to do and i think its going to turn out ok but i think i went into the operation with pretty high expectations so i think that thats the number 1 thing not to do if you decide to get the surgory. I know I should probably be saying love your body and be comfortable being unique but congrats on having the courage to go and get the surgery rachel
sooooooooo pleased its healing better! Im sure this time next month theyll look amazing and well done to you for getting it done especially at 17 and its so good your mum is supporting you cos im having to hide mine from my whole family trying to find excuses on what to say when i go for my consultation! Hope it keeps getting better and better for you and im sure in 6 months you wont even know youv had surgery when the scars have faded! its all well and good people saying love your body and what youv got but unfortunately some of us never will and if getting surgery helps you feel better and confident go for it! Best of luck with the healing Jessica!
Im a guy and i have inverted nipples and im thinking of getting them pierced ive heard it works and is not that painful.
yeah thats right you heard correctly im a guy a 12 year old actually so just letting you guys know its not only girls who get this condition it can be little 12 year old boys aswell.
hey um i have inverted nipples like most people on this site. and im really embaressed by them. i am only 16 and my parents dont want me to get surgery yet because they’re like its not a big deal and you shouldnt be showing anyone them anyway. and even though i do wanna show people them its not only that, for me its just a self consious issue and even if noone sees them i want to feel good on the inside and how can they say its not a big deal they dont have them..id rather just feel normal. the guy that im with right now is always wondering why i wont show my boobs to him and i would rather not tell him because i dont know what he will think. but he did say that imperfections make people beautiful. but still i dont want to show him cause i dont want him to tell people when me and him are done. cause i had a guy tell people when we were done. and itswerid cause when we were together he didnt say anything about them and then when we over he like told people.. and i didnt think it bothered him i just think he was trying to hurt me. and i just got the avent nippolette thing and ive been reading everyones comments about how it doesnt work and i was wondering if it did work for anyone at all? ehh well all these comments are really nice and they are making me feel a little better about myself but i was wondering if someone could comment back on mine because im feeling pretty down right now
Hi! I’m a 22 year old woman. I also have inverted nipples. I dont like them, i want to get surgery or buy the nipplete, also besides those products, i saw something, that i would like you guys to tell me if it works or not, its on this website nipplefunwear.com
sometimes i try forget about them, but i still try to hide them from my boyfriend. he says he likes them and that he doesnt care i have them, i just feel unnatractive, it puts weight on lowering my self esteem.
hey lila im 17 and having inverted nipples is something that is a pretty huge weight on your self esteem. I have boyfriend and ive been with him for nearly 8 months and i still havent showed him my nipples or anything because im really self concious aswell. But ive been thinking that nipples are a pretty insignificant part of a relationship and the human body. Ive seen some really attractive models with inverted nipples and there are photos of well known actresses with inverted nipples where ive never heard or seen a comment on how ugly their nipples are. Ive seen so many forums for people with fetishes for inverted nipple (LOL) and its a completely normal thing to have. In a way i just wish it was more publicised or something so people would know about them and accept them as a normal thing not think they are some kind of deformity or be confused about where the nipple went. There are so many people out there who feel alone and deformed.
If you dont focus on the tiny imperfections of your body and focus on the full picture, which is what everyone else does when they look at another person, im sure youll feel a lot more comfortable in your own skin. No one is perfect and maybe its your imperfections that make you beautifuly unique and who you are. I dont know if that really helped but its just some thoughts that go through my head when i feel down on myself.
hey jessica thanks..that actually did help alot and your right when you say that it should be published more so people know about them and accept them as a normal thing..but i definitly will think about what you said when im feeling self concious thanks!
why is this treated as a disgusting thing when its completely normal?
this makes me feel like a freak wen i shouldnt
Im 18 and have inverted nipples, they have plagued me for years despite having two long term relationships. I too had a boyfriend who took the mick when we’d broken up and i think my worry for it has got worse with time. I find it hard to trust people in relationships because of it, but i cant afford the surgery and i have the niplette, but it doesnt work, it just makes them sore and they always go back afterwards.
Is it possible to get the op on the NHS in England does anyone know?
And im also interested to know if any famous people have been open about it or found out (so to speak).
Replies greatly greatly appreciated !
i heard rumours that the presenter Cat Deeley from the America’s “So you think you can dance” has them? And there are tonnes of chicks on Suicide Girls who have them and they dont look unattractive at all. There is also a photo of Neve Campbell’s boobs with inverted nipples circling the internet and she has them but i dont know if its real? Hope it helped.
Ive got inverted nipples. And i never told anyone about it until i met my last boyfriend, everytime e went near my boobs id move his hand and we’d have sex with my bra and top on. Then after a month and he told me that he loved me, i told him that night, e told me e didnt care and e ad bin with another girl who had had them and that she wasnt bothered about them, later on i found out this was a lie, but e was just trying to make me feel better about it, so i thought that was quite sweet
But yea i was with him for a yr and a half, and he made me so confident about them. Ive now told several ppl, which i never thought i could do the only responses ive had are: ’so?’ ‘whats that’ (tht was quite embarassin having to try and explain it lol but when i told them they didnt care. And the last person i told was like ’so? so have i!!!’ So its not jus us girls that get them. I still get a bit funny when it is someone new that i have to tell, but as soon as ive told the person il glady ‘get em out’ . . its just thewhole letting them know before thing that i get a bit scared about. But yeah noone has ever made a funny comment about them. And to be honest they shouldnt ever either, its just a small little thing on your body, which does not really affect u in any way… After youve told the first person youll be fine. But i hope everyone everyone who reads this understands that it really aint nuffin big . . .and this is coming from a 17 year girl who has them…get on with it…
hope this makes even just one person think ‘yh im gun b proud of it’. Cause u should be!!!
But one tip if you dont want surgery or to use the niplette thing…Get them pierced. When you get them pierced they get the nipple to come out and pierce and they will stay outwards
hi was just wondering how Jessica who had the surgery is getting on? Hows it healing
xxx
im doin good thanks for asking
hows everything going for you? Are you still going for the surgory?? keep me up to date lol.
Ill keep you in the loop if anything changes or any questions wanna be answ
Its been like 4 weeks or so since my surgery and apart from some skin tags on my right nipple its pretty much lookin alright but im worried the nipple might invert again but its most probably me being paranoid. My left nipple healed a lot slower but is pretty much healed now. im a little pissed that the surgeon cut straight down through the nipple (well thats what it looks like) so when i see him next i’ll be having words. He did say he was goin to cut above and below so ill make sure i ask him why. Anyways. My boobs are always gonna be a little different so im gonna try not to obsess so much